Should I Move On?

[David Vibes]

There's this girl I used to date, her names Cheyenne. When I first met her we were young, I was 15 and she was 13. We were at the talking stage, got into an argument and didn't see each other for like a year. One night I decided to message her and we started talking since that night. We finally started dating on January 17, 2015 and broke up July 5th. It's been 3 months and I still find myself going outside for a cig and just breaking down. Everything about her was perfect. She paid attention to me, treated me equal, was like a mentor to me, helped me stop my bad habits and of course the sex was great ha [emoji57]. She has a boyfriend already and I'm just here still single and still thinking about her. Idk, is it time I moved on and stopped thinking about her ?

[StoppingTom]

You're going to have to eventually, you know that. I've seen people stuck on exes from years ago, and it's really not healthy.

Obviously, it's rough, and I'm not saying you *shouldn't* be upset, these things take time. I would say just dive into everything you can, to distract yourself, and you'll find you've moved on eventually.

[David Vibes]

Yea you're right...i need to keep myself distracted. Already spent my check this week I'll probably go out with some friends next week. Thanks for the advice [emoji4]

[SillyShyGuy]

Yeah it might be time to move on. Just because you have good memories about her does not mean you should wait around for her forever. Cherish those memories and look for another girl to date.

[AutumnWinds]

There's this girl I used to date, her names Cheyenne. When I first met her we were young, I was 15 and she was 13. We were at the talking stage, got into an argument and didn't see each other for like a year. One night I decided to message her and we started talking since that night. We finally started dating on January 17, 2015 and broke up July 5th. It's been 3 months and I still find myself going outside for a cig and just breaking down. Everything about her was perfect. She paid attention to me, treated me equal, was like a mentor to me, helped me stop my bad habits and of course the sex was great ha [emoji57]. She has a boyfriend already and I'm just here still single and still thinking about her. Idk, is it time I moved on and stopped thinking about her ?

do you mind if i ask why you broke up? do you know how serious she and her bf are?

[David Vibes]

do you mind if i ask why you broke up? do you know how serious she and her bf are?
We had several reasons for breaking honestly. Two of the more serious reasons were our parents started arguing causing a family feud and during the last week of our relationship, I can't lie, I was starting to be more rude to her.

As for her and her new boyfriend, idk how serious they are. I don't have her as a friend on Facebook.

[AutumnWinds]

We had several reasons for breaking honestly. Two of the more serious reasons were our parents started arguing causing a family feud and during the last week of our relationship, I can't lie, I was starting to be more rude to her.

As for her and her new boyfriend, idk how serious they are. I don't have her as a friend on Facebook.

if you think you and she can fix the problems you had the first time around maybe you should take the chance, confess your feelings, and as for her to come back to you.

but keep in mind you're asking for a lot for her and it's very likely she will want to stick with what she's got. either way, once you ask her you'll have your answer, and you can either get back with her, or at least have the closure that you tried what you could. and in the case of the later, yeah, it's time to try and move on.