Am i curious or is it puberty

[orin abdula]

I posted this in another forum but with the response I got its making it to. So read below and tell me what you think

I need help.

On Friday my I went to the gym with my friend and we worked out. He tied his crazy curly hairdo in one of those man buns and he had on a tank top and mesh pants. He looked very cute and sexy. So he was all sweaty and his boy stink turned me on.

On Saturday we went again to the gym this time he had a kickboxing sparring session and he was shirtless. OMG his body was so sexy and he had abs and his arms are so toned and defined but how can kid my age be so handsome and have an amazing body.

On sunday I realised I must be gay. I had to tell my parents somehow so I snuck him in my window while they were gone. We talked about what happened Saturday and he apologized for having sex with me and I lol and took his clothes off and we made out naked. So parents came home and we had cuddled together on top of my bed naked, parents came to look and he had falling asleep on my bed with me cuddled in his arms naked and parents walked in and so us cuddled together naked and everything is so stress free now for me but Mom is in tears and Dad hates me. They won't talk to me.

Someone suggested it may puberty instead of me being gay.

Edited out explicit details. - Abhorrence.

[Musichead2428]

Well it really all depends you could be gay for the way it sounds but at the same time your hormones are being released so it could be that but I highly doubt it's that it really does sound you like him so honestly Dont care what your parents say or feel about you because they're are just gonna have to accept who you are and who you like. Hope this helps in anyway [emoji4]

[orin abdula]

Well it really all depends you could be gay for the way it sounds but at the same time your hormones are being released so it could be that but I highly doubt it's that it really does sound you like him so honestly Dont care what your parents say or feel about you because they're are just gonna have to accept who you are and who you like. Hope this helps in anyway [emoji4]

I am in love with him but my parents aren't taking this well. I saw him this morning walking to school and got a huge boned looking at his outfit

[Salad_Baby]

Are you talking about my response? If so I was only raising the idea out of the fact that obviously I don't know the 'full story' of your relationship and/or how you feel. It's just that during puberty, many boys go through periods in which they feel a sexual attraction towards other men, regardless if they are gay or not. It's completely natural. I just wanted to ask to see if it had ever arisen in your mind, but in either case be whoever you want to be man - your parents will have to come to terms with how you are sooner or later.

[orin abdula]

Are you talking about my response? If so I was only raising the idea out of the fact that obviously I don't know the 'full story' of your relationship and/or how you feel. It's just that during puberty, many boys go through periods in which they feel a sexual attraction towards other men, regardless if they are gay or not. It's completely natural. I just wanted to ask to see if it had ever arisen in your mind, but in either case be whoever you want to be man - your parents will have to come to terms with how you are sooner or later.

Lol yes I was referring to your comment. Thanks still. But I just posted in the other topic how I cried all night cause my father called me faggot for sleeping with another boy naked.

[Musichead2428]

I am in love with him but my parents aren't taking this well. I saw him this morning walking to school and got a huge boned looking at his outfit


Well then you just be happy and in love there are a lot of people wish that can have your love that you feel now and you shouldn't care on what your dad or mom say. If you really can't take what they say then you should have a talk to them and tell them that your still their son you aren't they way you want them to be but your still their son and how you shouldn't be called a faggot by your own dad and should be accepted by them that your are still their son and nothing has changed.

[SillyShyGuy]

I think is a pretty unique experience for you to have. I wish I had that sort of experience. Well you should not worry what your parents think. If you are happy and you feel safe with him, then continue seeing him. I think it is cute. You can still be curious until you are positive you want to be gay or not.

[orin abdula]

Well then you just be happy and in love there are a lot of people wish that can have your love that you feel now and you shouldn't care on what your dad or mom say. If you really can't take what they say then you should have a talk to them and tell them that your still their son you aren't they way you want them to be but your still their son and how you shouldn't be called a faggot by your own dad and should be accepted by them that your are still their son and nothing has changed.

Thank you so much

[fast8]

Just be you don't worry about what others think some will come around some will always think its wrong there is nothing wrong as long you are happy do what you want

[orin abdula]

Just be you don't worry about what others think some will come around some will always think its wrong there is nothing wrong as long you are happy do what you want

He saw me today in restroom and we had a long chat. He and I have been friends for a while and wants to move slow. He explained I hurt his feelings letting him been seen nude by my parents and being used as bait. But I told him sorry and we kissed so where taking things slow

[fandom_king]

I believe that you appear to be sexually attracted to him. That would mean you're gay or bi or pan. If you're not sexually attracted to him, then you might not be gay or bi or pan, but you still could be.

[orin abdula]

I believe that you appear to be sexually attracted to him. That would mean you're gay or bi or pan. If you're not sexually attracted to him, then you might not be gay or bi or pan, but you still could be.

I think I am. I know I have feelings for him

[pconnor2001]

It is perfectly fine if you are gay. But since you are only 13 I wouldn't be concerned about labels.

[Slashman1]

i think being gay has more to do with what you feel towards a guy not just the sex

[orin abdula]

It is perfectly fine if you are gay. But since you are only 13 I wouldn't be concerned about labels.

Why not

[Zack2]

Why not

Maybe because we get turned on so easily.

[Ratman1234]

Do you have any sort of attraction to girls?

[orin abdula]

Do you have any sort of attraction to girls?

Not lately I have

[Abhorrence]

Puberty For Boys :arrow: Teen Sexuality & Gender.

[Ratman1234]

Not lately I have

Well then maybe you are gay.

[Jinglebottom]

Be proud of who you are!

[orin abdula]

Be proud of who you are!

I am very.

[Thylacine]

Dude no offense... But I think you have treated your parents unfairly. No parent wants to come home and find their 13 year old child in bed naked with their partner enjoying the afterglow. Talking to your parents is important, but this wasn't the way to go about it man.

I recommend you let your parents cool off, and then apologise. Take it slow with this guy, and don't worry about labelling yourself. You are only 13. Go easy on your parents... This will be a big shock. Know you are normal, but the shock treatment... Wasn't a good move.