SillyShyGuy
November 16th, 2015, 08:45 PM
I do not like to admit it, but I am afraid to get attached to anyone because I fear they might cheat on me again. I try not to let my guard down even though I have multiple crushes at a time. Well there is this girl at work that I think might like me even though I believe she has a crush on another guy. Just yesterday I was in the office working on one of the computers when this girl comes in and sits in one of the office chairs behind me. She scooted closer to me and whispered what I was doing in a cute way. Mind you my supervisor and another co-worker were less than 5 feet away. I asked her what she was doing there and she smiled. I told her I just needed to finish up my project. Then she noticed our coworker and started chatting with him. A few minutes later she playfully pressed her foot against my chair and tried to move me. I laughed and told her to be careful because I was adjusting pictures with my mouse. This is not the first time she would pop into the office while I was working on my project. She likes to sit besides me and talk to me. It is very nice of her and she is very playful.
I would think she was only being friendly except the past week she has been texting me more often and sending me photos of her. Every other text she would type out that she is laughing. I think she wants to get my attention, which is odd since it is out of the blue. She is even messaging me on social media sites as well and I am definitely noticing it. The strange thing is that she even sends me photos of herself to only me and does not post some of them online as if they were private just for me to see (nothing inappropriate, just of her cooking and being silly).
Should I take it as a sign of flirting? Why is she texting me more often than we used to text? Does it mean that she likes me the way that she is acting? Should I ask her to hang out?
I would think she was only being friendly except the past week she has been texting me more often and sending me photos of her. Every other text she would type out that she is laughing. I think she wants to get my attention, which is odd since it is out of the blue. She is even messaging me on social media sites as well and I am definitely noticing it. The strange thing is that she even sends me photos of herself to only me and does not post some of them online as if they were private just for me to see (nothing inappropriate, just of her cooking and being silly).
Should I take it as a sign of flirting? Why is she texting me more often than we used to text? Does it mean that she likes me the way that she is acting? Should I ask her to hang out?