Group masturbation

[MeliWelli]

While I have masturbated with a friend of mine a few times out of plain horniness, a lot of girls in my high school frequently do group masturbation. I've passed on invites for sleep overs where I know the girls like to do this, but am reconsidering... Have any of you done group masturbation, and if so why do you do it? Is it confined to watching others, or does it go beyond that? Also, is it something you find brings you closer together, or is purely physical? Do you normally share information or teach other things? Last, has there ever been a reason you didn't like it?

[LITTLEANGEL19]

I have done it with some girl friends we enjoy it. That's all am saying.

[Laibachd]

Have any of you done group masturbation, and if so why do you do it? Is it confined to watching others, or does it go beyond that? Also, is it something you find brings you closer together, or is purely physical? Do you normally share information or teach other things? Last, has there ever been a reason you didn't like it?

I have done it, it´s pletny of fun :)
With some of my most adventurous girlfriends i have gone beyond that, and i thnk it has brought us so much closer!

I never not liked it, and i think you should try :P

[Taryn98]

I don't understand group masturbation. It seems totally pointless to me. If I'm with someone else, then why don't we finger each other, not ourselves? Or better yet, we can do oral on each other.

[KellyNC]

I've never done it with more than a couple others at a time, but when it's happened we talked about techniques, what we're thinking about, and how close we are to having an orgasm. I think it can certainly make for more open friendships. I'm sure it could also lead to a more physical relationship, though that's only really something the group can decide between themselves.

[sweettayla]

I don't understand group masturbation. It seems totally pointless to me. If I'm with someone else, then why don't we finger each other, not ourselves? Or better yet, we can do oral on each other.
This.

[CLS02]

While I have masturbated with a friend of mine a few times out of plain horniness, a lot of girls in my high school frequently do group masturbation. I've passed on invites for sleep overs where I know the girls like to do this, but am reconsidering... Have any of you done group masturbation, and if so why do you do it? Is it confined to watching others, or does it go beyond that? Also, is it something you find brings you closer together, or is purely physical? Do you normally share information or teach other things? Last, has there ever been a reason you didn't like it?
OMG. I've thought about this before. And I get VERY nervous if I think about it too much, haahahaha. I think I would say yes if someone asked me, but there is no way I would suggest it first!

[Jennboh]

OMG. I've thought about this before. And I get VERY nervous if I think about it too much, haahahaha. I think I would say yes if someone asked me, but there is no way I would suggest it first!

Me too. I fantasize about it a lot.

[flowerchild]

I've never done it with more than a couple others at a time, but when it's happened we talked about techniques, what we're thinking about, and how close we are to having an orgasm. I think it can certainly make for more open friendships. I'm sure it could also lead to a more physical relationship, though that's only really something the group can decide between themselves.

Is it like weird seeing a few of your friends actually having an orgasm? ive never been in the room and like seen another girl have one, only in vids

[KellyNC]

Is it like weird seeing a few of your friends actually having an orgasm? ive never been in the room and like seen another girl have one, only in vids

It's a little weird, but very exciting and erotic. I've always thought it was just beautiful honestly.

[shamrockgirl02]

I've done it and it is EXTREMELY enjoyable. Most of the time it has made us closer. I agree with others that say it's worth trying, and if you're worried about how far it will go, you should be vocal about what's "too far" for you; either clearly set the line beforehand or ask the girl(s) to slow down when they start to cross the line

[LITTLEANGEL19]

It's a little weird, but very exciting and erotic. I've always thought it was just beautiful honestly.

Is it like weird seeing a few of your friends actually having an orgasm? ive never been in the room and like seen another girl have one, only in vids

We find it very exciting watching each other, and Kelly its not weird but make sure you can trust the girl/girls you are with. Hope you enjoy :) X

[MeliWelli]

Thanks for all the responses! I'm glad so many of you have had positive experiences. For me personally it would be hard to control myself and not do more, but I'm bi... Did you know/did it make a difference to you if your friend(s) were straight/bi/gay?

