Should I talk to her again?

[Jcml27]

So the thing is, it's been 8 months since I've broken up with my girlfriend yet I still care about her so much, but I realise she mightn't feel the same way so I'm not ever gonna tell her how I feel and that utterly kills me inside but I still feel the urge to talk to her as a friend because she is still one of the funniest and smartest people I've ever met, but I don't know if she'll want to talk to me since the break up was kinda rough.

Also she likes to humiliate people who she doesn't get along with so I can picture her doing so if I talk to her again. Also, she has a boyfriend now so I don't want to interfere there as long as he makes her happy. And to be honest I am extremely scared of talking to other girls ever since our relationship.

What do you guys think I should do about it?

[SethfromMI]

well, if she has a boy friend, you should let her be man. I know it may be painful, but you're opening a can of worms with that one. I would just let her go for the time being. if it gets to a point where she is single again, try to get her to a point where she might be willing to talk, but realize even at that point, she might to be willing to

[Uniquemind]

I suggest moving on, you still seem fixated and in mourning.

[Shiny Moon]

If she's in another relationship, then move on. And remember that you broke up with her for a reason. It's nice to try to be friends, but that doesn't work out in most cases :(

[Uniquemind]

If she's in another relationship, then move on. And remember that you broke up with her for a reason. It's nice to try to be friends, but that doesn't work out in most cases :(

I wasn't sure if that was meant in a passive or deliberate tense.

"I've broken up" could meant he initiated the breakup, or he was stating a fact like "I've been out of a relationship for __ amount of time.


But agreed you're right if the OP initiated the breakup, that's a harder position for them to rekindle a relationship cuz the other person was probably hurt.

[SillyShyGuy]

Leave it be. If she might humiliate you then back away, especially if she has a boyfriend. I think it is a trap to speak to her again. Yes I understand that you care about her, but I was in the same situation with my prom date. I thought I loved her, but it was only infatuation. It will pass in time. Even though you might say she is one of the greatest individual you have ever met, it is not meant to be. That is one reason I would rather cut off all contact with my ex girlfriends. Plus it becomes awkward.

[ashdyn]

Bro...one and done.

Going back to an ex 99% of the time ends up being a mistake. It might work out for a little but usually ends with the same result. Y'all broke up for a reason before.