Is it normal to be jealous of everyone's sexual encounters on here?

[dreamofdante]

I mean literally every single post I see about sex on here in these sections makes me feel extremely jealous like it'll never happen for me but I wish it would. Is this normal?

[Everyusernameistaken]

Yep haha you just wait your time will come.

[dreamofdante]

Yep haha you just wait your time will come.

I don't believe you hahahahahahaha

[Hollywood]

Not really. Being jealous won't make it happen any sooner.

[dreamofdante]

Not really. Being jealous won't make it happen any sooner.

That's true...But I also can't help feeling it.

[Hollywood]

That's true...But I also can't help feeling it.

Just hang in there man, I'm in the same boat as you. The time will come, but worrying yourself about it is just going to stress you out.

[dreamofdante]

Just hang in there man, I'm in the same boat as you. The time will come, but worrying yourself about it is just going to stress you out.

Sorry to hear that you are...The time will come for you I'm sure.

[MechaSniper]

Completely norm, I envy those people

[dreamofdante]

Completely norm, I envy those people

So you're in my predicament?

[MechaSniper]

Yes i am. ;n;

[dreamofdante]

Yes i am. ;n;

I'm sorry man :(

[MechaSniper]

No need. Girls can't handle our hotness.*pose*

[dreamofdante]

No need. Girls can't handle our hotness.*pose*

One of ours' I guess.

[MechaSniper]

I can cover for both of us

[dreamofdante]

I can cover for both of us

You'll have to.

[MechaSniper]

Oh really?

[dreamofdante]

Oh really?

Yeah cuz it ain't me.

[MechaSniper]

Beauty depends on the eye of the beholder and it's what's on the inside that counts.

[dreamofdante]

Beauty depends on the eye of the beholder and it's what's on the inside that counts.

My insides aren't so good anymore either.

[MechaSniper]

Well make the best of your only life.

[dreamofdante]

Well make the best of your only life.

It's one more life than I deserve.

[MechaSniper]

My (so called) god!!! Really your going to go emo just because you dont have a gf or had sex?

[dreamofdante]

My (so called) god!!! Really your going to go emo just because you dont have a gf or had sex?

Well I've wanted to die since I was about 15 so I guess so. And I never will have those things so that's reason enough to punch the ticket early.

[MechaSniper]

How much patience do you have?

[dreamofdante]

How much patience do you have?

I could wait if I knew it was going to happen but it won't.

[MechaSniper]

But you don't know. No human being can tell the future. That is the point of life, to explore and experience the wonders of the world.

[dreamofdante]

But you don't know. No human being can tell the future. That is the point of life, to explore and experience the wonders of the world.

I've predicted the past four years.

[MechaSniper]

And predictions could be wrong. But you still lived those 4 years of your life and you now know what happened.

[dreamofdante]

And predictions could be wrong. But you still lived those 4 years of your life and you now know what happened.

Yeah I regret wasting those 4 years. I should've died back then.

[MechaSniper]

-_- not what i meant. I'm going to the forums. later.

[dreamofdante]

-_- not what i meant. I'm going to the forums. later.

Later

[Snowfall]

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Yes it's perfectly normal to be jealous. I think?

[maddogmj77]

Yes, but most of them are fake.

[dreamofdante]

Yes, but most of them are fake.

Why do you say that?

[AlexOnToast]

Why do you say that?

I agree with that statement. You have to take all those "I'm 13 and muh dick is 200 inches and my supermodel girlfriend has 10 pound titties and we get in on every night so so sexy, am I normal" with a pretty large pinch of salt.
But yeah, it's normal and fine to feel jelous. I feel the same when I read most of the posts on P101 because they make me feel insecure and inaddequate a lot of the time. But then I realise most of them are not entirely factual.

[Brown13]

i agree with that statement. You have to take all those "i'm 13 and muh dick is 200 inches and my supermodel girlfriend has 10 pound titties and we get in on every night so so sexy, am i normal" with a pretty large pinch of salt.
But yeah, it's normal and fine to feel jelous. I feel the same when i read most of the posts on p101 because they make me feel insecure and inaddequate a lot of the time. But then i realise most of them are not entirely factual.

preach!

[dreamofdante]

I agree with that statement. You have to take all those "I'm 13 and muh dick is 200 inches and my supermodel girlfriend has 10 pound titties and we get in on every night so so sexy, am I normal" with a pretty large pinch of salt.
But yeah, it's normal and fine to feel jelous. I feel the same when I read most of the posts on P101 because they make me feel insecure and inaddequate a lot of the time. But then I realise most of them are not entirely factual.

A lot of them probably are fake but a lot of them are being honest. I mean they can't all be lying that's just illogical. I mean even the 16 year olds make me feel insecure.

[Ben101]

Yes, I get jealous quite alot, but hey ho, It may happen one day.

