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angiexoxo
October 16th, 2015, 11:25 PM
okay so basically in school i change for P.E. in a locker next to a girl whose name im going to change faith told me one of her friends liked me and i got really excited thinking it was a boy.I of course got really excited :D and then i asked her how cute he was (hey im a teen girl don't judge)and she said "well shes not bad" and all the sudden i was like well oh my god now you have to give me hints and i was like who who and then she said well she loves horses and i automatically knew who it was because,i had talked to her a few times i said Kathy and she just sort of nodded and i just went back to what i was doing.As i was doing my work i could not stop smiling i was so happy at the thought somebody had a crush on me:P. so after that faith told me to hang out with Kathy so i did and we talked about horses and anyways yeah we hung out more.Then one day i was eating lunch at my table doing my homework that i hadn't done and then faith comes running up to me saying angie Kathy needs to talk to you:D:D:D. i was just like what???? :what:: then i told her, can i wait till later im kind of busy doing homework right now? she was like just come and i said im doing homework:confused::confused::confused: and she says kathys going to ask you out and i said omg and i got up and left and she started stalling she finally asked me out with a whole lot of stutter and i said yes.After thst e started dating you know holding hands,hugging, i even went on my first date with her.The thing i felt nothing i don't feel nothing for her then not now either the reason i was so happy when i found out she was crushing on me was because i was questioning my sexuality and thought if she asked me out i could get some answers but really im just more confused.I feel so bad because i don't like her but you can see from a mile away she likes me.Alot of you might comment well then duh your straight but okay:i fell in love like not even kidding in love wit this one actor rammy melk when i saw him it was like a world opened up i obsessed over him i felt butterflies in my stomache when i saw him in tv (again don't judge teen girl here) i couldn't get enough of him he was like he was air to me (cheesy ikr) but then i saw this one actress and oh my god i swear it was like my world jus tlit up i saw her and it was like my vision cleared , i knew the secret to life, i could solve all the worlds problems the same feeling i felt for the actor but its like right now i have a crush on a guy in my class and i feel guilty because i have agirlfriend i just like as a friend .My best friend is going throught the same with her relationship shes straight and only sees her bf as a friend .I really don't know what i a am i bi and im just not attracted to my girlfriend or is that i don't like my girlfriend because im straight.Im sorry that its so long but okay that's it for now bye please

Legoboy
October 17th, 2015, 07:55 AM
Well it sounds like you maybe dated your girlfriend out of peer pressure and embarasement instead of actual romantic or sexual feelings.

If that is true then I think you should end things with her before you really hurt her. Like tell her you really like her but you just aren't into girls in the way you thought.

IDK I mean its tough but the longer you leave it its just going to hurt both of you I think.

angiexoxo
October 19th, 2015, 02:31 AM
your totally right i don't know how to break up with her shes so happy and shes going through so much right now