Friends

[Quin]

I feel like I'm losing friends but I try extremely hard to make more friends

Just thinking what's wrong with me

[Freckles]

Probly not anything wrong with you. I think the things we like change so maybe the friends you are losing are just into something else now. Also just because you don't spend as much time with them doesn't have to mean you lost them as a friend.

[Zachary G]

Probly not anything wrong with you. I think the things we like change so maybe the friends you are losing are just into something else now. Also just because you don't spend as much time with them doesn't have to mean you lost them as a friend.


Wise, very wise. Well spoken.

[AliceTaylor]

Its just a phase, don't stress yourself. I would suggest you do get involved in some recreational activities. You will be able to relax your mind and also make some more friends.

[Just JT]

Probly not anything wrong with you. I think the things we like change so maybe the friends you are losing are just into something else now. Also just because you don't spend as much time with them doesn't have to mean you lost them as a friend.

Wise, very wise. Well spoken.

Yes he did a great job at that...

When were younger we make "friends" based on similarities. As we grow up, through puberty, and beyond, we learn all kinds on new things, and develope new interests. Some friendships grow apart because of those interests. But you'll probably form new friendships based on your new found interests. You never know also, as life moves forward, your roads may very well cross again

So try and embrace it ok!?

[ImCoolBeans]

Probly not anything wrong with you. I think the things we like change so maybe the friends you are losing are just into something else now. Also just because you don't spend as much time with them doesn't have to mean you lost them as a friend.

Yes he did a great job at that...

When were younger we make "friends" based on similarities. As we grow up, through puberty, and beyond, we learn all kinds on new things, and develope new interests. Some friendships grow apart because of those interests. But you'll probably form new friendships based on your new found interests. You never know also, as life moves forward, your roads may very well cross again

So try and embrace it ok!?

Both of these members gave great advice.

Friends come and go throughout life because of this. And there usually comes a time where you grow apart from your childhood friends. Sometimes people who you were the closest to end up taking a very different path from you and you lose common interests and begin to not have as much in common. This could even be differences in personality as you mature. It is hard to say goodbye to friends or to see friendships grow apart, especially when you haven't made new friends yet, but you will in time. I've gone through similar phases before and it has always worked itself out eventually, many of my friends/people I know have as well. Don't worry, you're not the only person experiencing this.

[Just JT]

It can be hard to, I've even had friends here, in VT that were friends, talked a lot, and we're still friends, but have different interests, and backgrounds, likes etc. so we grew apart. It really hurts sometimes. But the other side is that the time you had with your friends were good times and should be rememberd that way. You really don't have a good way of knowing if you and another person are compatible as friends until you get to know them sometimes.

[Melodic]

I've experienced loads of friendships where we just drifted apart. I've experienced friendships where I was just being used. I've had friends become bullies. I've had friends who were there only when it was convenient to them. I've also screwed up and lost a couple friends myself. There are plenty of scenarios why you could've lost them.

Friends come and go and sometimes we just can't rely on all of them to be there to the end. But I can promise you that you will find those friends that are there for you no matter what. Sometimes it takes longer than others to find those friends.