Uncle

[Kjcj]

So my uncle is coming home for the weekend... like 2 years ago I found a picture of him naked and hung! Ever since then I really have dreamed about doing stuff with him like in bed.. not full on sex but I guess foreplay... my question is do you think I should bring it up to him or nah? Thanks in advance!

[Second Chance]

I would definitely say no to doing anything sexual with a family member. Assuming that this uncle is either your dad or mom's sibling, then I am sure your parents would freak out that someone a lot older than you is doing something sexual with you and that it would cause family problems. Stick to sexual things with someone your own age, and avoid sexual stuff with family members.

[Kjcj]

I would definitely say no to doing anything sexual with a family member. Assuming that this uncle is either your dad or mom's sibling, then I am sure your parents would freak out that someone a lot older than you is doing something sexual with you and that it would cause family problems. Stick to sexual things with someone your own age, and avoid sexual stuff with family members.

thanks for the Advice I just have funny feelings when he comes home or says he is coming home I deffinaty do not want him to tell my dad... that would be so awkward....

[Vermilion]

I would definitely say no to doing anything sexual with a family member. Assuming that this uncle is either your dad or mom's sibling, then I am sure your parents would freak out that someone a lot older than you is doing something sexual with you and that it would cause family problems. Stick to sexual things with someone your own age, and avoid sexual stuff with family members.

Agreed

[Just JT]

No.... No.... Don't act on this.....just no....

[Legoboy]

Its ok to look and think he's hot but especially if you are under age you could get the guy put in jail, break up your family all kinds of epic disastrousness.

[Zachary G]

Its not unusual to fantasize about a family member, it happens, but to act on it would cause a whole different set of issues and I dont think you would want anything like that to happen. Keep it to yourself, dont speak on it because it could make things awkward between the two of you.

[Just JT]

Yes, sorry, my first reply just.....well let's just say yeah it's ok to look, some guys are attracted to older guys and stuff. Even fantasize, I have myself, but being a close blood relative, think of the possible outcomes if something were to happen between the two of you and be discovered

Nothing good can come from that so just be really careful ok?

[Second Chance]

thanks for the Advice I just have funny feelings when he comes home or says he is coming home I deffinaty do not want him to tell my dad... that would be so awkward....

I can understand how you feel especially if the kind of equipment that your uncle has gets you interested. Assuming that the guy is really unusually developed down there, then you will obviously be curious. However, think of things this way: if you have a cousin your age and he/she did something with your father, then I am sure you would be really grossed out. Even if your uncle is close to your age, then it still would not be a good idea to do something with him. I suppose if the guy is really cool and laid back, then you can ask him puberty questions if he is comfortable. I just would not ask to do anything with him because that will seriously screw up your family especially with the parent who is not your uncle's sibling. It is normal to feel excited and be curious about what your uncle has especially if he is a young guy who looks like the ideal person in your mind, and your thoughts are not bad. I just would not act on them because that leads to problems.

This is going to sound really stupid, but how did you find a nude photograph of your uncle?

[soccerismylife]

I seen my uncle naked before but we just talked about sizes and Colors we didn't take any father then that. And you shouldn't !!!! It's illegal if he touches you and someone finds out. Just talk to him.

[SethfromMI]

No.... No.... Don't act on this.....just no....

I concur with JT. I would never mention it with him or any of your family for that matter

[Bluebyrd]

Not with your uncle!

[Uranus]

No just, no

[Jinglebottom]

ummmm

[CuteGuy889]

Its usual to have such feelings but as its a family member its better to keep them under wraps..

I too has an aunt like that...My mom used to keep me with her whn I was small. She gets me to undress to my undies before I start playing and at the end of the day she used to give me a bath personally...sometimes together with her daughters who were around my age...with all of us kids naked...

Still she seems unusually interested in me...She comments how fast I've grown...I skinny I used to be and how cute I look with a little weight on...And when we meet she always pats my butt or tummy....All these now make me blush...But somehow I seem to enjoy and look forward to this type of extra attention..

[JavierDolan]

Let us not forget that if he's older than 18 and you're younger, even if you consent, that's still statutory sexual abuse. Don't do that shit. Find a younger cousin or someone to do it with.

[AppleCider]

How messy.

[pascaldesla]

How old are you and how old is he?

[hairy balls]

don't even think about doing anything to lead him on if you happen to see him nude maybe look but don't stare or say anything about his penis and don't let on you found the photo I would actually destroy the pic

[Living For Love]

This is not puberty related. :locked: