Log in

View Full Version : Cum Question


Txfri1350
October 16th, 2015, 12:56 AM
So when I'm trying to jerk off & when I'm not watching porn its hard for me to cum... does this happen with anyone else?

SillyShyGuy
October 16th, 2015, 12:57 AM
That is strange. Watching that should make you cum quicker. Maybe it is because of something else like how often you jerk off or how horny you are.

Txfri1350
October 16th, 2015, 01:09 AM
That is strange. Watching that should make you cum quicker. Maybe it is because of something else like how often you jerk off or how horny you are.

there was a typo in my first post I fixed it now....

hesaidhesaid
October 16th, 2015, 01:35 AM
You're probably too exposed to porn...try jacking without it :)

Vermilion
October 16th, 2015, 01:53 AM
Stop jo for a while and stop porn for a bit to. It mite give your body a rest so that you can jo without it

paulo_13
October 16th, 2015, 03:13 AM
hey :)

Hermes
October 16th, 2015, 07:44 AM
It's a bit like saying all food is bitter after you have been used to diet of candy. Once you cut out the candy you start to find some natural foods (like fruit, for example) are sweet too, just not as extreme as the candy.

It's much the same with j/o and using porn every time. It is good to ring the changes about how you j/o, i.e. porn is fine sometimes but sometimes just use your imagination, maybe sometimes read some stories etc.

What I'd do is stop the porn completely for the moment. When jacking without it, if you don't cum don't worry about it, just leave it. Don't resort to the porn just to cum. Over a few days you'll get more horny and eventually you'll succeed in cumming without the porn. Once you've done that think about whether you want to use porn and, if you do, mix it with other things as above.

Henri-K
October 16th, 2015, 08:17 AM
not for me. I can always cum

Bluebyrd
October 16th, 2015, 08:31 AM
Not for me but it's certainly normal. The more aroused you are, the easier it is for you to cum.

Jthompson
October 16th, 2015, 09:12 AM
It's normal. You're so used to jerking off a certain way, jerking off the other way in a different situation might not make u cum

Sandybeaches
October 16th, 2015, 09:52 AM
Go as long as you can without porn, maybe you just need to have a brain reset or something

crazyBoyjJ
October 16th, 2015, 10:05 AM
Not that doesn't happen to me.

Cadanance00
October 16th, 2015, 10:27 AM
Reboot. Restart the program.

Musichead2428
October 16th, 2015, 02:19 PM
Ofcourse It's harder you have to keep this fantasy in your mind that has to stay in your mind through out the whole think while porn is just there to help you

Canadian Dream
October 16th, 2015, 07:25 PM
Sometimes if you watch too much porn you get too used to it. Try doing without for a little while and you should get used to it.

Crona
October 16th, 2015, 10:47 PM
take a break from porn for a while and the prblem should fix itself

The captain
October 17th, 2015, 02:25 PM
not for me...I'm not porn's fun, so I do it my way lol

Guycurious
October 17th, 2015, 04:27 PM
You're probably too exposed to porn...try jacking without it :)

This is true

iChrisbtv96
October 22nd, 2015, 01:08 AM
yes! I like need porn lol

VirtualAdam
October 22nd, 2015, 03:54 AM
I used to have the same problem... I thought I was addicted to porn...
Try jacking of with the porn and when you feel that the orgasm is coming, go to the toilet (without computer/ipad/iphone) and finish it there...
This helped me a lot, now I don't need any porn to cum...

Nightfall_
October 22nd, 2015, 11:06 AM
So when I'm trying to jerk off & when I'm not watching porn its hard for me to cum... does this happen with anyone else?

i reckon it happens to most boys that have watched porn several times because it becomes a sexual stimulant. I rely on it to help. of course this doesn't mean you'll have trouble while with your significant other. Just if your 'going clean' and want to stay away from porn

jordan_matt
October 23rd, 2015, 01:17 AM
i get alot or precum so i like to play stop and go that makes a huge load

SuperForever
October 24th, 2015, 08:51 AM
when i wanna cum, i can reach that within 1 min.

Peter737277
October 24th, 2015, 08:58 AM
That makes sense. Try jo without porn for a while until you can cum normally without it

JavierDolan
October 25th, 2015, 06:26 AM
This is true for me. Or at least it takes way longer. Maybe I just a lazy imagination or what, but it's almost impossible for me to cum without reading or watching something erotic.