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ashleigh7
November 6th, 2015, 05:23 PM
I think my mom knows that I am....or have tried sex. Will spare ya the details. But was curious if any one has ever been caught by their mom, and how that talk went? Just trying to prepare for full on embarrassment!:eek:
shamrockgirl02
November 6th, 2015, 08:58 PM
My step mom was the parent who caught me having sex a few months ago (thank god it wasn't my dad), and even though they already sort of expected me be having sex since they put me on the pill, I still had to sit down with her and my dad to hear them tell me that I still needed to be careful and not treat the pill a free pass to fuck anything with a pulse. That wasn't so bad, although I did have to listen to my stepmom awkwardly reassure me that I could come to her with any questions I might have. Unfortunately, my stepmom then walked in on me doing something with a boy a few weeks ago, and since then she's taken several opportunities to remind me that even though birth control prevents pregnancy, it can't prevent std's. You just kinda have to grit your teeth and bear it, but on the plus side, after a while she'll just start to see you having sex as just an ordinary thing
lileva
November 7th, 2015, 04:27 AM
I know my mum knows
Shiny Moon
November 7th, 2015, 12:44 PM
Mine never saw me, but she knows because I told her. She just reminded me a couple of things about the talk.
prtygurl
November 8th, 2015, 09:29 PM
after a while she'll just start to see you having sex as just an ordinary thing
Wow. That's a bit grown up for 13. I wouldn't call sex "ordinary."
kentucky girl
November 9th, 2015, 10:46 AM
She hasn't caught me but she knows I have sex.
Jilly
November 9th, 2015, 12:14 PM
So, if your mom knows, how do you think she feels about it?
I know some parents would freak. I know some parents would be totally okay with it. I know some parents would just be concerned that you stay safe.
Where does your mom fall in all of this?
messyme
November 9th, 2015, 09:47 PM
it good to be honest all the time... so tell her straight.
xcherriesncreamx
November 9th, 2015, 11:46 PM
Nope she dosnt know i am sexually active
nicole97
November 14th, 2015, 05:22 PM
If you're really pretty sure she knows and will be talking about it maybe take it as a chance to set the terms. When I could tell my mom pretty clearly knew my BF and I had started having sex, I told her I felt a birth control prescription would help keep me safe. While I could tell she probably would have preferred that I waited till I was a bit older, she also understood and appreciated the fact that I wanted to have sex in the most safe way possible and agreed without asking any further questions.
lacey02
November 14th, 2015, 05:26 PM
I don't think I could handle a conversation about this with my mom or dad even though not doing too much yet. Way too prudish and judgmental.
Jordan99
November 22nd, 2015, 01:54 PM
Am certain my parents know but we don't make it an issue. I have a great relationship with both parents though and the lines of communication are always open.
Princess Ariel
November 23rd, 2015, 02:33 PM
My mom knows that I have had sex. I went out to dinner with her last semester and she said, in the restaurant "Cover up your hickie". She also was sleeping downstairs, and offered me and my girlfriend her far more comfortable bed and said "You can sleep in my bed, just one request; no hanky panky in it" Incredibly awkward, but she knows.
angelina
November 27th, 2015, 02:15 AM
not happened so far...she only knows my M bation....
LITTLEANGEL19
November 27th, 2015, 03:48 AM
not happened so far...she only knows my M bation....
Same here.
SkyClad33605
November 28th, 2015, 07:20 PM
My mom definitely knows I masturbate, not sure if she knows the rest. But she did tell me that she remembers what she was like at my age, and that I probably wasn't very different. I think that was her way of saying, "I know everything but it's ok cause I did it too."
Maria16 Here
December 13th, 2015, 01:57 PM
My mom knows, but she is cool with it and just wants me to be careful. She has seen some.
AutumnWinds
December 31st, 2015, 05:50 PM
She hasn't caught me but she knows I have sex.
how does she know?
Beach_Blonde
January 2nd, 2016, 04:44 PM
My mom knows I masturbate I don't know if she caught me, just herd me, or if my sister told her. I don't think I'm ready for sex ( with either sex) clearly from my posts you can tell. But my mom was very cool with knowing I masturbate. She said it was normal and that eventually I'd be ready and come talk to her first. She offered to out me on the pill and buy me condoms. My sister said her talk with mom was really good too. The only problem with the talk with my mom was that she said she would never tell my father an that it d best if he didn't find out.
Maybe your mom will be like mine.
Doro15
January 8th, 2016, 05:39 AM
my mother and my father know it because they have to caught me already.
And I'm sure they can think that I also have sex. but do not care about it.
tulolita2015
January 8th, 2016, 06:50 AM
My stepfather caught me, two times already so he knows. My mother didnt know but I told her, already so she gave me some advise etc... I really dont like to go into details with her because we dont have a good relationship.
sweetheart
April 12th, 2016, 05:56 PM
my mom knows
Living For Love
April 14th, 2016, 05:33 AM
Please don't bump old threads. :locked:
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