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[jacktvv]

I have a little cousin, he is 11 years old, I'm 17 i have a few questions i would like to ask.
So we moved from Az to Colorado & we used to live in his house for like 3 months, in that time i used to sleep in the couch & my little cousin used to sleep in the other one. He was 9 & i was 15 at that time.
But every morning i woke up, i would see him on top of me, like sometimes he would come and just sat there waiting for me to wake up, sometimes he was in the couch with me, inside the blankets (i didn't know how he got in with out me knowing) that used to be when we used to live in his house, when i was 16 & he was 10 i used to go to his house sometimes & chill & play video games etc; after we left his house my cousins little brother used to tell me that he used to cry because they wouldn't let him come sleepover to my house, or he would be mad all day. Sometimes when i go to his house he likes to sit next to me (always, if one of his brother's ever sit next to me he usually gets mad, and fights them and he just then sits next to me. Once he wanted to fight with me (wrestle) but he didn't want to like fight because he was like on top of me, and doing weird stuff. I once was sitting in the couch and he sat behind me with his legs spread in between my back, and he was hugging me helding me back and i was like wtf, then i started to just do nothing and he was still going, and i felt like a boner on my back & i knew it was my lil cousins i didn't know what to say i kinda like when he hugs me & stuff idk why. So my questions are.....

Do you guys think he might be gay?
Why does he always end up on my back?
Do you guys think i should tell him to stop?
Or what do you guys recommend doing in my case?

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[Brown13]

Before i give my full answer i want to ask a questions of my own. Could you explain a little more the "position"? Im not sure if thats allowed but i just wanted a better view of the situation

As for my partial answers: he might be gay but then again he could also just be very curious and just feel very comfortable about it with you. Same for your second question, he might just like that position. If you feel really uncomfortable then tell him to stop. Personally i think that is a bit inappropriate for him at that age but i cant really control what you do.

[casperathome]

Puppy love. I've heard of this before. It's when a younger, sibling, or cousin has a real attachment for some one a bit older who they admire and look up to. I don't know if your cousin has an older brother but if he doesn't then he looks to you as a 'God' and someone he wants to be like. I don't think he means to be gay in his actions at eleven he is probly not mature enough to understand what he is doing. Nice to be admired in such a loving way. Seems he is very sensitive. He'll probly grow out of it in a year or two. I doubt he is even aware that it appears gay...he probly isn't.

[Were]

He is just curious,just tell him to stop it,many kids do that

[jacktvv]

Yeah, he doesn't have a bigger brother but he does have smaller brothers, and i think your right because every time i go to his house & like i said he sits with me and stuff. His younger brothers be like look 2 twins, & my cousin just looks at me and laughs. He also hates when his brothers are near me. I don't really mind having him near me every time i like him allot i like him like if he was my little brother (I don't have a little brother). I once told him a secret that i wish i had a little brother, and his respond to me was if you want we can be brothers <3 i was shocked and i said sure. But yeah i like my little brother allot.