I dont know what to do...

[Maddiedog8]

So in computer class today, we all were getting are selves situated and ready for class. The new kid which btw is a foreign exchange student from Russia came into the room... immediately he made eye contact with me and as he got closer I got up and went to sharpen my pencil, I looked in the mirror and caught him looking at my butt and he did that eye brow thing with the smile, then I turned around he looked at my crotch :eek:. I played it off like nothing happened. he did the same thing as I walked by. I honestly don't know how to react cause he is cute but idk if he really is into me... :confused:
BTW 15/bi
sorry it was a long post

[refrigeratorx]

i think you should take a breath and think about the whole situation. If he is really into you he will try again. Maybe try to get to know him more before you think about all of that. If you don't know, just find a way to talk to him and potentially become friends and see where it goes from there!

[Maddiedog8]

i think you should take a breath and think about the whole situation. If he is really into you he will try again. Maybe try to get to know him more before you think about all of that. If you don't know, just find a way to talk to him and potentially become friends and see where it goes from there!

I would like to and ya know go on from there but im shy and people at my school are VERY I MEAN VERY judgmental about that kind of stuff soooo idk

[refrigeratorx]

exactly... so just be casual and test the waters. potentially make a friend and see where it goes. making friends with someone isnt something to judge. it is hard to approach someone with the purpose of trying to be friends. but if he gave u that look, it shouldnt be that hard xD

[ksdnfkfr]

Lucky you. I love Russian accents. looks like the start of a beautiful friendship to me.

[Jaseblader]

just ask him like whats up with that

[Living For Love]

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[jacktvv]

Get to know him better. It can be fun to experiment with people your age :)
But yeah know what he wants from you do.

[Maddiedog8]

i think you should take a breath and think about the whole situation. If he is really into you he will try again. Maybe try to get to know him more before you think about all of that. If you don't know, just find a way to talk to him and potentially become friends and see where it goes from there!

ok so I did try to talk to him today but instead I did the whole cliché thing and I attempted to bump into him and drop my books but I kinda bumped into the wrong person and fell on my face in front of the Russian guy :( ugh I have one more chance tomorrow... any ideas, I mean I don't wanna be weird and such.

[Brown13]

ok so I did try to talk to him today but instead I did the whole cliché thing and I attempted to bump into him and drop my books but I kinda bumped into the wrong person and fell on my face in front of the Russian guy :( ugh I have one more chance tomorrow... any ideas, I mean I don't wanna be weird and such.

the cliche thing to do is probably not the best approach. try your best to seem confident. i feel like there's a lack of confidence going on here

[Maddiedog8]

well its been a couple months now and the guy that looked at me is in fact an Italian exchange student at my school! and im literally in love with him everytime I see him i get nauseous and I think idk but I think he likes me not sure, how to I tell because he is always talking to me and always gets close and I mean CLOSER than he does with his friends. so how can I tell if he is gay and likes me?

[Dalcourt]

Russian or Italian? Should I be confused now? Are we still talking about the same person??
And you talk to him now...and he gets close? Well then ask him why or if he wants to hit on you. Then you will know.

[Maddiedog8]

Russian or Italian? Should I be confused now? Are we still talking about the same person??
And you talk to him now...and he gets close? Well then ask him why or if he wants to hit on you. Then you will know.

yes its the same person, he is Italian I thought he was Russian but no idk how I got those mixed up but im not bold enough to be like "why you all up in my grill"

[Dalcourt]

yes its the same person, he is Italian I thought he was Russian but no idk how I got those mixed up but im not bold enough to be like "why you all up in my grill"

yep, I know it's kinda tricky but that's the only way you will know. I usually do it in a laid back casual way that gives me the space to make it sound like a joke... hard to explain kinda, but it never fails...at least not for me.

[DiamondsGirl]

Ugh, I'd stay away from that guy. How is it love when the first thing he sees is your crotch? FWBs maybe. Real love? Tough. Good luck though this world is a crazy place.

[Croconaw]

I think he might be interested in you, but you need to find out first. It's really creepy because he looked at your crotch. I'd be scared if someone did that to me. Does he do anything else to you that shows he might like you?

[Body odah Man]

His itnerest seems a bit TOO blatant so watch out