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Wheatley
October 20th, 2015, 10:52 PM
How can I get my best friend to agree to share nudes? I'm really interested to see him and possibly other friends naked, or at least their size. How did you approach the subject, and is it normal?

Thanks

Musichead2428
October 20th, 2015, 10:53 PM
I don't think this post is really against the rules so ??? I don't think it's appropriate

SillyShyGuy
October 20th, 2015, 10:55 PM
Do not attempt to send photos of that nature. You are underage and they will end up on the internet.

SethfromMI
October 20th, 2015, 10:56 PM
c'mon man, don't ask your friend for that. it will be likely you will see it at some point anyways when your changing, but that is totally besides the point. that is just something you should not really ask from your friend, unless you have that type of relationship where you do stuff like that

can't give you any advice though, I never asked someone for nudes and won't

Harrier
October 21st, 2015, 01:20 AM
Ya I've never heard of this before - two friends exchanging nudes. It doesn't sound smart, they'll eventually get around school and internet. Do you want that?! I even hate it when people here ask how do I get/persuade/trick my friend to show me his dick. That's lame enough IMO. Close friends see each other naked sooner or later. If you want to experiment that should be mutual without trying to talk him into it. But definitely no nude swapping, too dangerous. A kid on my team is basically a nudist and exhibitionist and even he wouldn't send nudes to guys.

Slashman1
October 21st, 2015, 02:23 AM
um ok how about instead of asking them for nudes which is a very bad idea try and actually see them nude in private like there house or yours not in a pic which is dangerous

Just JT
October 21st, 2015, 03:11 AM
In my opinion this is wrong on many levels dangerous inappropriate and against the rules
SethfromMI and Slashman1 give good advice here
I'd listen to them

Besides a picture is only worth a thousand words
The real thing is even better

Voluptarius
October 21st, 2015, 05:21 AM
Despite other poster's protests against sharing nudes, go for it. It's both your decision in doing so. Even drugs are illegal but doesn't stop other people from obtaining it. Even though nudes can be dangerous, avoid a face in the picture, or any distinctive body attributes that can link it to you. Saying it will "end up on the internet" is total bull. There is a small possibility of that happening but if it's just you and a close friend sharing them, that risk is low. Even dispose of the photo immediately after viewing as to not leave any evidence behind. Again, this is your choice to make but don't believe that it's wrong to do so. Just know the consequences beforehand and be prepared to deal with it if the situation turns sour.

OP, it depends on how close you are with your friend. With some friends, I expressed curiosity about their dicks and asked them how big they are. Again, "curious" is the word. Have the conversation change to sex and just simply ask, "hey man, I'm just curious but like, how big's your dick?" and have it come off as casual as possible. It's worked for me. But again, it also depends on how close you are with your friend. An acquaintance likely would not give up that info whereas a person you trust mutually might. Getting a picture though is loads more difficult. Even I haven't figured that out haha. But this can be the baseline of where you start.

This is entirely normal, at least to me, since you seem like you're still developing and exploring. Don't let other people tell you otherwise. Humans are naturally curious.

Again, I'm just advising you on this topic. I send nudes, I'm of age, I know what I'm getting into and none of them have ended up on the internet. I'm not stupid in doing so. It's stupid to think that this is a black or white situation.

AutumnWinds
October 21st, 2015, 07:02 AM
honestly, it's not worth the chance you;re gonna be taking, if you wanna see someone nude, why not show each other in person? that way you have no fear of other people seeing stuff you don't want them too.

JavierDolan
October 21st, 2015, 07:25 AM
Nope. Nope. Nope. Nope.

Seriously, I know you have your own free will and what not but do not send nudes if you are under the age of 18. If either of you are found to be in possession of such pictures, even if it is your own body, it is considered child pornography, WHICH IS A FEDERAL CRIME. Which you would receive a shit-storm, no, dildo-fuckstorm of consequences, my friend.

Let me reiterate, if you are ever convicted for this, there will be a dildo-fuckstorm of consequences

Also if you pressure your friend into sending you nudes of themselves isn't cool, man. Don't do that, okay? :yes::yes:

Cadanance00
October 21st, 2015, 09:28 AM
Not a real good idea. ^

Abhorrence
October 21st, 2015, 11:34 AM
This is not appropriate or puberty related. :locked: