Is this rude?

[frisbee25]

Okay so my friend wants to go to a movie again that we saw. I didn't like the movie the best, I told him my parents said yes but I don't want to go. Is that rude because he's claiming its rude.

[Croconaw]

I don't think anyone's to blame here. It wasn't exactly rude, though.

[Living For Love]

Why don't you two arrange something else? If you and your friend already saw the movie, and even didn't like it, then there's not much point in going to see it again. Explain that to him, he might understand, and there are much more nice things you can do together other than going to the cinema.

[Cygnus]

I think it isn't rude because you are being honest, as Tiago said the best option is probably to arrange something else, that probably isn't the only movie available, or you could go somewhere else, or if you don't want to do anything this week then be direct and say that however add that you would like to do something next week.

[JamesSuperBoy]

It is not rude - you were being honest -

[Something Creative]

It's not rude, you shouldn't do something you don't feel like doing, plus you were just being honest. If anyone's to blame here, it's your parents. I'd be pissed as hell if they tried to plan my social life.

[Philleeep]

It's not rude, it's really just giving your opinion.

[AlexOnToast]

Maybe a little blunt, but not rude. You gave an honest answer and I'm sure your friend can appreciate that.

[ksdnfkfr]

people often mistakenly interpret blunt honesty as rudeness.
personally i prefer people to be straight forward with me instead of playing games

[chrisjenkins]

That's not rude.

[riverboy]

Saying that you didn't like the movie you saw and don't want to see it again is not rude. It be rude if you insulted your friend for wanting to see it.

[KiyoshisIsland]

Not rude, you should probably just go see a different movie

[DarkHorse4eva]

it's not rude. it could be rude if you said it a rude way, but if you just say that you don't fancy seeing it again, it doesn't seem rude

[radsniper]

it was very blunt but not rude,but the truth can be rude

[Body odah Man]

Be honest man. Besides in a year you'll hate each other probs.

[Zenos]

Okay so my friend wants to go to a movie again that we saw. I didn't like the movie the best, I told him my parents said yes but I don't want to go. Is that rude because he's claiming its rude.

no you gave a valid reason for not wanting to go so this Court finds the defendant not guilty on all charges of rudeness!

[frisbee25]

no you gave a valid reason for not wanting to go so this Court finds the defendant not guilty on all charges of rudeness!

Thanks you but he think I'm being rude for not wanting to go. He said that's just rude and I done a lot of stuff for you etc. Also he claims I am direspectful to him but everyone know (In my school) I'm super nice but when you puss me off I'm hell but he works on getting me mad.

[ausley]

Its not rude at all. Though he may think it rude because of the way you said it? Luke he could have interpreted it as you did not want to hangout with him so just be sure you're telling him you don't want to go because of the movie not him.