How can you tell?

[SillyShyGuy]

So my friend from work Hayley and me have been getting to know each other better recently. She is very pretty. Italian. Black hair an dark colored skin. She is short and has a great sense of humor. We always joke around and make each other laugh. We get along really well.

One day she sees me working on a newsletter in the office and I was alone. She decides to come in and talk to me before she left for the day. She pulled up a chair close to me and we had a nice conversation. Then a few days later we are waiting to clock in for the day and I was in the office again. She lazily dropped her employee badge and did not want to pick it up. Then I jumped to the rescue and said, "oh no. Here, you dropped this." I leaned over and gave it back to her and our coworker laughed and said Aww. Hayley smiled and since then we get closer and closer. We just have not hugged or any other friendly touching.

How do I know if Hayley likes me? I do not have a crush on her, but if she does have a crush on me then I would like to ask her on a date. How can I tell if she likes me?

[SethfromMI]

So my friend from work Hayley and me have been getting to know each other better recently. She is very pretty. Italian. Black hair an dark colored skin. She is short and has a great sense of humor. We always joke around and make each other laugh. We get along really well.

One day she sees me working on a newsletter in the office and I was alone. She decides to come in and talk to me before she left for the day. She pulled up a chair close to me and we had a nice conversation. Then a few days later we are waiting to clock in for the day and I was in the office again. She lazily dropped her employee badge and did not want to pick it up. Then I jumped to the rescue and said, "oh no. Here, you dropped this." I leaned over and gave it back to her and our coworker laughed and said Aww. Hayley smiled and since then we get closer and closer. We just have not hugged or any other friendly touching.

How do I know if Hayley likes me? I do not have a crush on her, but if she does have a crush on me then I would like to ask her on a date. How can I tell if she likes me?

Well it sounds like she is interested, but I guess you could find out by asking her out for dinner or something sometime?

[Nightfall_]

Try doing some nonchalant things to find out if she's comfortable with you or likes you. For example, while sitting next to her, let your leg relax and touch her's. If she doesn't move away. Chances are she has the hot's for you. I'm not saying I'm some all powerful dating expert and this will 100% work, but, it's worth a try. Also, not trying to be rude, but, if you don't like her, you probably shouldn't ask her on a date. If you do like her than go for it but i don't think it would be wise to ask out a girl you don't have feelings for. Sorry of this didn't help.

[Hudor]

In my opinion, it's always better to become more friendly before you ask her out for a date. She seems to be interested in you but I would suggest you grow more close/friendly to her before you ask her out.

[ashdyn]

Well it sounds like she is interested, but I guess you could find out by asking her out for dinner or something sometime?

Seth's got the right idea. But don't make anything official. Start off completely informal like lunch since it just to find out where she's at. If she's not into it then it's just like y'all hung out.

[SillyShyGuy]

Try doing some nonchalant things to find out if she's comfortable with you or likes you. For example, while sitting next to her, let your leg relax and touch her's. If she doesn't move away. Chances are she has the hot's for you. I'm not saying I'm some all powerful dating expert and this will 100% work, but, it's worth a try. Also, not trying to be rude, but, if you don't like her, you probably shouldn't ask her on a date. If you do like her than go for it but i don't think it would be wise to ask out a girl you don't have feelings for. Sorry of this didn't help.

Thanks and I understand what you mean. I mean I will see if we connect a bit more and see where things go.

[kenoloor]

first of all, this yellow font business has got to stop. i can't read what you write without highlighting it and then it gives me the most hellish of headaches. please.

second of all, try this: "hey, want to go out sometime?"

[SillyShyGuy]

first of all, this yellow font business has got to stop. i can't read what you write without highlighting it and then it gives me the most hellish of headaches. please.

second of all, try this: "hey, want to go out sometime?"

Haha I am a total dork around girls I like. I usually get tongue tied and blurt out gibberish. I heard that you could also ask girls out without asking a question. My friend says things like "we should get a cup of coffee sometime" or "I really want to see that movie. Hey you know what we should go see that movie together." If it is not a question you are less likely to hear a No is what he tells me. Join my group :D