Orgasm that didn't feel good??

[Aidoon123]

Hey everyone.

So, the usual reason for masturbating came around, I got horny and decided to jerk off. Although recently, reaching orgasm doesn't feel as good! Just a while ago, I felt the orgasm as you do, and came, but I didn't feel any of the pleasure from it, like the relief you get in your penis, nor the small shudder/tingle you get through your body or the sudden sense of warmth, it felt completely empty like I hadn't even wanted to do it. Recently, this has happened several times during masturbation, some will feel good like always, and others will just completely suck. I don't masturbate too often, before this most recent incident *cough today cough* I hadn't wanked for 3 days as I didn't feel the need to, yet today when I got the urge it still didn't feel good. I rarely masturbate more than once a day and sometimes I don't do it everyday. Is it just I am getting bored subconsciously of it, or something entirely different?? I hope I'm not alone on this lol, don't want to be the freak that didn't enjoy each session. - A

[Rickmckay111]

I sometime get this like its soo annoying when you been wanking for ages and you barely orgasm....its normal i guess

[kev99]

Nothing strange. Sometimes it just doesn't feel great. I don't think you should worry too much about it.

[Just JT]

That happens sometimes, no worries, just wasn't as good as another time is all

[Bluebyrd]

Try doing it more often!

[pjones]

yeah sometimes it's not spectacular, nothing to worry about

[Hermes]

Firstly I don't think it is unusual to sometimes get orgasm that are a bit of a dud. I know I have had this happen occasionally.

Of course, many people here have reported that after not doing for several days the orgasm is often better but I think this is after several days of wanting to do but either not giving in or not having the opportunity. Several days of not really feeling like it is different.

I suspect something has caused you some stress, for example an upcoming exam, a job interview etc. and that stress caused you to not feel like masturbating. I also suspect your stress level wasn't completely back to normal when you started to feel like doing it again and that was the reason the orgasm wasn't much good.

Sometimes we can be very aware of getting stressed, other times it can be very much in the background. No-one can avoid all stress but as long as it comes in short bursts that is fine. It it carries on for long periods then it is time to find something to do about it.

BTW, the whole stress vs. horniness thing is supposed to be an instinct we share with other animals, i.e. breed when life is good and avoid breeding when life it hard. For many animals that would relate directly to the food supply so you breed when food is plentiful, not when it isn't.

[Guycurious]

Thats normal.

[Crona]

its pretty normal. if it keeps happening maybe you should try some different techniques so youre not just doing the same thing over and over again. cant really suggest any specific techniques but if you google it you shouldnt have any problem finding some new ones

[everlong]

It's normal. Try not doing it for a longer time, like a week or something.

[SillyShyGuy]

It does happen from time to time and can be caused by many contributing factors. Perhaps it is because you are not as horny as you might think you are when wanking. Or maybe it is because you are rushing your sessions, it is much better to pace yourself and try to last for a long time. Another might be that maybe you are not using lube to help you reach better orgasms.