I have his number, now what?

[ZzeWatermelon]

Hey,

So basically my crush called me on facebook (which never happened before, and it was really unexpected), so I thought he made a mistake at first and I didn't reply, but then he called again and I did reply.
We talked for a while, but our cameras wouldn't work, so he was like: what if we use our phones? And I gave him my number, and he called.
And then we talked for about an hour, it was really cool.

Now do I wait until he calls? And knowing the fact he's 15 and shy I will probably wait a lot. To me it's not a problem to call first, but should I wait? From the initiative he's taken, I can guess that he is interested, and he likes me at least a bit.
So what happens now? What should I do? Do you agree that it's a sign of interest from him? I'm so happy now! Since I like him so much... x) And we have SO MANY things in common.

[ashdyn]

He's definitely interested! Trust me no one calls anyone anymore, so for him to make that effort is a pretty clear sign. I personally don't really like talking on the phone but you could call him first. You could also text him. Try taking things up a notch...ask him if he wants to hang out sometime just something super chill. It's 2015, girls can make moves lol if you don't want to steal his thunder ask him if he wants to hang out and put the planning and execution in his court.

[ZzeWatermelon]

Thanks for answering, I'll call him now :D

[lliam]

I have his number, now what? JUST CALL HiM

[ZzeWatermelon]

I did and he didn't answer xDDDD Just have to wait until he calls back I guess

[lliam]

yepp. that's the way how it works. happy waiting and hopefully you will succeed :D

[Uniquemind]

Tip of advice, it's always good to have a general vague idea of what to make small talk about before you call or meet face to face.

Not all silences are bad, sometimes comfortable silences are the most romantic things ever.

But like I'd make plans to go see a movie or do some kind of activity together that promotes bonding.

Heck you even said you were in his band, so idk, go ask him if you want to co-write songs or something, and then incorporate some mild flirty touching like hand-holding or footsie, with playful eye contact.

There are a lot of tools at your disposal.

[ZzeWatermelon]

Yeah I'm getting closer to him, and my friend noticed that he looks at me from time to time. x)

So he is interested? He likes me?

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[Mastervancarsall2020]

He's totaly interested in you. Hope it goes good for the 2 of you

[ZzeWatermelon]

Oh wow that's awesome! :) THankx a lot

[Stronk Serb]

Being a guy, I can say that without a doubt he is interested in you. I suggest showing him in a way that you are interested either by calling or texting on Facebook. From what I heard, he sounds like a nice guy, reminds me of me before I started hanging out with the wrong crowd.

[ZzeWatermelon]

Wow that's awesome, and you can see the interest through the calls? Or how? What makes you say that exactly? (I suck at seeing stuff like this)

And also lately he texted me about hw and then said that we should have a call later on in the evening, and we talked for like more than 2 hours... amazing! I'll call him again today I think after a pause of three days of no calling since last time we talked was 3 days ago :D

[luq_]

I'm speaking for myself, but I think I'd do that only if I'm romantically interested in that person (okay, maybe not only, other cases include if that's a long-long-time friend or a cousin).
Ask yourself: what made him call you out of the blue like that? He wanted some info? No, he could've done that through text. Small talk? Sure, but I still haven't met someone who insists on voice (or video) calls for small talk. My educated guess is that he wanted to hear (or possibly see) you. Anyway, he wanted more personal contact.
Another thing, very disputable, but I just want to mention it, is the fact that he didn't text you "Wanna talk?" or similar, but called you right away. I can only imagine he was afraid and just wanted to get it done. I don't know about you, but in a similar situation I'd do something like that. Making it last longer would only make me more anxious, all of a sudden call is more like "all or nothing" scenario. This is all just a wild guess, but it brought back some memories, so I had to mention it, it's not entirely impossible.
Maybe he has a crush on you as well, maybe he noticed you have a crush on him and likes you and wants to give you a chance. It doesn't matter, really, all it matters is that he's interested.
You go for it, girl!

