Describe your first gay/lesbian crush

[NotQuiteANerd97]

I'm bisexual and I remember my first crush on a boy quite well. This was before I really came to terms with my sexuality, so this was an eye opening experience.

I met him in 8th grade. We had several classes together and we both ran on the cross country team. He was so handsome. He had dark hair, brown eyes, and a warm, low, sweet voice. He was tall, and had a great face and great body (seeing him in the locker room was a treat). He was smart, and incredibly nice. We were good friends and hung out a lot. To be blunt, he was the first boy I ever looked at and told myself "I wanna have sex with him".

He was straight and made it clear, so I couldn't exactly pursue a relationship, but yeah, it was a thrilling experience, and it brought me closer to finding out who I was

[Elysium]

My first crush was on a girl I met online years ago. It was mutual, which might've contributed. She was and still is so many amazing and incredible things, but the circumstances, which I won't get into, were against us. Besides, even if they hadn't been, it was my first real crush and I wasn't thinking about romance or my sexuality at all by that point, so I didn't realize it was a crush until much later when I was over it and recognized that I no longer felt for her the same way I used to. Luckily for me though, she's still one of my closest friends and she's changed my life in ways I never could've imagined. Besides, she's happier now than she ever would've been with me and I wouldn't trade that for anything.

[pjones]

He's smart, funny, easy to talk to and in my opinion incredibly cute. we have so much in common and are comfortable with each other. and he's been my best friend since we were 6 years old. he was flattered when i told him i had a crush on him when we had just turned 13. we had always loved each other like brothers so this was different. i was so happy when he accepted me, he was the first person i told that i was sexually attracted to boys.

[shamrockgirl02]

Well I first noticed that I really liked looking at girls when I was 8 or 9, and that led to me following around my older sister's friends like a little puppy when they would come over, but my first real crush was Bailey Robinson in the 4th grade. She had dark brown, almost black hair, green eyes, liquid white skin, and the cutest patch of freckles across her nose. I remember the day she invited me to her birthday party I almost fainted. She had been held back, so she was a year older, and I definitely noticed that she already wore a bra and had started to develop in places. And what I loved was that she was so physically affectionate; Bailey was always hugging me and kissing me on the cheek. I can confidently say that that girl is the reason why I started masturbating when I was 10. She moved 2 towns over at the end of the school year, but not before giving me my first kiss when we won the egg toss at school's end of year picnic. And as luck would have it, I ran into her this past summer and we ended up having quite a bit of fun together

[drhalsey1]

My first crush was on a boy I met at cub scouts when I was 9, I didn't know anything about sexuality or that it was possible to like the same gender, do I didn't understand my feelings for him until a couple years later. I had confirmed my sexuality when I was 11, and still saw him regularly at scouts, that's when I realized I had actually liked him the whole time. Unfortunately I had to move though when I was 12 so I haven't seen him at all

[Melodic]

My first girl crush was on my best friend at the time when I was 12. Problem my family and hers used to tease us about being gay for each other so I used to blow it off and convince myself that it wasn't true and I was just letting their teasing get to me. Then later on, other close friends suspected me and her had feelings for each other too. To be completely honest, I wouldn't be surprised if she comes out as at least bisexual herself later on just because I also feel like the feelings were mutual. But right now, she cares too much of what people think of her that I don't see it happening until after she graduates High School.

[Grisham]

My first crush for a boy was when i was 13-14. He was very cute, blond hair and great smile. We are friend so we passed a lot time together. But he was straight and had a girlfriend. So it was only a crush

[Abhorrence]

I can't really remember but I do remember having a huge crush on my best friend for a long time and I eventually dated him.

[Hudor]

The first guy I crushed upon was in grade nine. He is tall and has a deep voice and is kinda quite and reserved. I didn't even know I had crushed upon him properly until I started talking more to him and we became friends. But yeah like all my other crushes, this guy is also straight and has a gf now.

[Babs]

When I was 12-13 I had a short-lived crush on a girl who was on my swim team, way back when I still bothered with athletic endeavors. I and my taste in people have changed a lot since then. On the rare occasion that we cross paths she annoys the living shit out of me.

[Alexa Saph]

I had a crush on a girl when I was 9. I hadn't explored my sexuality until then, so that was when I began exploring it. I loved her, so I became sad because I didn't know what was happening to me. My mother saw I was down lately so she talked to me. I told her that I loved a girl. Fortunately she understood and accepted it well, and explained to me that it's normal that some girls like girls and guys like guys. I began to understand more about sexuality and I felt better. The girl is still my friend but I don't have the same feelings anymore. I guess it was kind of an awakening of my lesbian side :lol:

[Unknwn]

I've had crushes on both girls and boys, and I think the first crush I remember having was like when I was 7 and it was a girl. We were in the same class, and I just thought she was beautiful. Around that time though, I remember I was also curious about other boys, and I think my first actual full-on crush on another boy was when I was around 12. He was in my class, and he was one of the most popular kids at school. I thought he was really cool, and so I started falling for him. Around this time is where I also started thinking about my sexuality and how I identified. Over time though, I just kinda got over it. I never approached him or anything, but over time, we became friends, so I'm happy for that :)

[Slashman1]

i think the first time i noticed i had a crush on a guy was in 7th grade kind of late lol he was so tall and blonde and kind of a rebel with short hair and i was so short and still am lol i would try and sit as close as i could at the lunchroom to him and in class i didn't know why lol but now i finally get that i had a crush on him

[LITTLEANGEL19]

Around 9yo with a girl in my class :)