did I do anything wrong?

[Ifxzzy]

I recently started talking to this girl I met online and she said she was 15 but like 5 or 6 days later she tells me she's 13. I'm 16 btw should just stop talking to her?

[Vermilion]

It depends on how you are talking to her. Plus what you want. I'm mixed on the subject of age

[Zachary G]

I would say its an immediate red flag if she cant be honest enough with you to tell you how old she really is. If shes telling you one things today and then something totally different tomorrow, then somethings not right and I would suggest you just let that one go and move on, not looking back. ITS A TRAP!!!

[Ifxzzy]

It depends on how you are talking to her. Plus what you want. I'm mixed on the subject of age

I mean we've been talking about music and stuff and I don't want anything I guess just be friends

[Vermilion]

I mean we've been talking about music and stuff and I don't want anything I guess just be friends


I'd say as long as it's friends and you both are happy nothing wrong

[ObliviousCat]

If you guys are just friends...I guess it's up to you. Do you want to be friends with this particular person? Is she on your level of maturity, etc.? Age doesn't matter much in this situation because you guys are platonic. If you guys get along, there shouldn't be a problem.
Watch out for the dishonesty, though..

[pjones]

as long as what you talked about wasn't inappropriate i don't see anything wrong. just remember she wasn't honest up front, so be careful

[Emerald Dream]

Puberty for All :arrow: Family and Friends

This will probably get more responses here. :)

[SethfromMI]

I would say if you decide to keep it totally appropriate...that being said, if I were in your shoes, I would consider cutting her off. if she can't tell the truth of her age, that's not good. Like I said though, now that you know she is 13, def keep things appropriate

[NZPerson]

RED FLAG - Shes lied to you a few days into you knowing her, she will keep lying and maybe even cheat on you. I wouldnt trust her a bit.

[CupcakeLuv101]

If, one minute she's telling you she's 15, then the next minute she's telling you she's 13 who knows if she's even 13. Who knows if she even is a girl. Who knows who it is talking to you at the other end of the screen.

Personally, I may give her a chance because she might have a reason in wanting to hide her age in the first place. But if she's just constantly lying to you here and there then as others said I wouldn't trust her again either.

[AutumnWinds]

i don't think you did anything wrong. i think you should recognize that the girl is okay with lying though, and reevaluate if you think she is worth talking to based on that. also, as others said, i think you should try and figure out what you are looking for from her, because if it's anything serious it might be best not to start at all with someone who is so okay with lying to you. you know?

[PhandomMember]

If you're going to be just friends, it would be alright, if you are just talking about movies and music. But if she lied about her age, I wouldn't trust her. She could be hiding something.

[ImCoolBeans]

If she lied about her age who knows what else she lied about. I would just stop talking to her if I were you.

[EmilySmith]

Well I think she wants to be your friend and she lied to her age, because she was afraid yo would reject because of her age…

[Cadanance00]

Well I think she wants to be your friend and she lied to her age, because she was afraid yo would reject because of her age…

I think so. You have to forgive in a friendship. I don't see anything wrong with following up with her.