Masturbating with friends

[NotQuiteANerd97]

I've never jerked off with a friend or been part of a circle jerk, but most boys here seem to have done it. My question is: how do you go from just chilling to beating your dicks. What leads up to it? Is it a matter of asking or do you just whip it out and have at it?

[Salad_Baby]

Yeah I was quite surprised to learn lots of other people have done it whilst I haven't. I think all my friends are too private for that..

[SillyShyGuy]

Haha well it is not that complicated to be honest. My first time was when I was 14. My friend and I have been planning to go to his house to play video games for a few weeks. After playing games for a while his mom and sister left the house. That is when my friend asked me if I want to see the bikini photos he had on his computer. He started rubbing himself through his pants and when he noticed me looking he asked if he wanted to wank together. I said yes and we took turns watching each other in his room. It was different with my other friend when we were both 17. I invited him to my house and I wanted to be the one to bring it up. We were talking about paintball while watching a movie with a girl who goes topless. Then my friend started scratching his privates through his shorts. Then I asked how big he was. We compared sizes and he was so shy. He let me feel his and I let him feel mine and he started to blush. Then I asked him if he ever wanked. He never did so I told him how. I shut my door because my whole family was home. I got an old shirt for us to cum on. Then we did what we did and he loved it. I guess it depends on how open your friends are and whether or not they are willing to experiment.

[Just JT]

I agree with SillyShyGuy
It all depends and also how close you are in your friendship
I've done it a few times with a friend, couple more that 2
Mostly we just start talkin about sex, end up looking at porn, end up getting hard obviously and then someone eventually has the nuts to say or do something like put their hands down their pants, and it's all over then
Reality is, if you think about it, it's pretty normal, and we're pretty much all just waiting for someone to open the door on the topic
Once the door is cracked open and everyone is thinking the same thing, just kinda happens

[Slashman1]

truth or dare lol it seems to work if your friends aren't going to back down from a challenge or just go for it and ask

[SillyShyGuy]

I agree with SillyShyGuy
It all depends and also how close you are in your friendship
I've done it a few times with a friend, couple more that 2
Mostly we just start talkin about sex, end up looking at porn, end up getting hard obviously and then someone eventually has the nuts to say or do something like put their hands down their pants, and it's all over then
Reality is, if you think about it, it's pretty normal, and we're pretty much all just waiting for someone to open the door on the topic
Once the door is cracked open and everyone is thinking the same thing, just kinda happens

Yes. Try not over think it. There is not need to make it awkward either. If it happens then go with it and enjoy it. When you know of a friend you want to try it with, just try to bring it up and see where it goes from there.

[Abhorrence]

This seems like you're asking for advice on how to masturbate with other people. This is not allowed. :locked: