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RookieFox
November 6th, 2015, 12:02 AM
Hello! Recently, I met a new guy in my class and I like him. We are hanging out together and are friends, but I want to ask him out. The problem is - it's my first time trying to date a guy and even though I know he is gay, I don't know how to ask him. Please, anyone with experience with boys, help =)

hesaidhesaid
November 6th, 2015, 12:36 AM
Be honest, take him out to dinner or a movie and be confident. Ask him what he likes and be that person he comes to for help.
Last of all: Be prepared for the worst and still be friends just in case it doesn't work. Even if he says no now, who knows what might happen down the track...

All the best :D
If you need more, just PM me.

SillyShyGuy
November 6th, 2015, 01:11 AM
It is okay to be shy at first. Just make yourself comfortable and bring it up when you are talking to him. No need to make things awkward. Be friendly and confident.

TheLotus
November 6th, 2015, 02:19 AM
Ease into it, don't try to rush things or put him on the spot about it, and like said above, it's normal to be nervous about it. Hopefully it works out between you two

Living For Love
November 6th, 2015, 12:05 PM
Puberty For Boys :arrow2: Relationships And Dating.

Salad_Baby
November 6th, 2015, 12:53 PM
One thing I would say is to not make it too 'spontaneous' e.g. when you're having a talk about a new videogame, you suddenly pop the question - that won't really show to him the commitment and effort you're willing to put towards him. Do something special - go see a movie, go into town etc. Make it something memorable. It's perfectly fine to be nervous.

ashdyn
November 7th, 2015, 01:05 PM
One thing I would say is to not make it too 'spontaneous' e.g. when you're having a talk about a new videogame, you suddenly pop the question - that won't really show to him the commitment and effort you're willing to put towards him. Do something special - go see a movie, go into town etc. Make it something memorable. It's perfectly fine to be nervous.

^^ forreal. Plan something nice. Not TOO nice though lol don't go all out on a first date. Think of it just like hanging out with just a little different intent (:

Brieftime
November 7th, 2015, 01:11 PM
I would try going bowling or something other then a movie. Nothing worse then trying to watch a movie with someone talking. Good luck!

SethfromMI
November 7th, 2015, 01:28 PM
One thing I would say is to not make it too 'spontaneous' e.g. when you're having a talk about a new videogame, you suddenly pop the question - that won't really show to him the commitment and effort you're willing to put towards him. Do something special - go see a movie, go into town etc. Make it something memorable. It's perfectly fine to be nervous.

pretty much this. doing something special and you can ask him. to be prepared if, for whatever reason, he only wants to be friends. best of luck to you

RookieFox
November 8th, 2015, 06:27 PM
Thank you for your replies but I have one more question: how should I actually ask him? Like should I ask: would you date me? or what? =) sorry, I'm confused :P