Mistake Relationship

[Rydar8]

Me and my GF have been dating for a month (exactly on Thursday), but were just not good together. We don't talk we walk together in the hallway in silence not even holding hands or anything. when we separate we hug but barely. I'm thinking about breaking up with her but is it to soon? I don't want to hurt her I still want to be friends with her, I don't want our friend group to break up but we just suck as a couple. I don't ever see myself getting married to her (at one point before we were dating I thought It might be possible but now its impossible) so were going to break up eventually do I do it now or do I get into a nothing relationship until we go to college (in fall 2017).I'm freaking out I'm crying a lot at the thought of us breaking up but I never wanted to ask her in the first place I only did because of the pressure my friends put on me a month ago, but if we do break up I cant guarantee we will still be friends. I'm just not happy in this relationship, she's had feelings for me for over a year and I have no feelings for her, I don't have feelings for anyone honestly. there just isn't a connection but I don't want to hurt her, that's honestly my first priority.

[Babs]

I don't think there is such a thing as "too soon" to break up. Why stay with a person you don't want to be with? Hell, you didn't even want to be with her in the first place.
You should be honest with her, although I would omit that part about never liking her in the first place. Say that you don't think you're right together, but you still wanna be friends.

[SillyShyGuy]

If neither of you are happy then it is time to end the relationship. If not you will be wasting each other's time. It is best to just end on good terms rather than carrying on miserably as you are.

[SethfromMI]

It does not sound like she is happy either. you guys should just try to be honest with each other and try to respectfully break up. you will both be happier. not all friends are able to date each other. some can, some don't. if you don't have the chemistry, you just don't have the chemistry, that's all

[Tesserax]

Okay, if she has feelings for you but you don't have them for her, you should never have done it even if your friends pressured you. But this will be a good lesson for both of you. You must make the decision now to do what you should do, and accept the consequences. She must learn that if you have feelings for somebody but it's not mutual, you can't force them to love you and she needs to learn to let go. You have to break up with her, and just deal with the fact that you've broken your heart. Show remorse, but don't let it get to you. Just be honest and say that you're sorry but it's not going to work. Hopefully she takes it well. If she doesn't then she doesn't really care about you, she just wants to fuck you basically.

[rioo]

girls always need a reason to broke up.

[Abhorrence]

If you want to break up with her then do it. There's no reason to continue on a relationship if you are not happy and you feel it isn't going anywhere. Just be civil and nice about it, have a discussion and come to a mutual agreement.

[Zachary G]

IF you arent feeling any connection with her and you have no true feelings for her, then you should release her from the commitment of being your girlfriend. You should have never given in to peer pressure to begin with and because you have, you have put your friendship with her in jeopardy. The best thing to do is to sit her down and to tell her that you feel that you are not ready for a relationship yet and need some time to really decide what it is you want to do. Let her know that you rushed into it not really thinking and that you want to preserve your friendship with her, but not be a couple. NO matter how you really put it, shes going to get hurt, even if you stay -- so, you have a decision to make.