Friend problem

[Alto]

Sorry if this is in the wrong area, but mods feel free to move it.

Anyways, so I'm either gay or bisexual, but that's besides the point. Only 3 of my friends know this and I constantly talk to only one of them because we're like brothers and I feel like I can tell him anything. I've been telling him about guys I like because I have no one else to tell and now that I've told someone, I don't want to keep my feelings hidden. I guess it feels liberating to tell someone your emotions. So he doesn't want to hear about it anymore but I still want to talk to someone. I don't know really what to do because I don't feel as comfortable with my other 2 friends that know.

Part of me wants to join my school's GSA to meet other people to talk to but I'm afraid of the implications of joining.

Any help is appreciated!

[TylerK]

Joining GSA is definitely a good start, back when I used to be bi (Probably just because of hormones), I would talk about guys with others on the internet, I found some good chat rooms and forums. All good places to start.

By the way, just wondering, you joined Jan 23 2011 but only have 2 posts? What's up with that bro? ;P

[SethfromMI]

well I would stop telling your friend if he asked you to. some are just not comfortable about talking about certain things and as a friend, even though it would be nice if he was there for you, you got to respect where he is coming from. as far as joining GSA go for it man, I think it could be a big help for you

[DoodleSnap]

If he doesn't want to talk about it, that's fine - you just have to respect his boundaries. If you're looking for some liberation, then I'm sure joining the school GSA and talking through some of your feelings would be a great start. Heck, there are plenty of places on here on VT to vent if that is what you're looking for.

Good luck.