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Jcml27
November 1st, 2015, 06:24 PM
At the moment I have literally one friend, and I hate it.We both go to an all boys school and we are in each other's class but over the last while I think we've started to interact less. And because of that my life is incredibly boring. However, anytime I get the chance to talk to someone new, they either look at me like 'what is your problem?' Or 'do I know you?' Or I get nervous and start blabbering and to say they become disinterested would be and understatement. Yet, when I show interest in someone's life they never really seem to return the favour and that is frustrating, nevertheless I am a tad socially awkward. For example, my friend and I went to a nightclub for hallowe'en and the club closed at 1am but I was so out of my comfort zone that I left at 10.30 and this awkwardness stems from a relationship I had with my ex-girlfriend who is rather popular and hasn't even tried to talk to me since our break up whereas I think about her everyday and possibly I'm just afraid of showing interest in someone like I did with her and then getting hurt.

So what I'm basically asking from all that hokum above is how do I make my life less boring?

Salad_Baby
November 2nd, 2015, 12:45 PM
Well I'm not going to try and suggest what you should do within your school to make your life less boring, as obviously I don't know the full picture. I will however suggest making friends online - either it be through playing a particular game and regularly joining the same server to get to know the people on it, or by getting involved in a certain crowd or hobby and the associated people online. I've experienced both of these over the years, the first through making lots of friends on Left 4 Dead server, and the second through reddit. Both of which gave me friends who didn't judge me on my past or looks.

Hope this helps :P