[dreamofdante]

Yes, I get jealous quite alot, but hey ho, It may happen one day.

I'd like to think so but I'm doubtful.

[Croconaw]

Yes, although I highly doubt any of these sexual encounters are real.

[Karkat]

I don't believe you hahahahahahaha

Hey, you've still got your life ahead of you. My boyfriend lost his virginity at 21, so it could definitely happen. Don't get yourself down over it too much.

[dreamofdante]

Yes, although I highly doubt any of these sexual encounters are real.

Why do you say that? You think all these posts are lies?

[dreamofdante]

Hey, you've still got your life ahead of you. My boyfriend lost his virginity at 21, so it could definitely happen. Don't get yourself down over it too much.

I'm not an attractive guy and I've been trying like a son of a bi**h to try and lose it but I can't. I would say percentage wise I have a 2% chance. But thanks for saying I shouldn't get down over it.

[Croconaw]

Why do you say that? You think all these posts are lies?Not all of them, but a majority.

[dreamofdante]

Not all of them, but a majority.

A couple of them are but a lot of these people have no reason to lie, you know?

[Karkat]

I'm not an attractive guy and I've been trying like a son of a bi**h to try and lose it but I can't. I would say percentage wise I have a 2% chance. But thanks for saying I shouldn't get down over it.

To be honest, most people don't find my boyfriend attractive either. I mean I think he's handsome, and sexy, and wonderful, but that was kind of a thing that grew with time.

Attractiveness is pretty subjective. I don't think you look bad, but then again I'm generally not drawn to physical appearance. Besides, anyone who would want you for your looks over your personality isn't worth having.

If your only concern is about losing your virginity, I really don't know what to say there, unfortunately. I'm not exactly the greatest looking person out there either, ha. And my virginity is really a complex and strange story, so once again I'm 100% unhelpful there, but I can absolutely tell you that sex, while it is good, is a little overrated. Especially losing one's virginity. Honestly? Your first time is almost guaranteed to not be that great, so the actual sex that comes after should honestly be the goal IMO.

Sorry, I'm terrible at giving advice. Hope I didn't make things worse :whoops:

[dreamofdante]

To be honest, most people don't find my boyfriend attractive either. I mean I think he's handsome, and sexy, and wonderful, but that was kind of a thing that grew with time.

Attractiveness is pretty subjective. I don't think you look bad, but then again I'm generally not drawn to physical appearance. Besides, anyone who would want you for your looks over your personality isn't worth having.

If your only concern is about losing your virginity, I really don't know what to say there, unfortunately. I'm not exactly the greatest looking person out there either, ha. And my virginity is really a complex and strange story, so once again I'm 100% unhelpful there, but I can absolutely tell you that sex, while it is good, is a little overrated. Especially losing one's virginity. Honestly? Your first time is almost guaranteed to not be that great, so the actual sex that comes after should honestly be the goal IMO.

Sorry, I'm terrible at giving advice. Hope I didn't make things worse :whoops:

Lol you're fine and I appreciate the advice. I still don't really think it'll happen for me but I mean yeah I'm sure it's not the best thing in the world but it's something I would love to explore. And I'm up for hearing that complex and strange story if you ever get time. But yeah you're saying the sex that comes after the first. I'm lucky to get it once hahahah

[Karkat]

Lol you're fine and I appreciate the advice. I still don't really think it'll happen for me but I mean yeah I'm sure it's not the best thing in the world but it's something I would love to explore. And I'm up for hearing that complex and strange story if you ever get time. But yeah you're saying the sex that comes after the first. I'm lucky to get it once hahahah

I understand. :)

Well I can entirely revise it, I was just getting long in the first place, and it was kind of a non sequitur.

Summary: I was raped when I was 13, and it was due to a couple different reasons, but one of the major ones was racially charged, unfortunately.

The first time I had real, consensual sex was when I was 16, with my current boyfriend. (So really it was both of our first times)

So that's the short version.

Well, you never know. One way or another, it's something to look forward to, eh?

[dreamofdante]

I understand. :)

Well I can entirely revise it, I was just getting long in the first place, and it was kind of a non sequitur.

Summary: I was raped when I was 13, and it was due to a couple different reasons, but one of the major ones was racially charged, unfortunately.

The first time I had real, consensual sex was when I was 16, with my current boyfriend. (So really it was both of our first times)

So that's the short version.

Well, you never know. One way or another, it's something to look forward to, eh?

Aww well firstly I'm really sorry that happened to you. There's no excusing it no matter what...

But glad you guys worked out now.

Well it's nothing to look forward to if it never happens ;)

[Karkat]

Aww well firstly I'm really sorry that happened to you. There's no excusing it no matter what...

But glad you guys worked out now.

Well it's nothing to look forward to if it never happens ;)

No, there isn't. I almost feel like I'd have rather it been a stranger just randomly or something, because in hindsight I should've seen it coming, but I know it's not my fault. I've come to accept it, I've moved on, and learned to be able to enjoy sex. I didn't think I'd be able to.

