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Maddiez2002
November 6th, 2015, 07:18 PM
Me and my friend are 13 years old, we're both girls. Sometimes when we hang out she puts her feet on my lap, I kind of think they're cute cuz she has long toes and always keeps them pedicured.

Anyways so here's what happened, we were hanging out in my room watching a movie and I left for a few minutes to do some stuff.

When I got back she was asleep in a funny way. Like she was asleep on the bed but her feet were sticking out, so her feet were on top of the desk (which is next to the bed). And she kicked off her socks in her sleep =P Cuz her socks were on the desk too.

So I started watching the movie again, but I got distracted cuz her toes kept wiggling a lot, so I started playing around with them.

For example, I would push her toes back and forth a few times, and they would start wiggling by themselves :P. Then I would hold them still to make them stop wiggling. Sometimes I did that when a song was playing on TV, and her toes started wiggling to the beat of the song :P. So then I played some songs on my phone and pushed her toes around to make them wiggle to the beat.

After a while I think she started dreaming that she's dancing, because I kept pushing her toes around. Like sometimes her toes would start wiggling to a rhythm by themselves, but there's no music playing, so it's like her toes remember the rhythm :P.

And they follow voice instructions too, like her toes would start wiggling when I whisper "twinkle toes". And if I whisper "ballet toes" her toes would flex and make a point like a ballerina :P

Anyways I was amused and liked playing around with her feet - is this normal or is this considered really weird? I don't think I'm a weirdo cuz I'm nice, social, and people like me :what:

Uniquemind
November 6th, 2015, 08:40 PM
Her feet were possessed by a supernatural entity while she was asleep and it was playing with you.


Don't worry nobody got hurt, weird stuff happens when people sleep.

Sleepwalking etc....who knows.

Desuetude
November 6th, 2015, 09:20 PM
No, you're not weird. People like different things, nothing wrong with that. You might find it surprising to hear that feet are pretty common for people to find attractive, even in a sexual way. So you're absolutely fine.

Salad_Baby
November 7th, 2015, 03:32 AM
People are into different things - as long as she didn't know you did it, it should be fine.

Uniquemind
November 7th, 2015, 05:06 AM
People are into different things - as long as she didn't know you did it, it should be fine.

No offense because I get what you're trying to say.

But in a different context, that line sounds so politically incorrect and bad.

Salad_Baby
November 7th, 2015, 05:15 AM
No offense because I get what you're trying to say.

But in a different context, that line sounds so politically incorrect and bad.

I'm not encouraging it, I'm just saying it would have been a bit awkward if the girl knew or happened to find out what she had done to her feet.

Uniquemind
November 7th, 2015, 06:06 AM
I'm not encouraging it, I'm just saying it would have been a bit awkward if the girl knew or happened to find out what she had done to her feet.

Either way for the record I think this is a troll post.

Hence why I'm trying to be entertainingly sarcastic while still answering the question seriously on the off chance that I'm wrong.

If I were mod though, I'd have locked this thread.

Just saying.

Salad_Baby
November 7th, 2015, 06:17 AM
Either way for the record I think this is a troll post.

Hence why I'm trying to be entertainingly sarcastic while still answering the question seriously on the off chance that I'm wrong.

If I were mod though, I'd have locked this thread.

Just saying.

How can you tell it's a joke post for sure?

Uniquemind
November 7th, 2015, 07:00 AM
How can you tell it's a joke post for sure?

I can't. It's a hunch, but my gut is usually right.

When I don't trust my instincts and go against them I've been hurt.

But since I have a live-let-live attitude the compromise was to take the post seriously out of respect, but then also acknowledge a second perspective and hopefully share that with others for their sake.

Shiny Moon
November 7th, 2015, 12:37 PM
I don't find it normal, but neither weird. Something in between maybe?
Anyway, if her feet moved that much, she was definitely not asleep.

AutumnWinds
November 8th, 2015, 01:06 AM
i don't think it's weird. it's what you're into ,and that's 100% okay. that being said, i wouldn't get too crazy with her without knowing she is okay with it. personal boundaries and all.

Uniquemind
November 8th, 2015, 02:09 AM
i don't think it's weird. it;s what you're into ,and that's 100% okay. that being said, i wouldn't get too crazy with her without knowing she is okay with it. personal boundaries and all.

I think I outed the OP.

If this was a real issue weighing on her mind, I'd have expected a reply by now.


This is obviously a troll thread. Look at the join date and the post count of the OP (I.e. Clues).