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colorfulights
November 17th, 2015, 07:43 PM
Same guy from my earlier post. Quick Summary:
Pretty sure he has a crush on me and not one person has disagreed.

Warning: there is little to no point of this post

Except...
Someone I used to sorta be friends with is into him too (there's about 2-3 people she's likes). She always tries to get him his social media and number and has actually come to me asking me how to talk to him. Thankfully, he has never showed interest in her and has said she's creepy (could be joking).
It wasn't until today that I was even slightly concerned about anyone else liking him, too.
Somehow, I don't know how, she got his phone number.
Didn't know he even had a phone (he asked to borrow mine today).
And it probably isn't a big deal but after the progress you think you've made, and then this girl surpases me completely?

What?

I know it's not that bad, but still. Near an hour earlier things were going so well, this drains all of the confidence I built up...
I can't even work up the nerve to ask him for anyway to talk outside of school lol

I don't even know what my question is, but any comments? I just want to know what other people would think if I ever admitted this

SillyShyGuy
November 17th, 2015, 08:23 PM
I have had some kind of trouble like that with one of my buddies. We both had a crush on the same girl and at first I had no clue he liked her. He knew that I liked her for a long time and out of nowhere when I was texting my crush she tells me about her new boyfriend. Guess what? It was my friend. I was not worried, it only lasted a week. All I can say is that you should take your chances and make your move before he ends up getting together with this other girl.

colorfulights
November 17th, 2015, 09:52 PM
I have had some kind of trouble like that with one of my buddies. We both had a crush on the same girl and at first I had no clue he liked her. He knew that I liked her for a long time and out of nowhere when I was texting my crush she tells me about her new boyfriend. Guess what? It was my friend. I was not worried, it only lasted a week. All I can say is that you should take your chances and make your move before he ends up getting together with this other girl.

Thanks! I'll do my best.

ashdyn
November 21st, 2015, 02:51 AM
I just don't think you're being direct enough. Most guys are pretty dense so you're either gunna have to overtly flirt or just straight up tell him you like him lol

P.S- it's 2015 just about everyone has a phone lmao you're slackin'