Please Help Me

[PleaseH3lp]

Hey guys.

So I'm a Freshman boy currently dating (for the first time) a Sophmore girl for a little past 6 months. We don't go to the same school. I feel like we haven't been talking much lately face to face or electronically (she lives 20 minutes away so I only see her like 1 time a week). As well as that, my feelings just aren't as strong as they used to be.

Also, a (freshman) friend I've known for like 2 years and I have started talking a TON lately and I'm almost positive she likes me. I've learned that we have so much in common, same music taste, both are artists, like the same YouTube channels, etc. and I think I'm starting to get feelings for her.

If I do end up breaking it off with my current, which I might or might not do, I don't want to cut her out of my life completely and still be friends.

I'm just confused and scared I'm going to mess up my life. What do I do? How do I do? I've never done anything like this before and I need help!

Thanks and please reply ASAP

[SillyShyGuy]

I went through the same thing my freshman year. If your current girlfriend is not making the effort to talk to you and put her time into a relationship anymore then it is time to pull the plug. This girl that likes you is your chance to start anew and if she is making time to spend time with you then it is time to be with her, especially since you think she likes you.

After the first week in college a girl who lived down the hall of my dormitory asked to hang out together. We did the same things you did by talking about things in common: music, food and stuff.

At the end of the night she shut her laptop and said she had to tell me something even though she was not sure how I was going to react. She was scared to admit she liked me, but when she told me I felt warm inside m chest because I liked her as well. I thanked her for her honesty and said we should go on a date. That was my first real date in college.

My advice would be to date the new girl because she likes you and makes time for you and break up with your girlfriend. It is not worth it to keep her around.

[SethfromMI]

well if you don't love or really want to be with the person you are with now, it is not fair to keep pulling her along. it is hard to date someone when you don't see them regularly. be honest and be prepared if she does not want to be your friend once you break up.

as far as the new girl, if you like her and she likes you, go for it

[hesaidhesaid]

Go for someone who suits you better, makes you feel better and puts you in a better state. Ignore girls that don't do that.

[AutumnWinds]

it sounds to me like you already know what you want to do, and it's to date the next girl. my advice is to just be honest with your girlfriend and do it all sooner rather than later. it hurts like hell to be strong along, and any tie she spends with you is time she could be spending finding someone who is right for her, which isn't fair if you have no desire to be with her.

Hey guys.

So I'm a Freshman boy currently dating (for the first time) a Sophmore girl for a little past 6 months. We don't go to the same school. I feel like we haven't been talking much lately face to face or electronically (she lives 20 minutes away so I only see her like 1 time a week). As well as that, my feelings just aren't as strong as they used to be.

Also, a (freshman) friend I've known for like 2 years and I have started talking a TON lately and I'm almost positive she likes me. I've learned that we have so much in common, same music taste, both are artists, like the same YouTube channels, etc. and I think I'm starting to get feelings for her.

If I do end up breaking it off with my current, which I might or might not do, I don't want to cut her out of my life completely and still be friends.

I'm just confused and scared I'm going to mess up my life. What do I do? How do I do? I've never done anything like this before and I need help!

Thanks and please reply ASAP

[CupcakeLuv101]

Personally, I think if you break up with your old one but still want to remain "friends" she would understand if she was a TRUE friend. If she gets angry or upset then obviously she's not an easy-going person. Like the others said, it's best to be honest and just tell her the truth rather than just hiding it.