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Cadanance00
November 8th, 2015, 09:42 AM
Okay, this is anonymous, right?
My gf said she sometimes take baths together with her sister. She's 11, my gf's almost 16. My family is very comfortable with our bodies but I wouldn't consider taking a bath with my brother. (wait, wait, I remember doing that when we were like 5 or 6). Besides, it must be kind of crowded in there. But she and her sister are very close.

Her sis & mine are friends and my sis thinks it's 'cute', tho she said don't think she's getting in a bathtub with me! (I wouldn't anyway.)

I want to ask people here cuz if I ask anybody at school they'll know who I'm talking about.

So, do you think this is weird or normal? I'm sure there's nothing inappropriate going on.

Desuetude
November 8th, 2015, 10:13 AM
Who cares what we think? The idea that it shouldn't be happening because other people are uncomfortable with it is a little absurd. I'm uncomfortable with a lot of things but I don't stop other people from doing what they want (because it's not like it's hurting anyone else?) because of this.

Depends on how you're brought up. I've been brought up to be very conservative about my body and I'm a self conscious person anyway so no, that'd never happen and to me, that seems weird. Other people are brought up in households where parents teach that nudity is nothing to be ashamed of and will walk around the house undressed. They might find it less weird.

In the end, we all live our own lives. You're not with them whilst they're bathing and their bathing habits don't affect you at all. So in the end, the question is kind of pointless.

Bull
November 8th, 2015, 10:36 AM
My brother and I have shared a bedroom and bathroom for years. Our bathroom has a huge shower with two shower heads. It was built that way so we don't have to wait on each other to shower. It sure was a big help with getting ready for school in the morning. I see no problem with siblings sharing a bath. Do your thing and don't worry how others do theirs.

Ratman1234
November 8th, 2015, 12:18 PM
It's a bit different but it sounds fine

Cadanance00
November 8th, 2015, 02:38 PM
My brother and I have shared a bedroom and bathroom for years. Our bathroom has a huge shower with two shower heads. It was built that way so we don't have to wait on each other to shower. It sure was a big help with getting ready for school in the morning. I see no problem with siblings sharing a bath. Do your thing and don't worry how others do theirs.

Two shower heads sounds incredibly practical. When my OB and his bae took a shower together I asked him how it was and he said there was hardly enough room to turn around and only one person at a time could get under the water.

Zachary G
November 8th, 2015, 03:16 PM
Who cares what we think? The idea that it shouldn't be happening because other people are uncomfortable with it is a little absurd. I'm uncomfortable with a lot of things but I don't stop other people from doing what they want (because it's not like it's hurting anyone else?) because of this.

Depends on how you're brought up. I've been brought up to be very conservative about my body and I'm a self conscious person anyway so no, that'd never happen and to me, that seems weird. Other people are brought up in households where parents teach that nudity is nothing to be ashamed of and will walk around the house undressed. They might find it less weird.

In the end, we all live our own lives. You're not with them whilst they're bathing and their bathing habits don't affect you at all. So in the end, the question is kind of pointless.

Couldnt have said this any better myself. I agree totally with this.