The Mistake She Made. (16+ only please..)

[Biotomic]

Me and my girlfriend have never met before. We met each other on Omegle and we instantly clicked. For the first week we have never been happier in our lives.

Then one day, she tells me about this guy who is annoying her on kik and wont leave her alone and calling her a whore, a slut. Being her boyfriend, this pissed me off to a large degree. I asked her for the kids kik (because he was/is 13 and she is 16) but she was refusing to give it to me. I started to feel suspicious. I started showing a little aggression to her, not threatening her or anything, Just showing her that I wanted to handle the situation. After of about 30 minutes of pleading, she finally gave it to me. And after she did, she said "Just know, I love you no matter what." I told you I loved her back, and went to talk to the kid.

I was aggressive towards him. Only because I wanted him to stop tormenting my girlfriend. He started telling me how much of a whore she was and I was telling him that he was wrong. Then, he started sending me all the naked pictures that she had sent him in the process of a week. I didn't know how to feel.. Betrayed? Angry? Sick? I talked with the kid and managed to get him to delete all the images that he had of my girlfriend (Or so I thought, and she was dumb enough to put her face in the pictures.) and made my girlfriend block him on kik. After I was sure that all the pictures were gone, I blocked him as well. Everything was quite from then on and I talked with my girlfriend, asking her why she did it and if she thought how it made me feel. She was crying on the phone during this time, telling me that she will never go on omegle again and that she was deleting everyone on kik except for me because I was all that matters. I accepted her apology and tried to push it out of my mind.

That all happened about last week.

Then this morning, my girlfriend calls me at around 4 in the morning (7 am her time) telling me to check my kik. When I look, I see screenshot messages to my girlfriend from another girl, informing her that some kid claimed that they were from his slut of a girlfriend who dumped him for no reason, and to get back at her, decided to send the pictures I watched him delete to every single person in his contacts list, and they circled around back to her. Included in these screenshots, were the images as well. She was balling her eyes out because she is scared that her parents will find out. I tried coming into contact with the kid to see what the hell his problem is, but as soon as I sent him a message on kik, he instantly blocked me.

I told my girlfriend that she needed to alert the authorities, because if they have his kik name, they can track the I.P that was used to send the messages and find him. Since doing what he did is an offence that can land you as a registered sex offender. But she refused since he lives in the U.S and she lives in Canada.

I don't know what to do.. Please.. any help would be amazing.. I can already feel the panic attack rising through my throat...

[tret123]

Uh they have international security crimes laws, In the US, possession and distribution of child porn are both felonies... She should tell the cops about it and he should get punished for what he has done... Things like that aren't okay, him and your girlfriend possibly can get charges against them... Most likely a DA wouldn't press charges against him... Tell her to tell the cops before everything explodes

[Biotomic]

I have, but she is scared that me and her will get in trouble as well. if you can understand what I mean.. We did it too. We just don't tell people..

[Uniquemind]

I have, but she is scared that me and her will get in trouble as well. if you can understand what I mean.. We did it too. We just don't tell people..

What's done is done.

Unfortunately all 3 of you are culpable of having the sex offender label and possibly having possession of child porn.

This is why you should not sext.

At this point the authorities might have to get involved regardless as it seems to be spinning out of control. If this happens it'll be up to a local DA's office to press charges on all 3 of you.

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The other option is to disconnect from social media entirely, cut your losses and just accept that there are nudes out there and live your lives.

A change in cell phone number will be required and you will have to be completely aware of all online tricks of how your personal devices can be hacked by those online who wish to do you harm. (Rat's specifically are a pain)

But you also don't know if this other person is a kid or an adult predator online.

[Biotomic]

I was smart though, I delete everything as soon as I get it, then log out of kik to wipe the RAM clean of anything. That way they are not able to be recovered.

[Uniquemind]

I was smart though, I delete everything as soon as I get it, then log out of kik to wipe the RAM clean of anything. That way they are not able to be recovered.

Not sure that's enough but okay.

Regardless the rest of my advice still stands.

What are you and her gonna do about it?

I'd hate to see either of you fall into a depression over this.

There have been many high profile cases where this predicament feeds cyber bullying and stuff like that Amanda Todd story from a few years ago.

[AutumnWinds]

Me and my girlfriend have never met before. We met each other on Omegle and we instantly clicked. For the first week we have never been happier in our lives.

Then one day, she tells me about this guy who is annoying her on kik and wont leave her alone and calling her a whore, a slut. Being her boyfriend, this pissed me off to a large degree. I asked her for the kids kik (because he was/is 13 and she is 16) but she was refusing to give it to me. I started to feel suspicious. I started showing a little aggression to her, not threatening her or anything, Just showing her that I wanted to handle the situation. After of about 30 minutes of pleading, she finally gave it to me. And after she did, she said "Just know, I love you no matter what." I told you I loved her back, and went to talk to the kid.

I was aggressive towards him. Only because I wanted him to stop tormenting my girlfriend. He started telling me how much of a whore she was and I was telling him that he was wrong. Then, he started sending me all the naked pictures that she had sent him in the process of a week. I didn't know how to feel.. Betrayed? Angry? Sick? I talked with the kid and managed to get him to delete all the images that he had of my girlfriend (Or so I thought, and she was dumb enough to put her face in the pictures.) and made my girlfriend block him on kik. After I was sure that all the pictures were gone, I blocked him as well. Everything was quite from then on and I talked with my girlfriend, asking her why she did it and if she thought how it made me feel. She was crying on the phone during this time, telling me that she will never go on omegle again and that she was deleting everyone on kik except for me because I was all that matters. I accepted her apology and tried to push it out of my mind.

That all happened about last week.

Then this morning, my girlfriend calls me at around 4 in the morning (7 am her time) telling me to check my kik. When I look, I see screenshot messages to my girlfriend from another girl, informing her that some kid claimed that they were from his slut of a girlfriend who dumped him for no reason, and to get back at her, decided to send the pictures I watched him delete to every single person in his contacts list, and they circled around back to her. Included in these screenshots, were the images as well. She was balling her eyes out because she is scared that her parents will find out. I tried coming into contact with the kid to see what the hell his problem is, but as soon as I sent him a message on kik, he instantly blocked me.

I told my girlfriend that she needed to alert the authorities, because if they have his kik name, they can track the I.P that was used to send the messages and find him. Since doing what he did is an offence that can land you as a registered sex offender. But she refused since he lives in the U.S and she lives in Canada.

I don't know what to do.. Please.. any help would be amazing.. I can already feel the panic attack rising through my throat...

please don't take this as an attack, because it's not meant as one, but your tone about this whole thing seems way off. there's a lot of tough-guy talk (i mean when is being "aggressive" online ever anything but silly? and calling someone only three years younger than you a "kid"?) and some fairly disrespectful talk about your girlfriend (calling her dumb, the title of this post, etc.) i understand that you're hurting and probably upset that your gf had other interests before you, but that's how life works. i just think if you can't accept that your girlfriend was into other guys before you you're going to have a very hard time in ALL of your relationships.


anyhow, the best thing you can do for her is to let her take the lead on this. it's her life, and she needs to decide how to live it. i know you're trying to do what is best for her, and i know that being "aggressive" makes a person feel more in control, but on this i think you gotta take a back seat. what she needs not is unconditional support. let her decide what she wants to do and respect her wishes and let her know you care for her no matter what (assuming that's true) would you want anything different if the tables were turned?

[SethfromMI]

oh wow. well this is tough. I think you could call the police, but she could get into trouble for possibly taking the pics as well (possibly, I am not sure what the law would do in that situation). This is why you never send nude pics, not even to people you know and trust, because they have ways of leaking out.

how does she want to handle it? if her parents get involved, they might decide to do whatever? unfortunately there is no easy solution to this. for now, be there for her and to support her

[Uniquemind]

Do what celebrities do when their nudes get leaked to the public.

Keep living and moving on, and own it.

They seem happy enough.

[Anthonysctt]

Me and my girlfriend have never met before. We met each other on Omegle and we instantly clicked. For the first week we have never been happier in our lives.

Then one day, she tells me about this guy who is annoying her on kik and wont leave her alone and calling her a whore, a slut. Being her boyfriend, this pissed me off to a large degree. I asked her for the kids kik (because he was/is 13 and she is 16) but she was refusing to give it to me. I started to feel suspicious. I started showing a little aggression to her, not threatening her or anything, Just showing her that I wanted to handle the situation. After of about 30 minutes of pleading, she finally gave it to me. And after she did, she said "Just know, I love you no matter what." I told you I loved her back, and went to talk to the kid.

I was aggressive towards him. Only because I wanted him to stop tormenting my girlfriend. He started telling me how much of a whore she was and I was telling him that he was wrong. Then, he started sending me all the naked pictures that she had sent him in the process of a week. I didn't know how to feel.. Betrayed? Angry? Sick? I talked with the kid and managed to get him to delete all the images that he had of my girlfriend (Or so I thought, and she was dumb enough to put her face in the pictures.) and made my girlfriend block him on kik. After I was sure that all the pictures were gone, I blocked him as well. Everything was quite from then on and I talked with my girlfriend, asking her why she did it and if she thought how it made me feel. She was crying on the phone during this time, telling me that she will never go on omegle again and that she was deleting everyone on kik except for me because I was all that matters. I accepted her apology and tried to push it out of my mind.

That all happened about last week.

Then this morning, my girlfriend calls me at around 4 in the morning (7 am her time) telling me to check my kik. When I look, I see screenshot messages to my girlfriend from another girl, informing her that some kid claimed that they were from his slut of a girlfriend who dumped him for no reason, and to get back at her, decided to send the pictures I watched him delete to every single person in his contacts list, and they circled around back to her. Included in these screenshots, were the images as well. She was balling her eyes out because she is scared that her parents will find out. I tried coming into contact with the kid to see what the hell his problem is, but as soon as I sent him a message on kik, he instantly blocked me.

I told my girlfriend that she needed to alert the authorities, because if they have his kik name, they can track the I.P that was used to send the messages and find him. Since doing what he did is an offence that can land you as a registered sex offender. But she refused since he lives in the U.S and she lives in Canada.

I don't know what to do.. Please.. any help would be amazing.. I can already feel the panic attack rising through my throat... rarely will those be found out just make sure he doesn't tell anyone else no one will find your pictures

[ska8er]

She sent the pics-she alerts the police
she can also get in big trouble. I would
tell her to not say anything and let it
pass and Don't do it again. She is a
minor and could also b charged and
will get in deeper trouble.

I didn't realize that this was an old post
brought up but the message is the same
to anyone else-Don't send nude pics to
anyone online especially if u and they r
under 16-its not worth getting into deep
S**t over.

[Atlantis]

rarely will those be found out just make sure he doesn't tell anyone else no one will find your pictures

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