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MarisWonder
November 16th, 2015, 12:27 AM
Hi everyone!

A lot of sex education doesn't offer accurate information regarding contraceptives, so I'm here (along with everyone else using the site) to help debunk a lot of those myths and answer some questions! I'll start by posting some of the most popular forms of birth control with basic information, and if you have any questions or would like to know anything about ANYTHING just post!


Condoms
These come in male and female forms. There are no age restrictions on buying a condom, however male condoms are less expensive than female. For those with latex allergies, there are options such a lambskin and polyurethane. When used consistently and correctly, condoms are 98% effective and are the only form of birth control (other than abstinence) that can protect against STI/STDs.

They can be flavored, useful for oral sex. Not recommended for other forms of sex as they can sometimes (but rarely) cause infections.
Condoms can be provided for free at your local health center, planned parenthood, clinic, etc...
How to use a (male) condom video: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=kvFa7EsteZA

Cervical Cap
The cervical cap and the diaphragm are very similar. The biggest difference being that the cervical cap fits more "snuggly" over the cervix. Cervical caps are about 91% effective when used correctly, but do not prevent against STDs/STIs

They can be placed into the vagina up to 2 days before sexual intercourse, and must remain in at least 6 hours after intercourse
Must also be used with a spermicide, which may cause irritation to the users.
Should not be used during menstruation

Hormonal Birth Controls

The Patch&The Ring
The patch and the ring are forms of hormonal birth control that uses a combination of estrogen and progestin to prevent pregnancies. They work by stopping the signal in your brain to prevent ovulation (not menstruation) as well as thickening the mucus to inhibit the movement of sperm. When used consistently and correctly, the patch and ring are 92% effective but does not protect against STI/STDs.
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Unlike the pill, the patch must be changed once a week on the same day, every week for three weeks. During the fourth week, you do not wear a patch and should menstruate sometime during this time. People who would like not to have their period can wear another patch, but must discuss this with their healthcare provider. This is sometimes called "stacking"
The ring is worn for three weeks in the vagina and then removed for the fourth. During this time, the user should menstruate.
The patch is not as effective for those who weigh more than 198 or are smokers (and 35+)


The Pill
The pill is a form of hormonal birth control that uses a combination of estrogen and progestin to prevent pregnancies. It works by stopping the signal in your brain to prevent ovulation (not menstruation) and also thickening the mucus to inhibit the movement of sperm. When used consistently and correctly, the pill is 97% effective but does not protect against STI/STDs.

The pill is taken everyday, at (ideally) the same time. The fourth week of pills is a placebo, in which time the user should menstruate
Occasionally causes weight gain


IUD
IUDs come in a hormonal and non-hormonal form. Both are 99% effective but do not protect against STIs/STDs

Hormonal IUDs (such as Mirena) use the hormone progestin to thicken the cervical mucus, thin the lining of the uterus and partially suppress ovulation. Mirena lasts 5 years. It may reduce cramps and make periods lighter. Some women experience a stop in their periods all together.
Non hormonal IUDs such as Paraguard, use copper which is toxic to sperm. It also effects the shape of the cervix so a fertilized egg has no where to grow. It does not alter periods, prevent ovulation or need to be changed regularly. It can be used for up to 12 years. Copper IUDs may cause a bit of discomfort to some people. (Copper is a conductor, and the nervous system just shoots electricity at each other all day--so if you've ever taken a chemistry course you may understand where the discomfort comes from)
Both require insertion by a clinician and can cost up to about $1,000 (usually about $850--you will need to check with your healthcare and insurance providers to see how much you would pay).
Although IUDs can last for years, they can be removed sooner if the user would like to become pregnant or is unhappy with it
They are one of the most expensive forms of contraception, but last longer and protect better. They have been proven to be just as effective as sterilization.


The Shot Depo-Provera
The shot is a form of hormonal birth control that uses the hormone progestin to prevent ovulation and thicken the cervical mucus. The shot is 99% effective at preventing pregnancies but does not protect against STDs/STIs

Each shot is effective for 12 weeks (3 months). After 12 weeks you must return to your physician for another shot, or you will be at risk for pregnancy.
Irregular bleeding is a common side effect within the first 12 weeks of taking the hormone as your body adjusts.


