I need help!!!

[Tesserax]

So basically, I'm going on a date. Probs just going to watch a movie, and maybe even dinner afterwards or something. I'm wondering, what's expected of me? I'm not planning on anything... sexual, that's not necessarily how I want it to go down, and I don't think she does either. She seems really nice, and we get along quite well but we haven't actually met yet. An admission which is a bit embarrassing, we met on Tinder, but it seems that we both had the same idea in mind; looking for something to potentially have a serious relationship with, not just to hook up for a night.

Anyway, I basically want to know what I'm expected to do, if anything at all. Am I expected to do anything in particular? Like should I pay for the meal or something? Also there's some important information; my parents are a little strict and I can't bring too much money or they'll get suspicious. Also, I need to try and keep this a secret from them (duh).

Anyway, thank you guys so much for reading, I have most of it figured out I just have never been on a date before and I need a little guidance, and from there I have it all sorted. Good luck to all of you on your ventures, and may you be guided for Eternity

[Nightfall_]

So. First things first. BE SAFE!!!! Meeting people on tumblr of all social network's is dangerous. Also, you don't know what she'll be like in person. Make sure when you meet your in a public place in case bad shit goes down.

Now to your question. Don't feel pressured into things. If she tries anything then, don't feel you have to do anything, and vice versa. If you feel she want's you to maybe do a after date kiss on the cheek or lips. But once again, don'f force things you aren't ready for.

Hope i helped

[hesaidhesaid]

You're kidding me right...met on Tinder (ugh online dating, what happened to MEETING people?!) But by any admission, be yourself and be genuine. Unless she says otherwise that she can afford to split the bill, unfortunately dinner is most likely on the guy. Don't make movements if you don't want them, and talk stuff that you have in common not the stuff you would discuss on Tinder.

I wish you all the best.

[Tesserax]

So. First things first. BE SAFE!!!! Meeting people on tumblr of all social network's is dangerous. Also, you don't know what she'll be like in person. Make sure when you meet your in a public place in case bad shit goes down.

Now to your question. Don't feel pressured into things. If she tries anything then, don't feel you have to do anything, and vice versa. If you feel she want's you to maybe do a after date kiss on the cheek or lips. But once again, don'f force things you aren't ready for.

Hope i helped

You're kidding me right...met on Tinder (ugh online dating, what happened to MEETING people?!) But by any admission, be yourself and be genuine. Unless she says otherwise that she can afford to split the bill, unfortunately dinner is most likely on the guy. Don't make movements if you don't want them, and talk stuff that you have in common not the stuff you would discuss on Tinder.

I wish you all the best.

Well, to both of you. I'm 100% sure it's safe with Tinder, particularly because we've actually talked over the phone, and we've actually talked a lot about ourselves and got to know each other quite well. Also, even on Tinder we didn't just talk about the "usual stuff", I don't even know what that is XD. On Tinder we actually got to know each other quite well, and that's when she gave me her number, and how I know that she's different from many other people :) Also yes, we're meeting in a public place so if I spy something fishy I'm going to be prepared and safe, so it's all good. Thanks for you advice though guys, I appreciate it :D

[hesaidhesaid]

You are so welcome. All the best. Let us know how it goes.
*massive bro hug for courage and luck*

[JellyJaffa]

Play it smooth, don't do anything rash. Just be like Vincent Vega in Pulp Fiction without all the heroine and OD'ing and stuff.
And bring enough money depending on the place you go, just remember how Mr Orange in Reservoir Dogs acted under stress he just started yapping, silence is terrible so keep talking.

[SillyShyGuy]

Congrats on your date. It does not matter if you met online or not, as long as you agree on what you want out of a relationship. Well you should be paying for at least half of the expenses if not more. If a girl is paying for more it means she is not into you. You do not need to do anything kinky. Just be kind. Tell her you like her shirt or shoes. Maybe hug her at the end of the night. Ask her lots of questions to get to know her better.