[ZzeWatermelon]

So lets call my crush Josh and this other guy Andrew. Just made up some random names to make this easier to tell.
Basically I am sitting next to Andrew in physics and chemistry classes, and he's super dumb and immature, and likes to annoy and bug people. I don't really like him.
And today in class he randomly said something like : "you like Josh". And I was like: no... and then he kept on teasing me, and he was like: Yes you do.... Oh you have your chances though, last time I've talked to him all he was saying was your name... and look, he's staring at you know!! And he was like... "Oh I get it all now, it all makes sense..."

But I was so embarrassed, Josh wasn't sitting far from me, just a couple of rows back and I felt like Andrew was being loud... damn. And what Andrew was saying was SO VAGUE, like what? I didn't get it, like "I get it all now, it all makes sense, what he said..." or something in the sort. I was SO CONFUSED.

So I'm gonna ask him more about it tomorrow...
But what I think is that Josh likes me and told Andrew about it (which would be weird since everyone is bugged by Andrew and Josh has closest friends than him), or something like that. And then Andrew told ME.

This is SO WEIRD. And asking about it again makes me feel even weirder. Any ideas, assumptions on this? :)

[Uniquemind]

So lets call my crush Josh and this other guy Andrew. Just made up some random names to make this easier to tell.
Basically I am sitting next to Andrew in physics and chemistry classes, and he's super dumb and immature, and likes to annoy and bug people. I don't really like him.
And today in class he randomly said something like : "you like Josh". And I was like: no... and then he kept on teasing me, and he was like: Yes you do.... Oh you have your chances though, last time I've talked to him all he was saying was your name... and look, he's staring at you know!! And he was like... "Oh I get it all now, it all makes sense..."

But I was so embarrassed, Josh wasn't sitting far from me, just a couple of rows back and I felt like Andrew was being loud... damn. And what Andrew was saying was SO VAGUE, like what? I didn't get it, like "I get it all now, it all makes sense, what he said..." or something in the sort. I was SO CONFUSED.

So I'm gonna ask him more about it tomorrow...
But what I think is that Josh likes me and told Andrew about it (which would be weird since everyone is bugged by Andrew and Josh has closest friends than him), or something like that. And then Andrew told ME.

This is SO WEIRD. And asking about it again makes me feel even weirder. Any ideas, assumptions on this? :)

It's Andrew's way of doing you and his friend a favor to try to push you guys along to make progress a bit faster. It's a bit of an unnatural thing to do, and can ruin chemistry.

The BEST way to handle it, is that when accused of liking someone (when it turns out to be true) is to look that person who is teasing you dead straight in the eye and say "damn straight I do".

People expect the shy coy reaction, they get taken aback by bold brashness especially by a girl.

I don't know if you agree or not, but some advice that was told to me once, was that a girl is partly afraid of her own powers of seduction, while the woman is not afraid of those powers and utilizes them gracefully and honestly.

[ZzeWatermelon]

Okay, but it means that Andrew noticed chemistry? Or something? Or what exactly?
Or he has been told to?

And one more thing, today in physics (since we work in pairs) my best friend who's paired up with my crush, asked him about girls... And he stated some that he found cute, and apparently he just said that I was nice, nothing about finding me cute...
But then again it was in class, and I was sitting real close, and maybe he was scared to tell such a close friend of mine cause obviously she would've repeated it...
But then maybe he just doesn't like me.
And also today like 1 hour after school has ended, he texted me and was like: "what subjects do we have tomorrow, english and...?"
AND THAT WAS LIKE REALLY xDDD

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[Uniquemind]

Andrew noticed something, don't mind him.

As for your friend, yeah he's probably shy, maybe conflicted due to his own reasons. Etc.

Keep doing what you are doing, and I speak for everyone here when I say I think you're overthinking this at this point.

[ZzeWatermelon]

Oh I didn't notice that everyone was saying that I was overthinking... but sorry, I'm a girl, girls overthing ^^ :)

And also today his friend was standing there with him, and he was like teasing me about me and my crush and us liking each other.

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[Uniquemind]

Take advantage of his friend's pressure and ask him out when you guys have a private moment.

[Stronk Serb]

Wow that's awesome, and you can see the interest through the calls? Or how? What makes you say that exactly? (I suck at seeing stuff like this)

And also lately he texted me about hw and then said that we should have a call later on in the evening, and we talked for like more than 2 hours... amazing! I'll call him again today I think after a pause of three days of no calling since last time we talked was 3 days ago :D

That was my educated guess as a guy, I mean what guy would not talk so much to a girl if he was not interested.

So lets call my crush Josh and this other guy Andrew. Just made up some random names to make this easier to tell.
Basically I am sitting next to Andrew in physics and chemistry classes, and he's super dumb and immature, and likes to annoy and bug people. I don't really like him.
And today in class he randomly said something like : "you like Josh". And I was like: no... and then he kept on teasing me, and he was like: Yes you do.... Oh you have your chances though, last time I've talked to him all he was saying was your name... and look, he's staring at you know!! And he was like... "Oh I get it all now, it all makes sense..."

But I was so embarrassed, Josh wasn't sitting far from me, just a couple of rows back and I felt like Andrew was being loud... damn. And what Andrew was saying was SO VAGUE, like what? I didn't get it, like "I get it all now, it all makes sense, what he said..." or something in the sort. I was SO CONFUSED.

So I'm gonna ask him more about it tomorrow...
But what I think is that Josh likes me and told Andrew about it (which would be weird since everyone is bugged by Andrew and Josh has closest friends than him), or something like that. And then Andrew told ME.

This is SO WEIRD. And asking about it again makes me feel even weirder. Any ideas, assumptions on this? :)

The guy is just shy, has he had any girlfriends before? It could be that you are his first. Reminds me of me, lol.

And one more thing, today in physics (since we work in pairs) my best friend who's paired up with my crush, asked him about girls... And he stated some that he found cute, and apparently he just said that I was nice, nothing about finding me cute...
But then again it was in class, and I was sitting real close, and maybe he was scared to tell such a close friend of mine cause obviously she would've repeated it...
But then maybe he just doesn't like me.
And also today like 1 hour after school has ended, he texted me and was like: "what subjects do we have tomorrow, english and...?"
AND THAT WAS LIKE REALLY xDDD

He might be shy or untrusting...

[ZzeWatermelon]

He's shy then xD

[Pat the Bunny]

He's shy then xD

Yeah, my theory is that when your friend asked him about girls he was too shy to say you were cute, but knowing friends talk to each other didn't want you to think he didn't like you so you would still keep an interest in him in the case that you did like him, so he could ask you when he was more sure that you were also into him. Tbh I'd say you should just ask him if he likes you at this point. The odds are really high that he likes you, and it would probably harder for him to ask you.

[ZzeWatermelon]

And yesterday we had a call from 7pm to 1am, and it was awesome... We never run out of subjects, and always have a great time x)
And we talked about love for a long time, he said who he found cute and I said who I find cute (of course without mentioning each other). At one point he asked who I liked; and I said no one. I regret not telling him actually, but I don't have the guts to.
And he seemed quite shocked that I liked no one haha...

[Uniquemind]

And yesterday we had a call from 7pm to 1am, and it was awesome... We never run out of subjects, and always have a great time x)
And we talked about love for a long time, he said who he found cute and I said who I find cute (of course without mentioning each other). At one point he asked who I liked; and I said no one. I regret not telling him actually, but I don't have the guts to.
And he seemed quite shocked that I liked no one haha...

Instead of saying "no one", tell the truth that you're to shy to say a name but describe one of his physical features to him.

That's it.

[ZzeWatermelon]

But returning to the subject would be weird... and I already said no one. And he would insist probably too much.

[Uniquemind]

They're broken up now, but a few years back one of my friends got randomly kissed by a mutual guy friend in the library before classes started.

That served as the ice breaker before their 3 year relationship.

I saw it all, it was just he grabs her face and plants a movie type kiss on her. Later talking to both of them it turned out they were both harboring a secretive mutual crush on each other for years, each was just psyching themselves out, until the guy just said "screw this angst" and just went for it.

Maybe in this situation one of you have to just be just as daring if words fail?

What's the worst that could happen? Not be friends anymore?

[ZzeWatermelon]

Well yeah we could lose our friendship. I'm not scared of actually asking. I'm scared of losing him as a friend.

[Uniquemind]

Well yeah we could lose our friendship. I'm not scared of actually asking. I'm scared of losing him as a friend.

Then tell him that at the time of confession, and discuss how both of you should handle a breakup if it were to occur, and in what context.

1. Breakup in response to revelation of someone cheating?

2. Mutual breakup after discussion for whatever reason(s). (ex: didn't work out, someone wants to pursue someone else etc.)

Like I've told others here, discuss the rules of the relationship and different rules and scenarios at the onset of the relationship. Promote honesty at every twist and turn of the relationship.

[ZzeWatermelon]

No offense but that's not a great idea, not natural, spontaneous.
But then I sent him a message asking if he wanted to see a movie with me and some friends, he hasn't answered yet, but I guess he'll accept. I guess.

[Uniquemind]

No offense but that's not a great idea, not natural, spontaneous.
But then I sent him a message asking if he wanted to see a movie with me and some friends, he hasn't answered yet, but I guess he'll accept. I guess.

Quote the post you're referring to plz.

[ZzeWatermelon]

Then tell him that at the time of confession, and discuss how both of you should handle a breakup if it were to occur, and in what context.

1. Breakup in response to revelation of someone cheating?

2. Mutual breakup after discussion for whatever reason(s). (ex: didn't work out, someone wants to pursue someone else etc.)

Like I've told others here, discuss the rules of the relationship and different rules and scenarios at the onset of the relationship. Promote honesty at every twist and turn of the relationship.

this

[Uniquemind]

this

Well that's your prerogative then. I think it's great advice it's just not rosy. I've used it myself and it's saved me a lot of angst in my relationship.

[ZzeWatermelon]

Yeah I am still thanking you a lot for writing this, and helping me x)

[luq_]

I can confirm that "fuck this" is probably the least stressful and easiest solution out there. All the stress comes before though, so make it quick. Just make your feelings towards him crystal clear and make him choose on the spot.
It's good on paper, it sounds good from other's experiences, but first-person... ugh. Weird. Complicated. Looks like a suicide. But if you have will, definitely go for it. Worst-case? You'll be hurt, for some time. It'll pass. Not knowing what could have been (or regret, in case you know that it could have been) will follow you for longer, and you'll eat yourself out over it.
Losing him as a friend? Hm, probably, for a short period of time, but if you keep in minimal touch, eventually you'll just reach a point where you can just laugh about it. Or pretend it never happened. Anyway, not coming back to it in a serious context (unless one of you explicitly wants to, and that's good, right?).

And if you can't force yourself to do it, you can always mention it when you have interesting discussions like the aforementioned one. No need to say "you", but tease him, something along the lines "oh, I can't tell you" and give a hint.
When it comes to other people mocking you, no good strategy, but what helped me so far was sarcasm. Or, rather, sound sarcastic. "Ha-ha, he likes her" "Yeah, she's my favourite." or "Of course, can't spend a minute without her [gasp]" and if it makes sense in the context, "You jealous?" Just don't cross the line, so no insults, only the overly-affirmative replies. Try to get a chance to talk to him about it, to assure him that you're only tired of them and you mean nothing bad. Again, it's not a perfect solution, but worked for me.

Good luck!