[CLS02]

Is it like weird seeing a few of your friends actually having an orgasm? ive never been in the room and like seen another girl have one, only in vids
Same with me! Even though I am pretty uncomfortable about this, at the same time I am also curious about it, and it makes me excited to imagine that I could be two feet away from another girl who is having an orgasm... Would I do it in front of another girl or other girls? Haahahahaha... First I would say oh hell no. But it IS exciting to think that someone would watch me as I do it. WOW!! It's very very very wild I think!!!

[Kristikia]

Same with me! Even though I am pretty uncomfortable about this, at the same time I am also curious about it, and it makes me excited to imagine that I could be two feet away from another girl who is having an orgasm... Would I do it in front of another girl or other girls? Haahahahaha... First I would say oh hell no. But it IS exciting to think that someone would watch me as I do it. WOW!! It's very very very wild I think!!!

If your friend asked you to do a group thing right now, would you??

[CLS02]

If your friend asked you to do a group thing right now, would you??
If I was super comfortable with her and trusted her that she would not tell anyone else, then I might do it with her. Super embarrassing tho, especially when my legs start shaking. DANG! I could not watch her eyes while she was watching me tho. OMG.

How about you, Kristi? If I asked you to do it with me, would you? Haahahaha

I can't believe I am even asking and commenting about this. I don't feel "dirty" but I feel wild tho.

[Kristikia]

If I was super comfortable with her and trusted her that she would not tell anyone else, then I might do it with her. Super embarrassing tho, especially when my legs start shaking. DANG! I could not watch her eyes while she was watching me tho. OMG.

How about you, Kristi? If I asked you to do it with me, would you? Haahahaha

I can't believe I am even asking and commenting about this. I don't feel "dirty" but I feel wild tho.


I probably would. But would you set rules or do we just let anything happen?

You're asking it because it's a secret desire, right?

[CLS02]

I probably would. But would you set rules or do we just let anything happen?

You're asking it because it's a secret desire, right?
Wow, secret desire? I didn't think about that. Haahahaha. I don't know. I guess I am curious to see how other girls do this and how they react to things, sure. I mean, it is one thing to watch videos but I know nearly all of that is staged or even a bit fake. But to be right there with someone is different and like very exciting I think.

Haahahaha... No rules!

[Kristikia]

Wow, secret desire? I didn't think about that. Haahahaha. I don't know. I guess I am curious to see how other girls do this and how they react to things, sure. I mean, it is one thing to watch videos but I know nearly all of that is staged or even a bit fake. But to be right there with someone is different and like very exciting I think.

Haahahaha... No rules!

I don't like watching videos because they're fake. I'm so curious to see if others do it like I do, and get the same reaction. Like my toes curling. Happens every time lol. Did you notice yours yet?

[CLS02]

:whoops:

Now you are all quiet! Haahahahaha. I don't know what to say either.

I don't like watching videos because they're fake. I'm so curious to see if others do it like I do, and get the same reaction. Like my toes curling. Happens every time lol. Did you notice yours yet?
Haahahahaha Nooooo. My toes are the last things I think about at that moment! You are sooo funny! Are you a foot person??

:)

[Kristikia]

Haahahahaha Nooooo. My toes are the last things I think about at that moment! You are sooo funny! Are you a foot person??

:)

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I wouldn't say I'm a foot person, but I need to be barefoot before I do it. Same with you? Like would you purposefully take your socks off before doing it?
I just really like how the orgasm makes my toes move without my control :p it's kind of weird but cool

[CLS02]

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I wouldn't say I'm a foot person, but I need to be barefoot before I do it. Same with you? Like would you purposefully take your socks off before doing it?
I just really like how the orgasm makes my toes move without my control :p it's kind of weird but cool
Dang girl... I only recently learned how to get an orgasm! Totally dumb, I know. But come to think about it, I have never had shoes or socks on when I've gotten an orgasm. Twice I was in one of my bikinis. Once I was in shorts. But all the rest of the times I am in a robe with only a sleepT or nothing at all underneath.

[sweet_girl24au]

I don't like watching videos because they're fake. I'm so curious to see if others do it like I do, and get the same reaction. Like my toes curling. Happens every time lol. Did you notice yours yet?

Haha sorry to jump in here I notice my toes curling every time :)

Dang girl... I only recently learned how to get an orgasm! Totally dumb, I know. But come to think about it, I have never had shoes or socks on when I've gotten an orgasm. Twice I was in one of my bikinis. Once I was in shorts. But all the rest of the times I am in a robe with only a sleepT or nothing at all underneath.

