Going to an all guys' school

[cincibearcats11]

I go to a private all guys school, a sophomore now. I have connections to only two girls, whom were my neighbors until we moved about a half an hour away. A lot of the people I know somehow have girlfriends, yet I don't know how I can meet girls. I go to some football/basketball games, but there's really none of our sister school there. We don't have mixers either. When the weekend comes, I hang out with my guy friends. Has anyone else been in this situation at an all guys' school where you just can't get a girlfriend? And should I worry if I never have a girlfriend (or a first kiss :() until college?

[Synyster Shadows]

I don't go to an all-guys school but I can help with your other question. Don't worry if you don't have your first girlfriend or first kiss until college. It doesn't really after when you get a girlfriend. What matters is that, when you do, you've found the right girl and you love and care for each other. That's the important part

[Typhlosion]

You shouldn't worry about having relationships starting in college. If you really do, go to a mall with a more experienced friend to talk to girls. You know, that friend who is never single.

[drmindfreak]

i went to an all-boys school and we still meet them everywhere all the time: parties, school events, sports, friends of friends, someone elses gfs friends...
you just gotta be brave and talk to them

[Meganium]

I'm currently in your same position, AND it's a boarding school...

But there are other ways to contact girls aside from being in school with you. I'm sure you have some kind of access to malls or something, where you are guaranteed to meet girls.

But whatever your case, there is NO reason to be concerned if you don't kiss or date a girl before college at all. Or anytime afterwards for that matter. It's something that'll happen when it happens, and it should be one of the least of your concerns.

[Saint of Sinners]

Don't worry if you never met anybody yet. The important thing is that you find the right girl, not be the first one to get a girl. It's not a race:)

[charmynyankawaii]

All-boys school? My parents there attended to send me to an all-girls school just because my mom went to that school! :( Anyway I'm homeschooled how. What about you try going out to places where you might see girls? Like maybe at a shopping mall then if you see a group of girls then you might bump into someone and accidentally crash into them? As a girl I find that kind of situation cute but then I'm slightly considered weird so don't take it too seriously,... Now I'll try to be sensible. (￣◇￣;) If there is no sister school then what about you try going to some tuition classes? It has a double benefit, improving grades and maybe meeting someone. But it also depends on what type of girl you like. Do you play any music instrument? If yes try joining an orchestra or a choir of you're a vocalist. Do you have friends in co-ed schools? Try visiting your friends after school to hang out. Girls normally find a group of guys cuter and stuff. I can't think of much now, but if you need any advice feel free to PM me. （＾◇＾）

[DarkHorse4eva]

you shouldn't worry about girlfriends and first kiss. it'll come when it comes, don't worry. there's a chance that you won't get it before after college, but time will show

[ashdyn]

I actually went to the co-ed private school but all my friends at the all guy school didn't have trouble finding gf's. What actually happened was that all the hottest public school girls started trying to get with them lol make some guy friends that don't go to your school and go from there. Participate in more activities outside of school stuff.