Anal sex/masturbation guys please

[Just JT]

Im just wondering, as im obviously confused about stuff.
If you like to receive anal sex, we assume that that we are either gay or bi right?
But if we like to masturbate anally, we could be gay bi or straight?
So how do we define that line?
I mean, yeah, receiving anal sex from someone can obviously be better than masturbation I think, cause just like regular masturbation, it's always better if someone else does it for us right?

So what the difference really?
Can we like getting plowed by a dude and still be straight?

[Zachary G]

Hmmmm.... you pose a very good question here. I know of a straight guy who likes to be stimulated anally when having sex, but he only likes to have it done by a male. However, he never wants to be on the giving end of that because he thinks it would mean he was gay. He has no attraction to other boys, only to girls, but he only trusts his one gay friend to do this for him.

All of that being said, I would have to say that yes, its possible to be straight and enjoy being anally stimulated by another guy.

[Jaffe]

Im just wondering, as im obviously confused about stuff.
If you like to receive anal sex, we assume that that we are either gay or bi right?
But if we like to masturbate anally, we could be gay bi or straight?

Masturbation in any form has nothing to do with being bi or straight or gay.
Think about it: when you stroke your dick, is it a guy or girl stroking it? Same with anal, it's still just you doing it.

So how do we define that line?

There is no line. Just a broad expanse of gray area, with tiny spaces at the gay end and straight end. Most people fit between the two.

Can we like getting plowed by a dude and still be straight?

Probably not, but as I said above, most people, even those identifying as gay or straight, actually fall somewhere in the huge expanse of "gray" between the two extremes.

[Just JT]

I guess I always associated liking anal stuff as normal or acceptable for straight guys, but if you liked that anal stimulation from a guys dick then it's gay or bi

Maybe I'm wrong....

[PaleBoy]

Things that make you gay/bisexual - being attracted to boys
Things that do not make you gay/bisexual - Anything else

If you enjoy anal stimulation that´s.....that´s it. You enjoy anal stimulation. It doesn´t change your sexuality.

That said, if you think you could enjoy doing some sexual activity with another male, you definitely aren´t 100% straight.

[MarisWonder]

Many straight couples actually participate in anal sex. If a woman performs anal sex on a man this is called pegging, which is actually a very common (yet rarely talked about) practice! So the answer to this question

Can we like getting plowed by a dude and still be straight? you can definitely like getting 'plowed' but if you are not attracted to men, it doesn't have to be by a man. If you are, it can be.

Anal masturbation is not gay, bi, or straight....it's anal masturbation. Which is a time with yourself to make yourself feel good.

A man is gay or bi if he is (sexually/romantically) attracted to men. That's the only time. Men do not need to have anal sex to be considered gay.

[Kate200]

You are not a gay, but be careful with what you are masturbating. The best is to masturbate with a normal anal toy ( watch it on Edenfantasys for example if you want). Don't put in : pencils, or another thing. They can stuck .

[Just JT]

You are not a gay, but be careful with what you are masturbating. The best is to masturbate with a normal anal toy ( watch it on Edenfantasys for example if you want). Don't put in : pencils, or another thing. They can stuck .

Yeah, that I knew, and I got the proper utensils for the job, no problems there. Bob is a good friend lol

Was mainly curious about the sexuality/general opinion of this, but thanks for your contribution!! :)