Lost gf after only 3 weeks

[Sandybeaches]

So I started seeing this girl Sam a few weeks ago, my first real gf and she's great, funny, fit, cute, everything you could want. We just started kissing and that this week and I was really happy and loving it.

At the same time my older bro has had his gf for about 6 months and they are both 18, everytime they are in the house without my parents there they will have sex... I mean all the time, i've never caught them actually doing it thank god but my younger bro has seen them a couple....its just alot right?

Anyway today my gf came over after school so we could kiss some more and hang out at my house without my parents home watching over us all the time. Well i was getting into it, i even managed to get he to let my hand on her boobs :) ...over the top of clothes but it was my first ever touch so still amazing (and kinda difficult with a broken arm but whatever). I tried moving her hand to my boner over my cotton bottoms cuz i was feeling in a really lucky mood, she kept removing it a few times until she just said she really didn't want to. So i excuse myself to the bathroom cuz i figure i can get rid out it somehow on my own either by j/o or another way.

When i went out onto the landing all i can see across from me is my brother's super hot gf and for whatever reason she is in the bathroom bending over naked and i can see literally everything, before i know it can feel something starting, i make a weird noise so she turns around screams and slams the door. But i saw everything and could feel myself jizzing in my boxers :/

Sam has come running to see what the scream was and thinks i've pissed myself, i was like NO! but then realised i had to explain what it was if it wasn't pee, so i told her what happened. So basically she left and I've hid in my room since.

I don't know what to do. What do i say to her? What do i say to my bro's gf? Do i tell my bro? What do i do?

[SillyShyGuy]

Well you should tell your brother first and that you did not mean any harm. Just apologize to his gf if you see her again. As for your gf, if she is the kind of girl to remove your hands when you touch her it means to back away. I know it sucks. The first time I did what you did my gf pushed my hands off. She is not ready for that next step.

Your brother and his gf are 18. They have been dating longer and are more developed than you puberty wise. You should not be in a rush to do what he is doing at your age. Especially if this is your first gf, take things slow. Do not make her leave because all you want to do is what your brother does with his gf. If she does not know what happened in your pants, then explain the process. It means she is way to young if she does not know what premature cumming is. I think you should not do more than kissing at this point.

[Sandybeaches]

Well you should tell your brother first and that you did not mean any harm. Just apologize to his gf if you see her again. As for your gf, if she is the kind of girl to remove your hands when you touch her it means to back away. I know it sucks. The first time I did what you did my gf pushed my hands off. She is not ready for that next step.

This makes sense, I'm just not sure whether i want to yalk to them right away its so embarassing.

Your brother and his gf are 18. They have been dating longer and are more developed than you puberty wise. You should not be in a rush to do what he is doing at your age. Especially if this is your first gf, take things slow. Do not make her leave because all you want to do is what your brother does with his gf. If she does not know what happened in your pants, then explain the process. It means she is way to young if she does not know what premature cumming is. I think you should not do more than kissing at this point.
I don't think she didn't know what was happening, it was just the fact that i jizzed over my bro's gf

[SillyShyGuy]

Oh yeah that is pretty embarrassing. Well talk to somebody first and say it was an accident before the gf says something like "he was spying on me" or whatever. Well just tell your gf that you were super excited and about to burst like a water balloon. You could not help it seeing your brother's gf and lost control. Just tell your girlfriend that is comes out sooner or later :)

[DoodleSnap]

Yeah, I know it is embarrassing, but you have to be honest and clear with both your girlfriend, and your brother.

It is perfectly normal to have that kind of reaction to seeing someone, but you have to understand that your girlfriend might be upset that someone else caused that in you.
She clearly wasn't ready for more sexual touching, so you should respect her boundaries. If she doesn't want to do something, you have to respect that, and compromise between each other to find your comfort zones.
Don't feel pressured to get into sex stuff too early - as SillyShyGuy says, you are young, and still have lots to learn and develop. Never feel bad for not being ready, I had to turn down a situation that I wasn't ready for, but it was the right decision for me.

You should tell your brother what happened, and apologise, it may take time for him to understand, but that's okay.

Anyway, good luck. Just remember to be clear and honest.

[JellyJaffa]

I got to say first of all, good work. You managed to score at least 2nd/3rd base, secondly i get that you are embarrassed but you can pull through this like a trooper.
What you need to do is basically go and talk to your girlfriend and sort it out, and if she doesn't want to co-operate then walk away, just walk away like Robert De Niro in Heat, there are plenty of fish out there in the sea and you will be in the prime of your life in a couple years so don't let this hold you back.

And thirdly, the situation with you're brothers girlfriend i got to say i can't blame you especially if she was a 8 or up. To sort this out, you can probably wait till you're brother brings it up, honestly i wouldn't feel bad at all, sure you basically cummed right in front of her but she was naked so lets be honest she knew the risks.
So in conclusion, be confident and stand tall.