You guys are gonna hate me for this...

[Professional Russian]

So anyone who's been around for any amount of time would have seen my constant crying about my best friend leaving me for an unknown reason. Anyways recently I've been missing this girl fucking bad. There's just reasons that made this girl very important and very special to me and its not cause I loved her so much there's much more personal reasons as well that she was literally the only person that knew and I could go to about and the other day after one of those things happened and I had no one to turn to I made the decision to get my best friend back. After a couple months of sitting around not doing nothing to try I've decided to try again. So I called her dad we talked about it and he said she'd come back again at some point. Last night I spent 2 hours or more at her house with her and her parents(mostly to harass to her dad like always do) but I notcied the whole time I was there not only was she constantly smiling(which was hard to do considering she just broke her finger the day before and wasn't allowed to do alot of things she liked including work) but she didn't have her phone either. And this girl is usually glued to her phone but when I was there it was nowhere in sight. She paying more attention to me being there than who was texting her. The main thing I'm getting at here is I'm getting real hopeful that ill have my best friend very soon but after what happened I'm not sure. She's gone back to her best friend which she left aswell as me and I'm hoping she'll come back to me but I want to ask through everything I said and all the things I'm seeing do they look like signs ill have my best friend back or should II stop trying again and just keep trying to let go? Thanks in advance and sorry for bringing this back up again

[justindw199]

I don't hate you for it at all!

Now, I haven't read any of your previous post's, but if you want my honest opinion, you have your answer already.

I've lost my best friend before and it took me awhile to get over it.

From what you've said, she is happy devoting her full attention to you and talking to you. My friends that abandoned me would not talk to me at all afterwards, they completely cut me off.

If I were you, I'd keep going with it. If things semi-return to normal, then I'd ask her why she stopped talking to you for that time.

I hope things work out!

-Justin

[Professional Russian]

I don't hate you for it at all!

Now, I haven't read any of your previous post's, but if you want my honest opinion, you have your answer already.

I've lost my best friend before and it took me awhile to get over it.

From what you've said, she is happy devoting her full attention to you and talking to you. My friends that abandoned me would not talk to me at all afterwards, they completely cut me off.

If I were you, I'd keep going with it. If things semi-return to normal, then I'd ask her why she stopped talking to you for that time.

I hope things work out!

-Justin

You must not have bee here long. For the last 9 months its been thread after thread of constant crying asking what I did wrong what j can do to fix it and going on and on and on it was really annoying I know it was. Well from the beginning of all this we could still talk. She would have talked to me all day and all night because she knew I wasn't after anything really I literally just wanted to be able to sit down and talk to her. What happened was, which was again partially my fault, when her bf left her she cut everyone off and I was used to texting her till 9 10 at night well when that stopped I took it super personally because of something I told her and I thought me and her best friend were the only 2 affected by this. Then after that when we went to warped tour we were supposed to go together but instead she took 3 other guys. I was a fucking emotional mess that whole day. I again took it very very personally. But in the end I shouldn't have and taking all that personally led to a lot of clingyness and being annoying and you no one wants that person...unfortunately. But yeah I'm just going to keep being a dick to her. That's how we became friends in the first place and that howni hope its going to happen again.

[justindw199]

You must not have bee here long. For the last 9 months its been thread after thread of constant crying asking what I did wrong what j can do to fix it and going on and on and on it was really annoying I know it was. Well from the beginning of all this we could still talk. She would have talked to me all day and all night because she knew I wasn't after anything really I literally just wanted to be able to sit down and talk to her. What happened was, which was again partially my fault, when her bf left her she cut everyone off and I was used to texting her till 9 10 at night well when that stopped I took it super personally because of something I told her and I thought me and her best friend were the only 2 affected by this. Then after that when we went to warped tour we were supposed to go together but instead she took 3 other guys. I was a fucking emotional mess that whole day. I again took it very very personally. But in the end I shouldn't have and taking all that personally led to a lot of clingyness and being annoying and you no one wants that person...unfortunately. But yeah I'm just going to keep being a dick to her. That's how we became friends in the first place and that howni hope its going to happen again.

Yeah, I've been around for a few months, but only been active for a few days.

I know your pain man, sounds like you've gone through the same situation I was in.

I hope things work out for you and your friend!

-Justin

[Professional Russian]

Yeah, I've been around for a few months, but only been active for a few days.

I know your pain man, sounds like you've gone through the same situation I was in.

I hope things work out for you and your friend!

-Justin

Well I just stopped at her house and talked to her dad(which I'm very good friends with...hell he's more of a dad to me than my dad) and even he says after what happened Friday night its looking good for me so in pretty hopeful at this point

[Sheilae]

I don't hate you for it at all!

Now, I haven't read any of your previous post's, but if you want my honest opinion, you have your answer already.

I've lost my best friend before and it took me awhile to get over it.

From what you've said, she is happy devoting her full attention to you and talking to you. My friends that abandoned me would not talk to me at all afterwards, they completely cut me off.

If I were you, I'd keep going with it. If things semi-return to normal, then I'd ask her why she stopped talking to you for that time.

I hope things work out!

-Justin
Fully agree! Good luck ! :)

[Professional Russian]

Fully agree! Good luck ! :)

Thanks it means a lot. I out up a hard fight for the last 9 months just to have my best friend back and now its finally looking good.

[Sheilae]

Thanks it means a lot. I out up a hard fight for the last 9 months just to have my best friend back and now its finally looking good.
Believe me, eventually it will be alright. But please remember, if your best friend makes you feel miserabele about yourself in any way, don't try to get her back then. That's just a toxic relationship. But if she shows that she loves you and you feel good with her, be friends again :) x

[Professional Russian]

Believe me, eventually it will be alright. But please remember, if your best friend makes you feel miserabele about yourself in any way, don't try to get her back then. That's just a toxic relationship. But if she shows that she loves you and you feel good with her, be friends again :) x

Well I was miserable for the last 9 months but it was my mind fucking with me not her directly doing anything. I just missed being with her all the time and that fucked me up bad.

[Professional Russian]

Honestly seriously. I was just at this girls house again and everytime she hears me she comes out from what she's doing. Every fucking time and I'm honestly so confused about it. It doesn't make sense. She won't text me or talk to me anywhere else but when I'm in person she won't leave my side. It's so fucking confusing.

[aifexcx]

ok so i feel like you should consider that you may have done something to upset them and they think that you have changed (you might have you might not idk) so i wouldnt be too open and sharing with them until you know they are definitely your friend again. I had to leave my old best friend because she never allowed me an opinion and was just a general bitch. Not saying your like this at all ok but she mightve seen something happen like this in the past and overreact to something idk but hope this helped. xx

[Professional Russian]

ok so i feel like you should consider that you may have done something to upset them and they think that you have changed (you might have you might not idk) so i wouldnt be too open and sharing with them until you know they are definitely your friend again. I had to leave my old best friend because she never allowed me an opinion and was just a general bitch. Not saying your like this at all ok but she mightve seen something happen like this in the past and overreact to something idk but hope this helped. xx

I'm going to paraphrase the whole story into one sentence. I did the best I could to help her and make her happy again at a time where she was very depressed....iw as just a little annoying in doing so. But I never did anything that I know of to upset her. Maybe I was just with her at a bad time and she attached that to me but I know I never purposely didn't anything to upset her. I don't even bring up what happened all those months ago. I want to but I never do in fear of loosing the little bit I have left.

[justindw199]

I'm going to paraphrase the whole story into one sentence. I did the best I could to help her and make her happy again at a time where she was very depressed....iw as just a little annoying in doing so. But I never did anything that I know of to upset her. Maybe I was just with her at a bad time and she attached that to me but I know I never purposely didn't anything to upset her. I don't even bring up what happened all those months ago. I want to but I never do in fear of loosing the little bit I have left.

I think that maybe asking her what she wants is the right move right now. You may feel uncomfortable to you, but it is better to know the truth than ripping your hair out trying to figure it all out.

[Professional Russian]

I think that maybe asking her what she wants is the right move right now. You may feel uncomfortable to you, but it is better to know the truth than ripping your hair out trying to figure it all out.

I know the truth. No one told me but going through the timeline of events I know the truth and I know what happened and I know exactly who it was and exactly who caused and exactly who took my whole world away. And she'll never tell me guaranteed. She'll give me a reason but it will only be half of it. The rest I know. I know the names of every single person involved in this and I can probably tell you exactly words that came out of their mouths about me. But in the end the jokes on then because I'll outlast them by a country mile because when I'm working for her daddy I'll always be around and they won't. Even after she graduates I'll still be there when everyone else disappeared.