Puberty talk to brother.

[Guycurious]

How would you go talking about puberty with your brother? Who has done the talk openly? Where did it lead to?

[Musichead2428]

Well I don't have any brothers but if your really want to talk to your brother about it bring it up like totally randomly and then start to ask what he knows and if he wants to know anything and then try to just really be chill I mean he's your brother it's not like he's gonna think your extremely weird for you doing it that's just you looking out for him

[Hudor]

I wouldn't want to give him the "talk". I think he'll go through a lot of sex ed sessions anyway. But if he's curious/confused about anything, I'll tell him whatever i think he needs to know. I would try to keep it light and casual and not exactly make it a super serious convo though.

[jacobe]

I've been wondering the same sort of deal for me and my bro so let me know what you end up doing and how it goes.

[jordan_matt]

Guess it depends how old he is. Im an only child and my dads divorced so its just us and guess that made it easier to talk since i saw him naked and boned alot growing up.

[Bluebyrd]

I haven't talked about puberty with anyone other than my best friend and in year 7 in school when we were learning about puberty.

[IHateShirts]

I would just bring up girls and go into sex casually, kinda like you would do with a friend, and he'll be interested and just talk to him about it and slowly go into more informative stuff

[Kjcj]

I would let my parents give the talk... I never got the talk and I think I turned out ok

[Vermilion]

Well I've kinda talked with my twin but it's been when with friends and all of us were talking

[Legoboy]

My foster bro has taught me a lot. That happened by just sharing a room, being naked around each other, boners , being aware of the other guy having a wank and you end up talking about stuff anyway.

And I've also learned a lot from talking to VT people about puberty and sex. So I actually said stupid things and friends corrected me or I just asked.

Also main school sex ed probably doesn't cover ANY gay stuff at all or very well. So you may be better at talking about that stuff than supposed adults.

So my advice is at least tell him you'll answer any questions if he any, like maybe just try that for starters and don't push it further and let him be confident that you'll help without teasing.

[Zachary G]

I dont have any sibs, but if I did, I would talk to him casually about it, kinda open it up to his asking questions -- you know, letting him know that I was available to him to talk to about anything he wanted and ensure to him that it would stay between the two of us.

[pjones]

if he's not asking questions i wouldn't bring it up. if he is asking, and you're not comfortable, there are lots of educational websites that you could print articles that answer his specific questions.

[Bull]

My brother, 16 months younger, and I talked openly about puberty. We lived on a cattle ranch so sex ed was a normal part of our lives with cows and bulls.

[SethfromMI]

I wouldn't want to give him the "talk". I think he'll go through a lot of sex ed sessions anyway. But if he's curious/confused about anything, I'll tell him whatever i think he needs to know. I would try to keep it light and casual and not exactly make it a super serious convo though.

I don't have a brother, but this is the best way to handle it. I guess I learned most things from the classes, friends, and just common sense/doing it. but be there for him and let him know if he ever has questions, you will be there to try to help him out

[Sean4U]

I am from a family of 4 boys and we all talk to each other about concerns like this. My older brother was very open with me and I agree that although its difficlut, if you have a good relationship then you can trust each other with the concerns you have. I also have twin brothers about 20 months younger who have come to both me and my brother with questions and it is best to be honest than to avoid because at least you will give them the factual information where friends may not either know the facts or BS through it.

Not sure what you mean by where did it lead. If you mean was there any "hands-on education" that is something only you and your brother can answer. Be very careful in this respect.

[colesixteen]

My brother and I are very open about everything. We can talk about anything, and in fact we have masturbated in front of each other and even together. It's no big deal and actually a really good thing.

[fandom_king]

I would sit him down and tell him you'd like to talk with him about it. The guys in my family are open about everything, so we've talked about it before. Honestly, I wish it had led to something physically sexual because I have a few sexual fantasies about family members

[ska8er]

ask him if he has any questions of stuff happening
to his body or feelings and c what he has to say-but
only if he brings something up.



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[KawaiiSamii]

Well if your real close with him. Tell him the things you were questioning at his age. And let him know that he shoudnt be guilty about anything. If you arent close tell him to look on the internet.