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shadyismytype
October 17th, 2015, 09:16 PM
I've known this guy for about a year now. I guess you can say he's a flirt, but he's not a cheater. I know that because he hasn't done anything with me except for flirt. He has a girlfriend, as you can probably assume from my previous sentence, and she is not me. Which is kind of my problem. Over the summer I got to know him more and I realized soon that I was really attracted to him. But he has a girlfriend, and I like to think I'm a pretty decent person so I told him I had to stop talking to him. He asked why and I told him that I liked him, then he told me not to stop talking to him because he feels the same way. That's when things got more complicated for me. As it stands now, he calls me his princess, and we hug a lot and are really touchy. Several people at school even think we're dating. The whole band believes that actually, which is like 400 people. Either way, we act more like a couple than he does with his actual girlfriend. So what I don't understand is why he isn't mine yet. I told him how I felt almost four months ago. I tried to move on several times but he keeps telling me he doesn't want to lose me. He's very two-faced, because whenever we're alone he's really nice but my friends tell me he's a real jerk. Sometime I wonder if I'm just the side chick.

SethfromMI
October 17th, 2015, 10:07 PM
well if he hasn't given up his girl friend but is treating you like his gf, that should be a red flag right there. but then again, you played the game knowing he had a gf. at any right, he needs to choose and move on, because it is def not fair for his gf

SillyShyGuy
October 17th, 2015, 11:19 PM
He is in fact a cheater if he is doing things with you behind his girlfriend's back. It is not your fault because if he really likes you the way you like him then he would have ended things with his girlfriend. Do not let him use you like that. Give him an ultimatum: it is you or his girlfriend. If he realizes what a catch you are he will choose you if not then he is missing out on dating a really nice person.

Legoboy
October 18th, 2015, 07:02 AM
If he's not as affectionate with his girlfriend and he really is into you and STILL hasn't dropped her he may just be scared of facing up to that.

Or your reading it wrong because you really want it to be more but he's actually friendzoned you (sorry).