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RedBull
November 7th, 2015, 03:55 PM
I meet one cool guy a mouth ago .We spent great time together,went on concerts, get high, watched movies...i love to talk with him, we are so similar.
He always watch me in the eyes so long...its sometimes crazy...but he never touch me or kiss me.I don't know what he really want, just to be friends?It's little annoying, and im scared to make first step, i think that he get angry or something like that..
I think this could be some reasons why he didnt try to kiss me
1.he is gay
2.still love his ex girlfriend
3.he doesn't like my physical appearance
4.or just waiting for a right moment?
5.maybe he is bad person with secret motives

What do you think?Have some simmilar experiences?
ps-sry for my terrible english :D

Uniquemind
November 7th, 2015, 04:11 PM
My advice would be to take the lead and hold his hand and Lean into him.

Maybe he'll get the message but if he's not interested you'll know because he'll probably reject those physical advances.

You can progress from there but also literally talk about your feelings.

It's always a chance a guy is deceiving you for sex, but that's life.

Just get frequently tested for STD's or draw a line in the sand for yourself about how far you want to go physically-sexually.

It should be about the bond you share first though, never sex first, relationship later. The latter rarely works.

candagirl233
November 7th, 2015, 08:47 PM
honestly i don't think he wants you for sex and that only cause if he did i think he would have already tried something.

XoXo Becca

SillyShyGuy
November 7th, 2015, 11:37 PM
I will restrain myself from correcting your spelling/grammar because you need my help. By the way, feel free to join my group Star Wars Fan Club.

Now then, there might be many reasons he will not kiss you. One, he is intoxicated as you have mentioned. Two, he is not sure if he is ready to move on from his last girlfriend. Three, he might not know if you like him and therefore he is hesitating to show you how he feels. Or perhaps it means that he is not attracted to you altogether. You might have to make the first move buddy. Do something small like brush up against him, kiss his cheek, or put your hand over his.

Melodic
November 8th, 2015, 12:08 AM
Given that you only known him for a month I personally wouldn't put much thought into it right now as he's probably just trying to get to know you.

RedBull
November 28th, 2015, 06:19 PM
He stop sending messages to me, and don't call me.Idiot...