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Just a Guy
October 20th, 2015, 12:03 AM
I talk to a lot of guys and they all occasionally ask me to send nudes and I don't really feel comfortable sending them but I still want to talk to them, how do I say no to this?

Also I've done it before but I want to stop because I don't feel comfortable doing it. So how do I say I'm going to stop
Musichead2428
October 20th, 2015, 12:04 AM
You be straight forward about it Would help and don't be afraid to tell them because if they don't want to talk to you just because of that small factor then forget them or tell them sorry then we can talk simple as that you need to be straight forward about it
SillyShyGuy
October 20th, 2015, 12:27 AM
It is a trap. Whether you are a boy or a girl. You cannot trust anyone. You might risk having whatever you send posted on the internet permanently. Plus if you are under 18, it is illegal. Just you know, if you are a minor do not do it. Yeah
Guycurious
October 20th, 2015, 01:12 PM
Just be plain and say no
Cadanance00
October 20th, 2015, 02:11 PM
Last thing I would do is send a nudie to somebody I don't know. They're charging kids with child pornography for sending nudies to their bf/gfs.
Hudor
October 20th, 2015, 02:17 PM
Tell them straight up that you aren't comfortable sending nudes. If that's their sole interest in talking to you and they leave you'll probably be better off not talking to them I think.
Jinglebottom
October 20th, 2015, 02:36 PM
Don't do it. A girl in my school did it, her nudes got leaked and she was expelled.
ObliviousCat
October 20th, 2015, 02:54 PM
If I had a dime for every time someone asked or begged me for nudes...
I would usually just say "I'm good," or "No thanks," if this person was someone I just met. If they were a friend, though, I'd be less curt about it. "Sorry, but no. I'm not interested/comfortable/single." If this person really wants to get to know you and be friends with you (and maybe more) they'll still stick around.
Uranus
October 20th, 2015, 03:36 PM
*Types*
"No"
Hermes
October 20th, 2015, 03:52 PM
You're right to be vary of sending nudes. Once a picture or video is out on the Internet you can never get control of it again. In addition to where you know it has surfaced there can be many other places it has turned up and you don't know and you can never predict when it may show up to embarrass you of cause trouble.

When you say you "talk to guys" do you mean random guys you've met through some kind of chat room? If so, surely you would expect that the relative anonymity means you will get mostly people who just want to get off and, once they have done so, will disappear rather than people who want to get to know you and develop a friendship. If that's the kind of conversation you are having then just say "no". You can be polite "Sorry I don't do that" but it is still possible the person concerned will react by disappearing. If so, just find someone else.
ChaosEarthquake
October 20th, 2015, 04:29 PM
Please, please, PLEASE -- I cannot stress this enough--, DO NOT SEND NUDES.
I started when I was 9 on Omegle, and up until a few weeks ago, I have stopped.
I mainly stopped because two incidents from this has lead to rape and sexual abuse.
I always felt guilty afterwards, and I am still disgusted with myself for doing so.
Just say that you do not feel comfortable sending it, and if they are somehow your friend, tell them that you do not do that, and that it could somehow ruin your relationship.
pjones
October 20th, 2015, 05:42 PM
i tell them NO. if i don't ever hear from them again, guess what? good riddance
PaleBoy
October 20th, 2015, 06:22 PM
Just say "sorry, thatīs not what i am looking for/i am not interested in that"
sensitivity
October 21st, 2015, 01:28 PM
Just say no. There's no special way to say no to sending them, you just have to be firm, and can't be afraid to say no.
Bluebyrd
October 21st, 2015, 04:57 PM
Just say no; afterall it is illegal!
SethfromMI
October 21st, 2015, 06:11 PM
simply say it is not something I feel comfortable doing and I am not going do to it
Falcons_11
October 21st, 2015, 09:45 PM
Just say no; afterall it is illegal!

This is what I would do too...just say "NO" and let it go at that.
iChrisbtv96
October 22nd, 2015, 12:59 AM
yea dont do it. it's not good. just say u cant
Zachary G
October 22nd, 2015, 01:01 PM
Theres no way to be polite about saying No, but thats not your problem, its theres if they feel offended or get their feelings hurt by your saying that. No means NO and if they cant accept that, then you need to move on and let them go.
KingdomHearts
October 23rd, 2015, 06:43 AM
Theres no way to be polite about saying No, but thats not your problem, its theres if they feel offended or get their feelings hurt by your saying that. No means NO and if they cant accept that, then you need to move on and let them go.

This is great advice
Semi_IronMan
October 23rd, 2015, 12:04 PM
tell them no and tell them to go to the nearest hell
Bull
October 23rd, 2015, 12:41 PM
I talk to a lot of guys and they all occasionally ask me to send nudes and I don't really feel comfortable sending them but I still want to talk to them, how do I say no to this?

Also I've done it before but I want to stop because I don't feel comfortable doing it. So how do I say I'm going to stop

This should work, "Sorry, though I have done that in the past I no longer send nude pics. However, I hope we can still talk."
AutumnWinds
October 26th, 2015, 03:38 AM
I talk to a lot of guys and they all occasionally ask me to send nudes and I don't really feel comfortable sending them but I still want to talk to them, how do I say no to this?

Also I've done it before but I want to stop because I don't feel comfortable doing it. So how do I say I'm going to stop


the best thing you can do is be straight forward about your feelings.

regardless of what anyone might say, if someone does not respect what makes you comfortable, and what your boundaries are, they don't respect YOU, and why would you want to talk to someone like that?
NotQuiteANerd97
November 1st, 2015, 01:38 AM
Just be honest and tell them no means no. If they can't wrap their heads around that, ignore or block them.
Henri-K
November 1st, 2015, 03:14 AM
just nicely say no. I don't think its a good idea. its illegal if your under 18. my mum is very strict on this.... although I'm a nudist, I don't send stuff like that
JavierDolan
November 1st, 2015, 04:00 AM
Just say no. If they don't want to continue talking to you then they only ever wanted you for that purpose. This transcends gender and age as well.
Sean4U
November 1st, 2015, 09:04 PM
NO NO .... NO NO NO....NO NO NO NO There is no reason to even think about how to say it, just say it. As has been said, especially if they are someone you just met on line, it is very dangerous. You do not need your nude pictures thrown around the internet and you can be 95% sure that they most likely could. Enjoy chatting, find friends that just want to enjoy you're company.