It's not dumb that you only learned recently it's cool that you read about it and then went and played :)

While I have masturbated with a friend of mine a few times out of plain horniness, a lot of girls in my high school frequently do group masturbation. I've passed on invites for sleep overs where I know the girls like to do this, but am reconsidering... Have any of you done group masturbation, and if so why do you do it? Is it confined to watching others, or does it go beyond that? Also, is it something you find brings you closer together, or is purely physical? Do you normally share information or teach other things? Last, has there ever been a reason you didn't like it?

I have never done it in a group....but people I know do.
I have a really good friend who stays over often and when she stays we often do it together at the same time and talk about the feelings that are happening but its only ever us two. And we don't cross any lines etc if you know what I mean...

[CLS02]

I have never done it in a group....but people I know do.
I have a really good friend who stays over often and when she stays we often do it together at the same time and talk about the feelings that are happening but its only ever us two. And we don't cross any lines etc if you know what I mean...
Rebecca, if I ever did anything like this in front of some other girl, it would be like the way you describe. I wouldn't ever allow myself to do it in front of several others. But one, really trusting girl, yeah probably. In fact, I kinda fantasize about that actually. You are exactly right!

[Kristikia]

Dang girl... I only recently learned how to get an orgasm! Totally dumb, I know. But come to think about it, I have never had shoes or socks on when I've gotten an orgasm. Twice I was in one of my bikinis. Once I was in shorts. But all the rest of the times I am in a robe with only a sleepT or nothing at all underneath.

I only recently learned how to as well haha. Do you end up taking it all off? I only do when I'm completely alone at home.

I think there is a benefit to being barefoot though, it's just that idea of being free. You seem to be barefoot most of the times judging by what you said, right?

[CLS02]

It's not dumb that you only learned recently it's cool that you read about it and then went and played :)
You are sweet. Thank you!

I call it "playing" also!! Totally cool!

Haha sorry to jump in here I notice my toes curling every time :)
Haahahahaha you and Kristi are soooo kewl beans about this. I am going to have to pay attention to my toes I guess. Now I'm totally curious about that!

[sweet_girl24au]

Rebecca, if I ever did anything like this in front of some other girl, it would be like the way you describe. I wouldn't ever allow myself to do it in front of several others. But one, really trusting girl, yeah probably. In fact, I kinda fantasize about that actually. You are exactly right!

Thank you :)

And yeah you gotta have the right friend who you can trust too.

The whole group thing would just be too much for me

[CLS02]

I only recently learned how to as well haha. Do you end up taking it all off? I only do when I'm completely alone at home.

I think there is a benefit to being barefoot though, it's just that idea of being free. You seem to be barefoot most of the times judging by what you said, right?
No. When I am here in my room, like I said, I usually always wear a robe. Sometimes nothing underneath, and sometimes only my panties and bra. But anyway, I keep my robe on because in case someone comes in or knocks, it will only be like 2 seconds to cover and "be presentable".

Two times my brother has walked in on me, coming through the bathroom we share that's between our bedrooms. Sometimes I forget to lock that door, and sometimes when I do lock the bathroom door, I forget to unlock it afterwards and he can't get in to the bathroom later, and so I get to hear about it. Usually in front of the parents. And I don't even want them thinking about what I might have been doing to need a locked door! Haahaha...

[Kristikia]

No. When I am here in my room, like I said, I usually always wear a robe. Sometimes nothing underneath, and sometimes only my panties and bra. But anyway, I keep my robe on because in case someone comes in or knocks, it will only be like 2 seconds to cover and "be presentable".

Two times my brother has walked in on me, coming through the bathroom we share that's between our bedrooms. Sometimes I forget to lock that door, and sometimes when I do lock the bathroom door, I forget to unlock it afterwards and he can't get in to the bathroom later, and so I get to hear about it. Usually in front of the parents. And I don't even want them thinking about what I might have been doing to need a locked door! Haahaha...

You know they are going to find out eventually..

[CLS02]

Thank you :)

And yeah you gotta have the right friend who you can trust too.

The whole group thing would just be too much for me
Totally agree. Maybe I should run an ad!

But seriously, I WISH I had a friend who I could trust like that, and who would trust me like that. But none of my girlfriends are people who I would ask to do that with me. I can see them running away screaming and thinking I'm a major dirty slut or something. Maybe when I and some of my friends are older and more mature to kinda talk about this, maybe then I'll find someone to do it with. I would actually like that, a lot.

You know they are going to find out eventually..
True, Kristi. But I am NOT going to make it easy for them to find out!! Haahahaha.

[sweet_girl24au]

Totally agree. Maybe I should run an ad!

But seriously, I WISH I had a friend who I could trust like that, and who would trust me like that. But none of my girlfriends are people who I would ask to do that with me. I can see them running away screaming and thinking I'm a major dirty slut or something. Maybe when I and some of my friends are older and more mature to kinda talk about this, maybe then I'll find someone to do it with. I would actually like that, a lot.

Haha exactly! I think that will come with age though....as more of your friends discover "it" then they might get a little curious and you might have the right friend by then ;)

[CLS02]

Haha exactly! I think that will come with age though....as more of your friends discover "it" then they might get a little curious and you might have the right friend by then ;)
It would be so cool to have a friend who I could trust like that and who would trust me like that as well. I would love that.

I'm sorry to interject but I just wanted to say your enthusiasm is adorable
So cool, Shamrock!! You sound like a grandmother -- I love it tho!! I guess I am wrapped up in this thought tho. Maybe I'm bi or something, haahahahaha! Or maybe I'm just a horndog.

I'm sorry to interject but I just wanted to say your enthusiasm is adorable


How about you, Shamrock. You are 13 right?? Have you ever done it in front of another girl? (Be HONEST, please!!)

[shamrockgirl02]

You are sweet. Thank you!

I call it "playing" also!! Totally cool!

Haahahahaha you and Kristi are soooo kewl beans about this. I am going to have to pay attention to my toes I guess. Now I'm totally curious about that!

So cool, Shamrock!! You sound like a grandmother -- I love it tho!! I guess I am wrapped up in this thought tho. Maybe I'm bi or something, haahahahaha! Or maybe I'm just a horndog.

I was just thinking that I was just as enthusiastic when I learned about orgasms. I got lucky though and learned a few years earlier cus I have sisters, although I would probably say I'm still just as wrapped up in it. It's a wonderful thing.

[Kristikia]

True, Kristi. But I am NOT going to make it easy for them to find out!! Haahahaha.

Have you ever thought of asking them? Sorry if it's just me asking you stuff btw!! You can ask me to haha

[CLS02]

Well to be honest, I've only thought about it only recently. So I wouldn't know which of my friends to ask, or even how to ask them. It's too nervousing to even think about.

Dang, that's not even a real word. Sorry...

[Cangirl]

So yes me and some of my gf's have done this before and it's a lot of fun. We talk about what we like and how we like doing it and show each other and sometimes we've tried one persons method all at once haha

With a few of them, we've gone past just doing it in front of each other and have helped each other to the big O lol

I think it's brought us closer as a group and especially with a few special friends for sure and its kinda like a secret bonding thing we have that we know about.

I was just thinking that I was just as enthusiastic when I learned about orgasms. I got lucky though and learned a few years earlier cus I have sisters, although I would probably say I'm still just as wrapped up in it. It's a wonderful thing.


having an older sister does help to learn things lol

[SkyClad33605]

I have done it a number of times with other girls on my swim team. It can lead to more but not always. We have never spoken any "rules" you just sorta read the room.

And there have been times when girls were at the sleepover who weren't into that, and we just found a quiet place to do it or didn't do it at all. No one wants to make anyone uncomfortable, and no one should be pressured.

[Emerald Dream]

Let's please remember that this is a puberty forum, and it is not for - inappropriate flirting with other members, storytelling or requests for storytelling, and attempts to blatantly steer topics towards outright back-and-forth sexchat. More than a few posts have been deleted from this thread, and honestly...since it's obvious that some of us can't have a puberty discussion without being inappropriate - I am locking it. Please review the P101 FAQ and General VT FAQ to understand what is appropriate to post in these forums. :locked: