Am I Bi

[Laffytaffu321]

Recently I have began to have inappropriate fantasies about boys but I still like girls. This makes me wonder if I am gay or bi-sexual. I do think I am Bi so please post what you think. It might help me confirm my suspisions.

[Elysium]

Puberty for Boys :arrow: Teen Sexuality and Gender

[Princess Ariel]

No one can tell you if you're Bi or not. That's up for you to discover for yourself.

I, personally, believe that thoughts are different than actions. It's completely normal to think about your sexuality, and have fantasies. It's apart of growing up and finding out who you are.

There's a difference between being "Bisexual" and "Bi-curious" - the curiosity is the possibility of the fact, where as a bisexual would know that they're sexually/romantically attracted to both sexes.

Point blank: Don't think about these fantasies and put your own negativity and bad energy towards it. If you're bi, then you're bi. Don't force anything in and don't force anything out of you. Discover your sexuality at your own pace.

[chiisaiaoiryu]

Recently I have began to have inappropriate fantasies about boys but I still like girls. This makes me wonder if I am gay or bi-sexual. I do think I am Bi so please post what you think. It might help me confirm my suspisions.

Nobody can tell you if you're a certain sexuality. That decision falls on you. While it might make it easier for your mind to take a side by hearing other people's stories, it doesn't necessarily mean you'll get an accurate answer.

For me, I thought I was gay for five years after hearing similar stories on here and from some of my friends. It was only after I took a deeper look into myself that I realize I don't necessarily prefer guys; it's more that I prefer having sex with guys than with girls. Granted that I never had sex with a girl before, but that is how I feel with my sexuality; that I'm not gay, bi, or straight but rather someone who's aware of what type of sex I prefer to partake in.

Of course, that was just a longish example of how hearing from other people and disrupt your reflections on the matter. Just take the time to think about yourself and what it is you prefer to do more. Putting horny-induced thoughts aside, does your mind has more ease in the thought of having sex with a guy, a girl, or both? If you can think about it without having any horny thoughts getting in the way, then you'll get your answer.

I hope that ended up being helpful for you. And if you still have questions about it, feel free to message me. I'm always more than happy to help out.

[SethfromMI]

as everyone has mentioned no one can tell you what your sexuality is. However, based on what you're telling me, I would guess you're bi-curious at least

[ashdaniel]

Well, there is a sexual orientation call questioning. No one can say who you are, you only can tell yourself. I was the same. I thought I was gay but I know I like girl and want to have a baby of my own. Now, I know I am bi and feel great about. Dont worry, you are legally married to girl or guy in State so be yourself. There is a community out here to support you.

[Catholic Guy]

That sounds like you'd be bi but its something you have to work out for yourself

[Judean Zealot]

I don't think you can know until your late teens, when your hormones calm down. Don't worry about labeling yourself, young teens fluctuate wildly in their sexual desires.

[Uranus]

I'd say you're bi curious. If this is only short term and goes away then it's curious, if this drags our for months you could very well be bisexual

[Laffytaffu321]

Thank you for your opinions and advice. This is for Continental it has been going on for months. Still unsure but getting closer to finding out.Again thanks for all your help for anyone who posted.

[northy]

Could be hormones. Wait it out and see what happens. You will know, if that makes sense. Sexuality is a very personal thing and only you can decide.

[pascaldesla]

Time will tell you

[pjones]

my guess is you are curious which is very common. so is acting on your curiosity, so don't worry too much.

[pascaldesla]

Why are you using the word inappropriate? With girls would it be appropriate?

[Bluebyrd]

It's normal to just be curious during puberty. The only real determining factor here to whether you're bi or not is whether you're actually attracted to boys...

[heresjohnny]

It's ok to be Bi or Bi-curious or whatever. Heck, I'd say most and probably like 80% of people have a few bi-related thoughts at one time in their life.

[Hermes]

So, you have fantasies - does that mean you want to do those things? Obviously fantasies can be a clue as to what we would enjoy doing for real but we can also fantasise about things we would not want to do just as things can happen in dreams we would not want to happen in real life.

if you did go on to things with another guy can you see that turning into a relationship? Would that relationship satisfy you or would you be missing having a girl?