Masturbation

[Teen Guy]

I'm 14 and I really want to jack off with someone most likely a friend and I'm not sure how to ask so my question is have you ever jacked off with a friend, how was it, and how did you ask?

[Voluptarius]

I have jacked off with a friend before, even went all the way with him years down the road BUT keep in mind on how it can harm the relationship between you guys. There's many things to think about. Are you close friends? Have you done any other intimate things with him? How do you think he will react when you ask him? If your friend says no, will he go and tell everyone you're coming onto him? Even if your friend was fine with it know that it can alter the relationship between you guys, as it did with mine.

We were both 13 and we were shooting the shit on msn (Wow. That's just proof I'm getting old). I told him previously I was bi and out of the blue he mentioned he was curious. I asked him if he was curious about trying things out with another guy. Eventually we agreed to experiment together. It was an alright experience. I wanted to do more but he didn't want to, understandable. But after that day I felt guilty that I pressured him into doing it. Whenever I saw him in the halls, I would think back to that day. Whenever we talked, that was always on my mind and I couldn't really see him in the same light anymore. And he couldn't too for some time. We both tried to push it out of our minds but it also resulted in us falling out as friends.

It took 5 years for us to finally sit down and talk it out. In the end our friendship has been fixed but imo, it's still fractured. We were once friends that went in a different direction of friendship. It went the awkward, weird way and not the "we bonded and got closer" way. Despite us being good friends now and those days are behind us, I can't help but have lingering thoughts on the sex.

So keep that in mind whether you want to keep him as a friend or risk losing/becoming closer with him.

[colesixteen]

i have done it lots of times with friends. one thing u can do is just start rubbing yourself when you are with your friend to see how he reacts. i have done that and sometimes my friends will start rubbing too or will ask what i am doing so we can start talking about it.

[harristhetank]

Make sure you know each other very well and it won't harm your friendship first. You could try playing 'truth or dare' or bring up the topic of porn and girls. Usually that would get guys really horny and guys do stupid things when they are horny. Try to get him watch porn with you and say you are too horny and need to jack off right now. He may join you with that!

[Legoboy]

I'd say really if he's interested I think just talk about sex stuff, maybe just start out seeing if he's cool to masturbate with you, then once you get into it offer to do it for him.

I had my first experience like this litearally a few days ago and after all this big build up in my head how to make it happen it was really easy.

[Zachary G]

I have masturbated with friends before and it really didnt harm the friendship, but we were young, so...

How it came about was the first time through a game of truth or dare, then anytime after that if someone wanted to they would just ask or use the disguise of truth or dare.

[Abhorrence]

Asking for advice on getting people to masturbate or do anything sexual with you is against the rules. :locked: