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Nightfall_
October 22nd, 2015, 10:12 AM
So, as a guy, there are a lot of non-sexual turn on's and turn off's girls do and Vice-versa. So, I want to start a post with girls and boys posting whats "hot" and whats "not" for girls and boys. Please be respectful of what you say and of other people's decisions as this is a very delicate subject. I'm starting this post purely for advice, not for trolling and bagging people out.

Thanks

Bull
October 22nd, 2015, 10:28 AM
Turn ON: Smiles, positive attitude, active in school and community events, knowledgeable about a lot of subjects. and I would be lying if I did not include looks.
Turn OFF: poor personal hygiene, always negative and argumentative, talking about people behind their back, spouts off about that which they know little or nothing, bad grammar and the over use of terms such as: "know what I mean", "uh", "like", "fuck", "shit", and other curse words with the absolute worse being the "taking of God's name in vain". Not really a "turn off" but I am personally not a fan of excessive piercings and tattoos. And in full disclosure: I have a piercing and my best friend has a tattoo.
All this pertains, for me, to both genders of all ages.

Nightfall_
October 22nd, 2015, 11:10 AM
Turn on's: lips, humor, personality, being comfortable

Turn off's: Bad attitude, Have problems with me being myself, problems with my friends, etc.

SillyShyGuy
October 22nd, 2015, 11:23 AM
Turn offs: When girls curse too much, girls that love vanity (selfies every day nonstop), duck faces, when girls wear Captain Jack Sparrow boots too much, girls who wear athletic clothes as casual attire (yoga pants, sports undies, sports shorts, sports bra, and under armor when they never work out), oversized earrings, overuse of makeup (unnecessary blush, eye shadow, eye liner, cover up), fake or penciled on eyebrows, surgery to enlarge private parts, when girls wear heels only to complain how much they hurt their feet, long nails, unnaturally tanned skin (spray on, tanning bed, sun tanning until you are orange, and if a girl says "Like" in every other sentence.

Turn ons: when a girl wears sneakers, when a girl hides her hands by pulling down her sleeves, girl with glasses and sunglasses, girls with braces, small chest, small bum, cute feet, soft hands, gorgeous smile, pretty hair, open mind, dirty humor, kinky, and talking nerdy to me.

I do not really care if a girl has perfect teeth or has a few crooked teeth.

Nightfall_
October 22nd, 2015, 11:34 AM
Turn offs: When girls curse too much, girls that love vanity (selfies every day nonstop), duck faces, when girls wear Captain Jack Sparrow boots too much, girls who wear athletic clothes as casual attire (yoga pants, sports undies, sports shorts, sports bra, and under armor when they never work out), oversized earrings, overuse of makeup (unnecessary blush, eye shadow, eye liner, cover up), fake or penciled on eyebrows, surgery to enlarge private parts, when girls wear heels only to complain how much they hurt their feet, long nails, unnaturally tanned skin (spray on, tanning bed, sun tanning until you are orange, and if a girl says "Like" in every other sentence.

Turn ons: when a girl wears sneakers, when a girl hides her hands by pulling down her sleeves, girl with glasses and sunglasses, girls with braces, small chest, small bum, cute feet, soft hands, gorgeous smile, pretty hair, open mind, dirty humor, kinky, and talking nerdy to me.

I do not really care if a girl has perfect teeth or has a few crooked teeth.

I'd like to formally change my answer to this one XD . this is actually perfectly describing everything (unlike me)

Hudor
October 22nd, 2015, 11:37 AM
What's hot: Positive quiet, reserved nature, confidence, good lips and eyes are some of the things that I find instantly attractive.
What's not: Bad breath, arrogance and a condescending attitude, excessive recklessness to the extent it is detrimental to the person itself.

SillyShyGuy
October 22nd, 2015, 11:37 AM
I'd like to formally change my answer to this one XD . this is actually perfectly describing everything (unlike me)

I am an open book. I feel I must be honest no matter what. Oh I should add that being spontaneous and adventurous is a turn on too.

TiorTristan
October 22nd, 2015, 10:47 PM
For me, I'd have to say eyes. I love girls with shining hazel-green eyes, a lot like mine actually, emerald outsides and browner near the pupils. Other than that, smile, hair, attitude, on the tomboy side, and just interesting to be with

Melodic
October 25th, 2015, 08:44 AM
Since I like both, I've combined a general one here for both genders.


Turn off(s): Emotionally/Physically abusive, arrogant, causing problems, no passions or goals, piercings other than ears or nose,

Turn on(s): sense of humor, adventurous, optimist, sensitive, kindhearted