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KangarooInMalibu
December 1st, 2015, 10:29 PM
A few months ago I started crushing on a boy in my Team Sports class in school. We’ve known each other since Jr. High, but we never talked to each other very often. This year though we have been talking a little bit more, especially if we end up on the same team. Sometimes during class, I notice him looking at me but I’m not always sure if he’s looking at me, or at someone behind or near me. Another time, a football hit me lightly on the leg and he jokingly yelled out to me, “Oh no, Sara!” before retrieving the ball and throwing it back.

Yesterday evening, I noticed we were no longer friends on Facebook and realized he must’ve unfriended me. From what I remember, we haven’t had any negative feelings towards each other and the last time we saw each other (earlier that morning) we were on the same team together and had positive interactions together.

Is the fact that he unfriended me supposed to mean anything? I heard somewhere that boys do that because they’re trying to get your attention. Is that true?

SethfromMI
December 1st, 2015, 10:31 PM
eh the facebook thing might not mean anything. I used to add everyone, now I have very few friends on facebook. nothing personal to those I got rid of (though some of them I wanted on there even less than others). I would try actually talking to him

ashdyn
December 1st, 2015, 11:10 PM
Forreal. Sometimes I randomly notice old friends of mine that somehow got unfriended on Facebook then friend them again and they're like wtf we weren't friends on here?!?!

So yeah. Probably doesn't mean anything. Just friend him again and it'll just be another thing to talk about. You could even flip that into flirtation if you want lol

Bontigo Papi .
December 2nd, 2015, 01:49 AM
I assume that if you have over 1000 friends on Facebook, you don't even know 2/3 of them. He probably wouldn't do it if he actually knew you better so just talking doesn't mean he knows everything, so maybe talk to him face-to-face, get his number, kik, snapchat, whatever you Americans use, and talk to him like that. He can't unfriend you that way.