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Tris
November 1st, 2015, 09:45 PM
Hello all.. soo I've been like this for like, a lot of my life and I'm wondering if anybody else is the same way.

When stuff goes wrong, I automatically fall apart and withdraw from everybody because I can't handle all the emotional stress. This mostly happens when it comes to social issues, like trying to gain friends, or friends backstabbing you, people being jerks to you..

I also find that when this happens, I feel like I don't have the energy at all to do things because I find it hard to trust others and I don't want things to go wrong. I try hard to make things work and help others but when things take a downfall, I lose my whole mind -.-

KidWithTheHeadband
November 2nd, 2015, 12:28 AM
Whenever I have a falling out with my family I shatter. I just end up burying myself in some things in order to just completely escape the situation for either just a few hours, or weeks on end.

It really sucks and is so ridiculously hard for me to explain. but yeah, I do feel that way.

soccerismylife
December 12th, 2015, 03:57 PM
Yup I been there and sometimes I feel like I'm the reason for someone leaving( friend Unfreinding me ) or loosing a friend. Like when my best friend died I felt that it was my fault even tho it wasn't..

CompleteNonsense
December 12th, 2015, 09:59 PM
I completely understand. I do the exact same thing. I immediately get a feeling like cold water going from the center of my chest and down into my fingers. It's like liquid despair in my veins. Then I shut down and put up walls.

Sherman
December 17th, 2015, 09:11 AM
I feel the same way socially. I am terrible at socializing and can't get myself to talk to those I don't know or to the person I like. Even when I have the perfect chance to do it, I always talk myself out of it and it leaves me very depressed when I come to realize that I had the chance to put myself out there, but I don't trust myself enough to do it.

JavierDolan
December 17th, 2015, 09:36 AM
Yep. I've had those days in the past. I still do. What you need to understand is that it's okay to feel like this. It's okay to have days where you want to be with just yourself. It's okay to have days where you can't handle anyone. You'll grow stronger from these experiences, and one day it'll all be over and you won't have to worry about it.