[ZzeWatermelon]

I can confirm that "fuck this" is probably the least stressful and easiest solution out there. All the stress comes before though, so make it quick. Just make your feelings towards him crystal clear and make him choose on the spot.
It's good on paper, it sounds good from other's experiences, but first-person... ugh. Weird. Complicated. Looks like a suicide. But if you have will, definitely go for it. Worst-case? You'll be hurt, for some time. It'll pass. Not knowing what could have been (or regret, in case you know that it could have been) will follow you for longer, and you'll eat yourself out over it.
Losing him as a friend? Hm, probably, for a short period of time, but if you keep in minimal touch, eventually you'll just reach a point where you can just laugh about it. Or pretend it never happened. Anyway, not coming back to it in a serious context (unless one of you explicitly wants to, and that's good, right?).

And if you can't force yourself to do it, you can always mention it when you have interesting discussions like the aforementioned one. No need to say "you", but tease him, something along the lines "oh, I can't tell you" and give a hint.
When it comes to other people mocking you, no good strategy, but what helped me so far was sarcasm. Or, rather, sound sarcastic. "Ha-ha, he likes her" "Yeah, she's my favourite." or "Of course, can't spend a minute without her [gasp]" and if it makes sense in the context, "You jealous?" Just don't cross the line, so no insults, only the overly-affirmative replies. Try to get a chance to talk to him about it, to assure him that you're only tired of them and you mean nothing bad. Again, it's not a perfect solution, but worked for me.

Good luck!

LOVE THIS THANKS, That's exactly what I'll do x)

[Pat the Bunny]

When it comes to other people mocking you, no good strategy, but what helped me so far was sarcasm. Or, rather, sound sarcastic. "Ha-ha, he likes her" "Yeah, she's my favourite." or "Of course, can't spend a minute without her [gasp]" and if it makes sense in the context, "You jealous?"
Good luck!

Be careful with this though, I've done this with people who apparently didn't get sarcasm. It was awkward

[ZzeWatermelon]

I do sarcasm well lol, I've already started doing this long ago actually but lighly x)
And I'm really happy cause this weekend we're going out with a group of friends, and I invited him and apparently he might be coming... he's unsure yet, but I think that he will. :P

[Uniquemind]

I do sarcasm well lol, I've already started doing this long ago actually but lighly x)
And I'm really happy cause this weekend we're going out with a group of friends, and I invited him and apparently he might be coming... he's unsure yet, but I think that he will. :P

Even if he doesn't come, don't read into it too much, midterms are occurring this time of year and that's a legitimate excuse for not being able to make it.

[ZzeWatermelon]

Yeah he said he is coming, he confirmed it yesterday! x)
But today something really stupid happened and I feel embarrassed.
Basically he was talking to this cute girl, and they were laughing etc, and I was feeling a pinch of jealousy and was asking myself numerous questions: "Who is this girl? How does he know her? Is she into him?" I was being paranoid.
They were talking, he left, she stayed. There were other people around that joined us, and then I was like: "Oh something romantic happening with him?" Just to see what was their relationship. And then she answered: "I'm his sister". And the people started saying how I was jealous since I was into her brother, and she started giving me some tips etc...
So now I guess everyone knows that I like him, and his sister too. LIKE WHAT. She's gonna repeat it for sure.
What happens when HE knows?
Although I feel embarrassed as hell, I'm happy on the other side. I believe that everything happens for a reason, and it might make us go out faster. But at the same time what if he freaks out...?

[Uniquemind]

Yeah he said he is coming, he confirmed it yesterday! x)
But today something really stupid happened and I feel embarrassed.
Basically he was talking to this cute girl, and they were laughing etc, and I was feeling a pinch of jealousy and was asking myself numerous questions: "Who is this girl? How does he know her? Is she into him?" I was being paranoid.
They were talking, he left, she stayed. There were other people around that joined us, and then I was like: "Oh something romantic happening with him?" Just to see what was their relationship. And then she answered: "I'm his sister". And the people started saying how I was jealous since I was into her brother, and she started giving me some tips etc...
So now I guess everyone knows that I like him, and his sister too. LIKE WHAT. She's gonna repeat it for sure.
What happens when HE knows?
Although I feel embarrassed as hell, I'm happy on the other side. I believe that everything happens for a reason, and it might make us go out faster. But at the same time what if he freaks out...?

He shouldn't freak out if he's worth it.

But it's high time you got help from real people around you to help get a relationship moving here.

Life is short get a move on before your chances are gone.

[ZzeWatermelon]

Ok, good idea. xP

[ZzeWatermelon]

Yeah just the next time he asks me who I like, I'll tell him the truth.

[AutumnWinds]

he called you...no reason not to return the favor. you don't want your shyness to cost you something good, you know?

Hey,

So basically my crush called me on facebook (which never happened before, and it was really unexpected), so I thought he made a mistake at first and I didn't reply, but then he called again and I did reply.
We talked for a while, but our cameras wouldn't work, so he was like: what if we use our phones? And I gave him my number, and he called.
And then we talked for about an hour, it was really cool.

Now do I wait until he calls? And knowing the fact he's 15 and shy I will probably wait a lot. To me it's not a problem to call first, but should I wait? From the initiative he's taken, I can guess that he is interested, and he likes me at least a bit.
So what happens now? What should I do? Do you agree that it's a sign of interest from him? I'm so happy now! Since I like him so much... x) And we have SO MANY things in common.

[ZzeWatermelon]

So big problem, I decided to tell him and I did.
We were playing this "guessing game" guess who I like etc...
He said he likes a girl in the class. I believed it.
And then when I was like: "Guess who I like?" He said: "me" and I said yes, and explained why cause he wanted me to explain what I liked in him.
And basically after he was like: "Guess who I like?^^" And then I was like: "Me? Although the chance is really small..." And he said: "Errrr, sorry^^"
And finally he said he only loves music, that is his life. And that it's complicated.

So he doesn't like me back.
But his reaction was awesome. And today he was giving me lots of warm, charming smiles and looking at me a lot. I'm still confused although I know now that he doesn't like me.

[Uniquemind]

So big problem, I decided to tell him and I did.
We were playing this "guessing game" guess who I like etc...
He said he likes a girl in the class. I believed it.
And then when I was like: "Guess who I like?" He said: "me" and I said yes, and explained why cause he wanted me to explain what I liked in him.
And basically after he was like: "Guess who I like?^^" And then I was like: "Me? Although the chance is really small..." And he said: "Errrr, sorry^^"
And finally he said he only loves music, that is his life. And that it's complicated.

So he doesn't like me back.
But his reaction was awesome. And today he was giving me lots of warm, charming smiles and looking at me a lot. I'm still confused although I know now that he doesn't like me.

Sorry. But at least you know and you're friends still. That was his way of letting you down easy.

[ZzeWatermelon]

Yeah I know.
It sucks but whatever. I still have hope left. There's a lot of time for things to happen left, and good moments to be made. Even if they're friendly.
Why would he be so flirty and charming after though? Cause he's flattered?

[Uniquemind]

Yeah I know.
It sucks but whatever. I still have hope left. There's a lot of time for things to happen left, and good moments to be made. Even if they're friendly.
Why would he be so flirty and charming after though? Cause he's flattered?

He likes you as a person, and other qualities about you to be playful. This might be a friendzone thing.

[ZzeWatermelon]

Yeah it is since he said he doesn't like me back.
Also there is a possibility of his best friend liking me as some signs and people suggest... maybe he couldn't date me because of his loyalty to his friend? But I think that that would be looking too much into it.
For some reason I still feel like I have my chances, a gut feeling, telling me that this is not the end, and something else is necessarily going to happen.
Three of my friends suggest that maybe he's just scared of comitting, but likes me, cause they say that he OBVIOUSLY does but well he rejected me and that says that he doesn't...
I don't know, I still have some hope. A little bit, but I do.

[lliam]

yeah. hope dies last.

[Uniquemind]

Yeah it is since he said he doesn't like me back.
Also there is a possibility of his best friend liking me as some signs and people suggest... maybe he couldn't date me because of his loyalty to his friend? But I think that that would be looking too much into it.
For some reason I still feel like I have my chances, a gut feeling, telling me that this is not the end, and something else is necessarily going to happen.
Three of my friends suggest that maybe he's just scared of comitting, but likes me, cause they say that he OBVIOUSLY does but well he rejected me and that says that he doesn't...
I don't know, I still have some hope. A little bit, but I do.

The words from his mouth have more credibility than whatever observations your friends say or think about him.

[ZzeWatermelon]

True

[ZzeWatermelon]

My friend said that now the guy feels embarrassed why

[luq_]

I feel the need to apologize for appearing here only once a week (on forums in general), busy days atm.

Let me try to be a fortune teller:
You'll notice details, make up things in your mind, construct possible and impossible hypothetical events with him (mostly the latter type) which will have the happy end. He said no; maybe he is just shy, maybe he freaked out, maybe he was just very surprised. What if he has never been in a similar situation and he just had no idea how to handle it properly? Yeah, or he isn't into you as much as you're into him, but you still have a chance?
Well, not really. Okay, maybe, but you might as well go play lottery. Sorry.
That hope will, however, live for some time. I don't know you, it might be a week or two or months, but it won't just go away like that. At some point, you'll just let it go. You'll fall for someone else. No matter what you say to yourself now, you will. Just not yet.
For now, focus on other things. Try not to let your thoughts wander away (not like you'll succeed, but whatever). As cliché as it sounds, you're young and you have no idea what will happen tomorrow, let alone in a few months. Time doesn't just heal everything, time erases everything.
Sure, if you see a chance and still want it, grab it, just don't expect it. People tend to see the world the way to, not the way it really is. He said "no" - it's a no. No need to go deeper into his words, that's it. Unless he says "yes" in a very clear and direct manner, try to remain friends. He thinks you're a great person, just doesn't want to be romantically involved with you. Love isn't a rational thing, no need to worry about it. It just is or it isn't for god-knows-what reason. This time it isn't, next... who knows.

^ all this sounds way too familiar to me, almost autobiographic

[ZzeWatermelon]

Loved this answer, very full. I Can't wait to move on honestly xD

[ZzeWatermelon]

Ok I'm relieved we restarted to talk and call like nothing has ever happened, everything's back to normal, it's a christmas miracle :P
Yesterday he asked me for advice for his guy friend that likes a girl, and is not sure how to ask her etc.
And for some reason I felt like he was talking about himself, all the details were pretty much suggesting the guy friend was him in fact.
But then that would be weird. :D

MERRY XMAS! A bit of a late merry christmas but whatever....

[ZzeWatermelon]

He's my best friend now. He texts everyday, calls at least three times a week.

[Uniquemind]

He's my best friend now. He texts everyday, calls at least three times a week.

That's the best way to go about it.

Who knows maybe he'll make a guy friend who ends up being that someone "new".

@luq I like to say time dulls things, time never erases anything. The only way things get erased from one's mind is if the brain tissue and connections that makeup that thought, emotion, or memory are destroyed by like say Alzheimer's disease.

[ZzeWatermelon]

What do you mean by that someone new?

[Uniquemind]

What do you mean by that someone new?

A new crush.

[hesaidhesaid]

Go for it! You lucky girl- and good luck seriously :) Just make sure to keep calm and do not make any wrong moves. Just trust me- one wrong move and us guys will move on. Good luck!

[ZzeWatermelon]

Yeah but for now I got no one in view that I could potentially go out with. :D And my feelings for him are still there...