Cupcakewaifu
November 26th, 2015, 11:31 PM
Okay it's kind of a long story I'm sorryyyy
So, this guy and I started talking about this time last year. Prior to then I only knew him since he was in my band class, but we never talked. So we sparked up conversation on Facebook, and eventually it became daily. After getting to know him a bit, he would sometimes vent to me about his (now ex) girlfriend and how he wanted to break up with her. They had been together for over a year and a half, but he didn't feel like they had anything in common anymore. I would always try to help him and give advice, but he never did anything about. He didn't want to hurt her feelings, so they kept dating. Around March of this year we confessed that we liked each other and such. He had told me that he's liked me for awhile now, even before we started talking. A week after this, I ended up moving to a whole other country for family reasons. We still talked a lot, that aspect didn't change. If anything, our feelings definitely grew stronger. Before I knew it, he had finally broken up with his girlfriend a month or so later. He would always talk about how excited he was for me to come back home, and for us to start dating and all this cute stuff. We started talking less and less due to the time difference and school hours, and eventually stopped altogether by the time June came around. I finally moved back in early September, but by then he had a different girlfriend. ( One whom he had spoken about kind of liking at one point, but he said the feelings died out since she was realllllyyyy peppy and not his type lol ) I still find it really hard to believe he moved on that quickly. I know he always talked about hating to be alone (relationship/friend wise) due to some stuff that happened in the past, but would he really settle for his second choice just because of that? I still get the occasional message from him really late at night (no not like that lol we're only 15/16) if he's just bored or wants someone to talk to. It just sucks that I still really like him and I can't see me being with anyone else at this point in time. I know I'll get over it, but a huge part of me doesn't want to.
So, this guy and I started talking about this time last year. Prior to then I only knew him since he was in my band class, but we never talked. So we sparked up conversation on Facebook, and eventually it became daily. After getting to know him a bit, he would sometimes vent to me about his (now ex) girlfriend and how he wanted to break up with her. They had been together for over a year and a half, but he didn't feel like they had anything in common anymore. I would always try to help him and give advice, but he never did anything about. He didn't want to hurt her feelings, so they kept dating. Around March of this year we confessed that we liked each other and such. He had told me that he's liked me for awhile now, even before we started talking. A week after this, I ended up moving to a whole other country for family reasons. We still talked a lot, that aspect didn't change. If anything, our feelings definitely grew stronger. Before I knew it, he had finally broken up with his girlfriend a month or so later. He would always talk about how excited he was for me to come back home, and for us to start dating and all this cute stuff. We started talking less and less due to the time difference and school hours, and eventually stopped altogether by the time June came around. I finally moved back in early September, but by then he had a different girlfriend. ( One whom he had spoken about kind of liking at one point, but he said the feelings died out since she was realllllyyyy peppy and not his type lol ) I still find it really hard to believe he moved on that quickly. I know he always talked about hating to be alone (relationship/friend wise) due to some stuff that happened in the past, but would he really settle for his second choice just because of that? I still get the occasional message from him really late at night (no not like that lol we're only 15/16) if he's just bored or wants someone to talk to. It just sucks that I still really like him and I can't see me being with anyone else at this point in time. I know I'll get over it, but a huge part of me doesn't want to.