The Not-So-Recommended Forms of Birth Control But still handy when used with other methods

Spermicide

Spermicide just means "sperm Killer"
Uses Nonoxynol-9 to damage the sperm
When used alone, less than 75% effective
Can be irritating to the genitals
Can boost effectiveness of condom or diaphragm
Can cause lesions in vaginal wall (and thus increase the chance of contracting HIV or another STI)


Withdrawal

Very effective when done CORRECTLY
The issue is that many people do not know how to do it correctly
Pre-cum may sometimes contain sperm if there was sexual activity previously (do you go more than one round?)
It's free? But not very safe. Does not protect against STDs or STIs

LITTLEANGEL19
November 16th, 2015, 12:42 AM
Hi everyone!

A lot of sex education doesn't offer accurate information regarding contraceptives, so I'm here (along with everyone else using the site) to help debunk a lot of those myths and answer some questions! I'll start by posting some of the most popular forms of birth control with basic information, and if you have any questions or would like to know anything about ANYTHING just post!

You can also message me privately with any personal questions, or visit my ask.fm to ask a question anonymously

Condoms
These come in male and female forms. There are no age restrictions on buying a condom, however male condoms are less expensive than female. For those with latex allergies, there are options such a lambskin and polyurethane. When used consistently and correctly, condoms are 98% effective and are the only form of birth control (other than abstinence) that can protect against STI/STDs.

They can be flavored, useful for oral sex. Not recommended for other forms of sex as they can sometimes (but rarely) cause infections.
Condoms can be provided for free at your local health center, planned parenthood, clinic, etc...

Hormonal Birth Controls

The Patch&The Ring
The patch and the ring are forms of hormonal birth control that uses a combination of estrogen and progestin to prevent pregnancies. They work by stopping the signal in your brain to prevent ovulation (not menstruation) as well as thickening the mucus to inhibit the movement of sperm. When used consistently and correctly, the patch and ring is 99% effective but does not protect against STI/STDs.

Unlike the pill, the patch must be changed once a week on the same day, every week for three weeks. During the fourth week, you do not wear a patch and should menstruate sometime during this time. People who would like not to have their period can wear another patch, but must discuss this with their healthcare provider. This is sometimes called "stacking"
The ring is worn for three weeks in the vagina and then removed for the fourth. During this time, the user should menstruate.
The patch is not as effective for those who weigh more than 198 or are smokers (and 35+)


The Pill
The pill is a form of hormonal birth control that uses a combination of estrogen and progestin to prevent pregnancies. It works by stopping the signal in your brain to prevent ovulation (not menstruation) and also thickening the mucus to inhibit the movement of sperm. When used consistently and correctly, the patch is 98% effective but does not protect against STI/STDs.

The pill is taken everyday, at (ideally) the same time. The fourth week of pills is a placebo, in which time the user should menstruate
Occasionally causes weight gain

A very informative and easy to understand post.
Well Done XX :)

MarisWonder
November 16th, 2015, 10:04 AM
A very informative and easy to understand post.
Well Done XX :)

Thank you!

Updated post with information on IUDs

Just JT
November 16th, 2015, 11:52 AM
I like this, good info, I'll watch this more for more stuff
Nice job, good resource

Bontigo Papi .
November 16th, 2015, 12:26 PM
You know what's weird in South Africa, why is the clinic giving our 16 year old girls the injection so they can't fall pregnant, but if you fuck a 16 year old, its considered rape ?

South Africa is just messed up bruh.

Uniquemind
November 16th, 2015, 12:43 PM
Did anybody here get affected by the birth control pill manufacturer flub?

They inverted the placebo pills and the ones containing hormones back in a few batches and girls and women thinking they were safe became pregnant.

There's a huge lawsuit over it, and it was in the news last week.

MarisWonder
November 16th, 2015, 10:10 PM
Did anybody here get affected by the birth control pill manufacturer flub?

They inverted the placebo pills and the ones containing hormones back in a few batches and girls and women thinking they were safe became pregnant.

There's a huge lawsuit over it, and it was in the news last week.

Yeah I read about that! Luckily no one I know was affected by it, but I still feel bad for those who were...they were trying to be safe and the manufacturers ruined it for them!

SammyG17
November 17th, 2015, 04:39 PM
You need to include information about the shot.

You need to include information about the implant.

You need to include information about other 'physical" forms like dam/sponge.

You need to include information about creams/lubes (spermicide, etc)

MarisWonder
November 17th, 2015, 05:05 PM
You need to include information about the shot.

You need to include information about the implant.

You need to include information about other 'physical" forms like dam/sponge.

You need to include information about creams/lubes (spermicide, etc)

I plan on adding more information as time goes on, but I did not want the post to be too long as to not intimidate readers, many of whom are young. When things are too long sometimes people just skip over it and that defeats the purpose. That's why I said I'll start by including the most popular, basic forms on contraception. As more questions arise I'll add more to the list. That is a good point though! I'll most likely be adding information about the shot next since there was question about it.

