Why is everyone so lucky

[TheLivingLie]

I keep on reading all these stories about sleepovers that turn into sex and stuff and I don't mean to sound like a sit or anything but I do feel kinda jealous and I know that nothing like that would ever happen to me. Does any one else feel this way???

Oh and btw I live in London England and as far as I'm concerned that doesn't help me at all

[Elysium]

Teen Sexuality :arrow: Questions for Both

[The Trendy Wolf]

I keep on reading all these stories about sleepovers that turn into sex and stuff and I don't mean to sound like a sit or anything but I do feel kinda jealous and I know that nothing like that would ever happen to me. Does any one else feel this way???

Oh and btw I live in London England and as far as I'm concerned that doesn't help me at all

Jealousy is completely normal for many people in the world. Although, what jealousy does show is that those people will often have lower self-esteem or lessened self confidence, and those who trust themselves more are likely to congratulate those people rather than feeling bad about themselves.

[Badger]

Yeah, the forums here are full of sexual mischief... it's as if they are accomplishing every stereotype possible.

[Lord Of Curiosity]

I'm jealous too, but thats comepletly normal. you will just have to wait for your time just like me.

[scyth]

This forum seems to be filled with everyone I thought wouldn't be here ( not in accusing/bad way)
Just like I expected people here to defy the stereotypes but most seem to just live up to them :s

[dreamofdante]

I know what you mean. I read all these threads of 13 year olds getting lucky and I'm 18 and have never kissed a girl. It makes me feel like a loser.

[Zachary G]

I'm jealous too, but thats comepletly normal. you will just have to wait for your time just like me.

Couldnt have said it better myself.

[ryzzz9]

Yeaaaaah, I think I've mentioned this before on another thread but idk if I actually believe all the stories on here. Like I'm one of the most experienced ppl out of my real life friends, but compared to the ppl here on VT I'm a virgin.

[GreyGoldfish]

I keep on reading all these stories about sleepovers that turn into sex and stuff and I don't mean to sound like a sit or anything but I do feel kinda jealous and I know that nothing like that would ever happen to me. Does any one else feel this way???

Sometimes I wonder how much of it all is true. But I am super jealous if it is. I can't imagine any of my friends hooking up.

[ksdnfkfr]

From what I have seen in the long run a lot of these experiences dont last that long and do not end well.
There is a post about that right under this one as I write this.
I have read many older teens regretting things they did stuff before they were really ready.
It is easy to focus on best case scenarios as being "everyone" and to ignore the rest.

[Plasma]

I know what you mean. I read all these threads of 13 year olds getting lucky and I'm 18 and have never kissed a girl. It makes me feel like a loser.

Yeah.

[Saint of Sinners]

Well, It's natural to feel jealous. Just don't let it get to you or eat you up.

[Nomad_X]

I keep on reading all these stories about sleepovers that turn into sex and stuff and I don't mean to sound like a sit or anything but I do feel kinda jealous and I know that nothing like that would ever happen to me. Does any one else feel this way???

Oh and btw I live in London England and as far as I'm concerned that doesn't help me at all

MOst of the stuff that happens are sleepovers or between friends really just doesn't "just happen" usually someone has a ulterior motive and sets out on purpose to have stuff "happen"

[janiceturner]

That jealousy is really just you being a hormonal teen, haha. Perfectly normal. But you gotta remember that if you ever do think about having sex at a sleepover it might be something you'll later regret doing.

I got my first ever boyfriend from a sleepover but we were both sensible enough to avoid sex and just keep it sweet.

[Croconaw]

They could be lying. You don't know if that's true or not.

[jacklb99]

i know how you feel all my friends are not like that and nothing happens :(