Sexually frustrated and I hate being alive

[dreamofdante]

I'm too ugly for anyone to ever want sex with me. I'm pushing 20 years old and I haven't even kissed a girl. Sexually frustrated doesn't even do justice to how I'm feeling. I don't know how much longer I can go on feeling like this. I feel like an abomination.

[Nightfall_]

I know plenty of people that are like you. I know I may be young but you need to hang in there. Believe me when i say that out of all the 3.5 billion people in the world, one of them WILL love you, for you. So just be yourself, someone will find you eventually, I promise :D

[dreamofdante]

I know plenty of people that are like you. I know I may be young but you need to hang in there. Believe me when i say that out of all the 3.5 billion people in the world, one of them WILL love you, for you. So just be yourself, someone will find you eventually, I promise :D

Being myself is what makes people dislike me...

[lliam]

I guess the prob isn't that others don't like you, the real prob seems to be that you do not like yourself. Maybe you should be aware about it. Maybe it's your usual behavior, what causes people keeping away from you or such.

[dreamofdante]

I guess the prob isn't that others don't like you, the real prob seems to be that you do not like yourself. Maybe you should be aware about it. Maybe it's your usual behavior, what causes people keeping away from you or such.

Where do you think not liking myself stems from?

[Kuroshiro]

Believe me when i say that out of all the 3.5 billion people in the world, one of them WILL love you, for you.

There are actually around 7.3 billion people in the world, but it doesn't matter too much. Sorry for nitpicking your comment

[Nightfall_]

There are actually around 7.3 billion people in the world, but it doesn't matter too much. Sorry for nitpicking your comment

"roughly 3.5 million girl's" is what i meant XD. thanks for telling me :) .

[sqishy]

I'm too ugly for anyone to ever want sex with me. I'm pushing 20 years old and I haven't even kissed a girl. Sexually frustrated doesn't even do justice to how I'm feeling. I don't know how much longer I can go on feeling like this. I feel like an abomination.

I remember replying to a thread you made some time ago in late 2013. I never kissed anyone, and did not have sex yet. I have still not kissed anyone, and I still have not had sex. It has been bothering me recently regarding certain self-perceptual issues of value and possible Aspergers, but I don't let it get to me, and I know that I will find someone. It's not about rushing things, because I want the first time to be a special time. It will happen sooner than ever, and I accept that I can be upset about it, but I let the emotions pass and I feel better after. It is ok to not feel ok, as long as it is not the majority of what you feel. Acceptance is a powerful thing. I hope this helps.

[lliam]

Where do you think not liking myself stems from?

From your subjective view of the world or so. From where else?

Frustrations as yours most are based on such communicative deficits. This is at least my experience.

Of course I can't exclude that my pov is totally wrong. But accoring to your first post I only can relay my opinions based on personal impressions.

[johndoe1112]

I'm too ugly for anyone to ever want sex with me. I'm pushing 20 years old and I haven't even kissed a girl. Sexually frustrated doesn't even do justice to how I'm feeling. I don't know how much longer I can go on feeling like this. I feel like an abomination.
Theres always craigslist and ashley maddison for one night stands

[dreamofdante]

I remember replying to a thread you made some time ago in late 2013. I never kissed anyone, and did not have sex yet. I have still not kissed anyone, and I still have not had sex. It has been bothering me recently regarding certain self-perceptual issues of value and possible Aspergers, but I don't let it get to me, and I know that I will find someone. It's not about rushing things, because I want the first time to be a special time. It will happen sooner than ever, and I accept that I can be upset about it, but I let the emotions pass and I feel better after. It is ok to not feel ok, as long as it is not the majority of what you feel. Acceptance is a powerful thing. I hope this helps.

I understand what you mean and I'm sorry to hear things haven't changed...You're quite good looking so I don't know...I'm sorry.

From your subjective view of the world or so. From where else?

Frustrations as yours most are based on such communicative deficits. This is at least my experience.

Of course I can't exclude that my pov is totally wrong. But accoring to your first post I only can relay my opinions based on personal impressions.

Fair enough...

Theres always craigslist and ashley maddison for one night stands

I always get rejected on those sites.

[sqishy]

I understand what you mean and I'm sorry to hear things haven't changed...You're quite good looking so I don't know...I'm sorry.


I think most of us have (at least small) self-perceptual issues regarding personal appearance, like I don't think I look great, and I've known people who I thought did look great, who were similarly unsure about themselves.

[jssixna]

Keep looking & you must be patient! It's not an easy thing, but you have to be willing to wait for the girl. If you don't try to look around too, then that's why you're like this. Be persistent & have courage!