I can't handle this anymore

[mjoy]

I'm so lost and stressed beyond the point of control. I work most of the week ,7 hour shifts after school , and when I don't I'm trying to play catch with missing work. my grades are dropping and for me its hard to be okay with it because most of the time I do fairly well. My mom and dad are constantly arguing or making up . everything is so up and down and the one thing I want is something steady and constant. I'm tired of being thrown surprises. Too make matters worse I can seem to shake this feeling of failing at all aspects of my life. I just can't seem to get this one guys attention or any for that matter. Just the rejection of everything is what hurts the most.

[TylerK]

Listen, don't worry about guys, get through school first. I used to get really stressed when I was overloaded with work, but I found finding a hobby really helped me. I started listening and playing music a lot, that is what really helps me. Finding a band or artist that you really really like and just lose yourself in the music. Music is honestly the #1 reliever of stress imo.

[theUnprofessional]

I'm so lost and stressed beyond the point of control. I work most of the week ,7 hour shifts after school , and when I don't I'm trying to play catch with missing work. my grades are dropping and for me its hard to be okay with it because most of the time I do fairly well. My mom and dad are constantly arguing or making up . everything is so up and down and the one thing I want is something steady and constant. I'm tired of being thrown surprises. Too make matters worse I can seem to shake this feeling of failing at all aspects of my life. I just can't seem to get this one guys attention or any for that matter. Just the rejection of everything is what hurts the most.

Now, I don't know anything about you so I'm going to just talk about my experience with this.

Life is made up surprises; the unexpected. Rejection and being ignored by other people is too, not everyone is seen or heard by everyone else. Simply move on or try harder to get their attention (to a certain extent). And school and a working after school? I know it's very stressful and painful, on top of the work and so on, it makes life hell(I had 3 hours of sleep everyday at one point, at school I could hardly focus). I was going through a similar thing until one day I realized that if I don't pull through and do what I was required to do, I wouldn't get anywhere I wanted to go.

[xXoblivionXx]

hey mjoy

Can you ask your boss if you can work shorter shifts? I can only imagine how egsausted and stressed you are. try to find a hobby or something to be your constant. for a me that used to be playing in orchestra but once i got into high school and we were being more professional that started to get a bit stressful so i found somehting else. Running. even though I wasn't a runner, I learned to run and now I try to run 3 miles or so everyday. it makes me feel good. And now when I'm low, instead of panicking or self harming I get the eurge to run.