Yeah, me too, haha. I'm glad I have him.

Well that's true. XD But sex shouldn't be a depressing subject either. Unless you don't like sex, I guess.

[dreamofdante]

No, there isn't. I almost feel like I'd have rather it been a stranger just randomly or something, because in hindsight I should've seen it coming, but I know it's not my fault. I've come to accept it, I've moved on, and learned to be able to enjoy sex. I didn't think I'd be able to.

Yeah, me too, haha. I'm glad I have him.

Well that's true. XD But sex shouldn't be a depressing subject either. Unless you don't like sex, I guess.

I'm happy you could because some people don't come back from it.

Yeah I'm happy for you.

It's depressing to me because I don't think I'm ever going to have it and I would very much like to have an active sex life. If it were remotely possible. Jealousy plays a big part.

[Karkat]

I'm happy you could because some people don't come back from it.

Yeah I'm happy for you.

It's depressing to me because I don't think I'm ever going to have it and I would very much like to have an active sex life. If it were remotely possible. Jealousy plays a big part.

Me too. In fact, I'm kind of proud of myself for overcoming it.

Oh I understand that a lot, actually. I mean, I may have a boyfriend and a sex life...But it's by no means active. Heck, our relationship is borderlining on long-distance, especially considering the fact that he doesn't have a working car, and I can't drive. That and I have to keep the relationship from my parents for another few months until we can move in together/etc. I'm planning on telling my parents once I get engaged, but if they knew now it'd seriously put my relationship at risk, because my parents are kind of unstable, and I can't trust them.

ANYWAYS, haha, point being that I can understand the jealousy. When I hear about my friends who live with their boyfriends, or who are supported by their parents when they're in relationships, etc, I get terribly jealous. And pretty depressed. I know the next year or so will go by fast, but it's hellish in the meantime.

[dreamofdante]

Me too. In fact, I'm kind of proud of myself for overcoming it.

Oh I understand that a lot, actually. I mean, I may have a boyfriend and a sex life...But it's by no means active. Heck, our relationship is borderlining on long-distance, especially considering the fact that he doesn't have a working car, and I can't drive. That and I have to keep the relationship from my parents for another few months until we can move in together/etc. I'm planning on telling my parents once I get engaged, but if they knew now it'd seriously put my relationship at risk, because my parents are kind of unstable, and I can't trust them.

ANYWAYS, haha, point being that I can understand the jealousy. When I hear about my friends who live with their boyfriends, or who are supported by their parents when they're in relationships, etc, I get terribly jealous. And pretty depressed. I know the next year or so will go by fast, but it's hellish in the meantime.

Yeah well at least you got a light at the end of the tunnel and things will work out soon enough. Some of us don't have that light. Some of us don't even have a match. Haha. Good for you guys though. I hope it turns out well.

[Karkat]

Yeah well at least you got a light at the end of the tunnel and things will work out soon enough. Some of us don't have that light. Some of us don't even have a match. Haha. Good for you guys though. I hope it turns out well.

And I understand that as well. Heck, I used to be in that position. I practically trademarked that position- I honestly can't imagine anyone whinier, more cynical, or just generally hard to put up with in the event of rejection/etc. than I used to be.

Best of luck anyways. :)

[dreamofdante]

And I understand that as well. Heck, I used to be in that position. I practically trademarked that position- I honestly can't imagine anyone whinier, more cynical, or just generally hard to put up with in the event of rejection/etc. than I used to be.

Best of luck anyways. :)

Thanks you too. And I checked your profile. You look fairly attractive and decently happy. Out of my league. So no worries I can see as you guys will be happy. Best of luck. Some people out there need happy lives.

[Karkat]

Thanks you too. And I checked your profile. You look fairly attractive and decently happy. Out of my league. So no worries I can see as you guys will be happy. Best of luck. Some people out there need happy lives.

Haha, thanks.

I wouldn't really consider myself 'ugly', but I don't really feel like I'm anything special, ya know?

And as for happiness, it comes and goes. Right now happiness is more of a destination, because the journey is a bit difficult to enjoy in my position, I try to make the most of it.

I think just about everyone deserves a happy life. Or at least a chance for one. Thank you, you too. :)

[dreamofdante]

Haha, thanks.

I wouldn't really consider myself 'ugly', but I don't really feel like I'm anything special, ya know?

And as for happiness, it comes and goes. Right now happiness is more of a destination, because the journey is a bit difficult to enjoy in my position, I try to make the most of it.

I think just about everyone deserves a happy life. Or at least a chance for one. Thank you, you too. :)

It sounds like you're going to end up fine. So congrats on that and best wishes. I probably won't be around long on here or elsewhere so I appreciate the chat. Best wishes.