What do you wish you knew......

[Cadanance00]

What do you know now that you wish you knew when you lost your virginity?

I'm going to lose mine soon and I don't want to look like a complete idiot. She has done it once before and it was a bad experience for her and I want it to be good so she'll like doing it.

[Jaffe]

Nothing really. The first time is an experiment, and it is really awkward. I don't think there is any way to avoid that. But if she has had a bad experience, then you have no competition, so just do it.

[SillyShyGuy]

I wish I knew that it is best to go slow because I finished in a few minutes.

[Zachary G]

I wish i knew the best way to make it not hurt so much the first time

[Cadanance00]

I wish i knew the best way to make it not hurt so much the first time

And that is??.......

[Zachary G]

And that is??.......

lots of lube and learning to relax your muscles

[Anomaly]

That it's awkward for both parties!

[Emerald Dream]

That it's not worth all the hype and peer pressure just to say you've had sex (and that you're not a virgin anymore). It's probably best to do yourself a favor and wait for someone who's worth sharing that experience with.