Abhorrence
November 25th, 2015, 03:52 PM
Posts have been deleted, this is an information thread not a place to argue or debate about the legality of specific things. Please try to keep everything on topic, thank you.

LanaPole
November 25th, 2015, 08:28 PM
Very detailed. I've never seen a female condom before.

Mayflys
November 26th, 2015, 11:18 AM
Thank you for your information

MarisWonder
November 28th, 2015, 08:33 AM
Very detailed. I've never seen a female condom before.

Most people havent! They're more expensive than a male condom ($4 per condom vs. $4 per pack) which is probably part of the reason why they arent as popular. But they can be placed in the vagina ahead of time

angelina
November 28th, 2015, 11:58 PM
Nice sharing..i like this thread

LanaPole
November 29th, 2015, 07:27 AM
Most people havent! They're more expensive than a male condom ($4 per condom vs. $4 per pack) which is probably part of the reason why they arent as popular. But they can be placed in the vagina ahead of time

theyre not even sold often arent they? you mean that it can be placed in the vagina all the time?

Brieftime
November 29th, 2015, 07:43 AM
I know what an std is but what's an STI?

LITTLEANGEL19
November 29th, 2015, 08:50 AM
I know what an std is but what's an STI?

Sexually transmitted infection

Brieftime
November 29th, 2015, 11:53 AM
Thanks LittleAngel14

MarisWonder
November 30th, 2015, 06:21 PM
theyre not even sold often arent they? you mean that it can be placed in the vagina all the time?

It still needs to be removed after it is used, but you can place it in ahead of time unlike a male condom which needs to be put on directly before sex. For example, if you plan on having sex later that day, you can insert the female condom in hours before.

As far as buying them goes; they are sold just as much as regular condoms, available in drugstores, online and family planning clinics. You just have to know what to look for.

MarisWonder
November 30th, 2015, 06:25 PM
I know what an std is but what's an STI?

As LittleAngel15 said, it's a sexually transmitted infection. Most of what you hear about are STIs- they are curable and may not cause any life/body-altering symptoms.

If an STI starts to alter the typical function of the body, it is then called a disease.

Karkat
November 30th, 2015, 08:26 PM
A very informative, but concise post. Thank you for sharing!

LanaPole
December 1st, 2015, 07:30 AM
It still needs to be removed after it is used, but you can place it in ahead of time unlike a male condom which needs to be put on directly before sex. For example, if you plan on having sex later that day, you can insert the female condom in hours before.

As far as buying them goes; they are sold just as much as regular condoms, available in drugstores, online and family planning clinics. You just have to know what to look for.

i see. youre an expert.:yes:

MarisWonder
December 1st, 2015, 01:51 PM
i see. youre an expert.:yes:

Haha, nooo I'm far from an expert, but i sure hope to be someday :D

SammyG17
December 5th, 2015, 03:28 PM
Maris,

I was having a conversation today with a friend about medications. We got to the topic of BC, and I said that I'm used to the shot, as it is less to remember / deal with during busy days. She said she's working on the patch. When I asked her why, she said she has trouble, almost a fear, of swallowing pills.

So this made me wonder, is it possible to crush / dissolve in water / or chew, not just regular BC pills, but something like Plan B also?

MarisWonder
December 6th, 2015, 04:30 PM
Maris,

I was having a conversation today with a friend about medications. We got to the topic of BC, and I said that I'm used to the shot, as it is less to remember / deal with during busy days. She said she's working on the patch. When I asked her why, she said she has trouble, almost a fear, of swallowing pills.

So this made me wonder, is it possible to crush / dissolve in water / or chew, not just regular BC pills, but something like Plan B also?

It is not recommended to crush, chew or dissolve any sort of pill, especially if they have a coating on the outside. This coating is so that the pill dissolves at a certain rate to prevent any sort of irritation and the body gets a steady dosage of the medicine. If she really would like to take the pill, there are methods to get around it.
For example: she could swallow it with a spoonful of applesauce.

Both the plan b and the birth control pill are super small though- if she can swallow a gulp of food she should be able to swallow them. It's probably more of a mental fear thing.

But the patch contains the same hormones that the pill does- it's just a different way of ingesting them.

MarisWonder
December 10th, 2015, 06:03 PM
Finally updated first post with video showing how to use a condom, and information on the shot (depo provera). School's out for me! Happy holidays everybody

MarisWonder
December 15th, 2015, 11:22 AM
updated with information about the cervical cap

MarisWonder
January 3rd, 2016, 02:04 PM
Updated with not-so-recommended forms of birth control